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Russell Brand - everyone knew

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Mooshamoo · 18/09/2023 17:06

I was watching the comedian Katherine Ryan say to Louis theroux that a British comedian is a sexual perpetrator. It is now believed that she was talking about Russell brand. She said on the video "when it eventually comes out about these type of people, Harvey Weinstein, Bill Cosby, this unmentionable British personality, it turns out that everyone knew. Everyone knew. ".

I was wondering did anyone on here on mumsnet know anything about Russell brand? A lot of us lived in London when her was living there. And many women on here would have been a similar age to Russell brand . I lived in London for a year and I saw Russell brand out on a night out once. That was the extent of it. I was wondering did anyone on here have any experience with him, or know about a friend/acquaintance that had any experiences with him.

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Wittow · 18/09/2023 18:50

These "investigative journos" can't be up to much... in the Daily Mail they are reporting his wife as heavily pregnant with 3rd child due in November. You only have to watch a recent video on his insta to know the baby boy has already been born!

It must be dreadful for his wife to be going through all this right now, with a newborn.

Jk987 · 18/09/2023 18:50

There are many people who strongly disapprove of promiscuity. It doesn't matter if people think he's sleazy and repulsive or that he's a serial shagger. It only matters if he raped or sexually assaulted someone.

FishyPoisson · 18/09/2023 18:50

I reckon that there is some revolting and highly incriminating footage out there and that he has messed with some women who are very well connected. He's got his comeuppance coming.

lifeturnsonadime · 18/09/2023 18:51

Jk987 · 18/09/2023 18:50

There are many people who strongly disapprove of promiscuity. It doesn't matter if people think he's sleazy and repulsive or that he's a serial shagger. It only matters if he raped or sexually assaulted someone.

I believe them.

Mrburnshound · 18/09/2023 18:51

A non-close friend used to shag him in the 00s. It went on for what felt like ages. tbf she seemed ok with him/mentioned him positively. She stopped when she got a boyfriend. He used to pick her up from our house very late in an expensive car, never got out. I always found him gross

Raincloudsonasunnyday · 18/09/2023 18:51

Actually, I think trial by media for someone who has profited from the media is justifiable. The sheer hypocrisy, from the victim's perspective and from a bystander's perspective, makes a bad situation worse, especially in circumstances (which I don't think apply to RB, but it's a general point) where the credibility of any accusations may be doubted because of that person's public persona (Harris, Saville).

Play with fire, prepare to get burned. I'm sure all these men in the public eye know this, too. They can't not.

crumblingschools · 18/09/2023 18:51

With respect to animal abuse I was on a safer recruitment training course and looking at crimes that could appear on a DBS check and which ones would you be okay with when the person would be working with children (as not all crimes will disbar you). Animal abuse was a big no no, as there is a known link to abusing children

CherryMaDeara · 18/09/2023 18:51

FOJN · 18/09/2023 18:49

IANAL but I have been watching some legal analysis on lawtube.

One of the problems with the texts which the Times did not make clear is that the images they used are a graphic they mocked up.

They have also taken responsibility for verifying the texts, if they are mistaken about any of it then Brand would have a strong case for defamation.

Analysis of the graphic shows that some things have been redacted, not necessarily for nefarious reasons, so there may be some context missing. It's possible to read the texts as an apology for not using a condom rather than rape.

I'm not suggesting "Nadia" is lying just that these are the type of discussions happening with the lawtube community. I don't know if there is a statue of limitations for bringing rape charges in the US which is where the alleged crime, associated with the texts, occurred.

I think whether Brand attempts to sue will be quite revealing given that one of the defences for defamation is that the statements are true. If he doesn't I would interpret that as a tacit admission of guilt.

But as I said IANAL.

The messages have been published in full by The Times, including time stamps.

You’re clutching at straws

Russell Brand - everyone knew
Rewis · 18/09/2023 18:51

When Katherine said it there was a Reddit thread speculating and overwhelming majority said it was about Russell Brand

Physiologicalmalfunction · 18/09/2023 18:52

It's not the consensual sex with a 16 year old that's the issue. It's the coercion to lie to parents, the unconsented sexual assault and the holding down and spitting. That's the child abuse. It's the abuse of a child by an adult. It's the sexual abuse of a child by an adult.

regularmumnotacoolmum · 18/09/2023 18:52

@RockyBroadway What you are looking at isn't relative to this. You're looking at child abuse in the context of parental responsibility/child protection not rape and sexual assault hence the 4 categories of child abuse listed and the reference to being under the age of 18. I'm genuinely not trying to minimise the situation. I have significant experience in this field and the current allegations made against RB do not constitute child abuse in the eyes of the law. It is however a serious allegation of rape and sexual assault. It could be grooming depending upon the nuances of the relationship, how it began and how it continued during the time it lasted. It is certainly immoral. It is many things but what has been described doesn't constitute child abuse. I don't have anything more to add but as I said, the allegations and accounts are horrific - sensationalising and adding other accusations without basis will detract from the genuine and serious allegations which are those of rape and sexual assault. It could also compromise any ongoing criminal investigation now that it has been reported to the police.

YepYepYepYep · 18/09/2023 18:52

I've said this on one of the other RB threads but it's fascinating (in a sick way) to read old Mumsnet threads on Russel Brand. There are dozens of posters who say that they would have liked to have sex with him and then dozens saying he comes across as a creep.

maddening · 18/09/2023 18:53

How did he get so powerful that the BBC was acting as a pimp and bringing him school girls though? Which is on the news tonight. This was all at the start of his career - so not an established character surely that he had that much sway at the bbc?

bellac11 · 18/09/2023 18:53

lifeturnsonadime · 18/09/2023 18:47

It is though, as the CPS link now posted several times upthread demonstrates.

You may not have heard of it but it is a criminal offence.

Well I work with child and adult victims of child sexual abuse and people convicted of those offences so Im just saying Ive not known of offences against over 16s to be categorised that way

And referring to 13 year olds, that normally is categorised as a child sex offender (offender against children), so rape of a child.

Needsomebloodyperspective · 18/09/2023 18:55

Christ on a bike.

I was married to someone who vaginally and anally raped me. Before this we had consensual sex , I also had a child with him. No means no.

Merrymouse · 18/09/2023 18:55

CuriousPixie · 18/09/2023 17:39

I really dislike him and always have. But, I really hate the way these things are now a ‘trial by media’. Just go to the police from the get go before going to the papers.
And as much as I think he’s a total sleazeball I think he’s as much right to anonymity as his accusers/victims.
Let the proper channels and procedures deal with it instead of thus media circus. If he’s as guilty as they say he is then that’s the only way to get him locked up.

Just go to the police and what?

There are no rewards for reporting rape. Just perhaps a court case hanging over your head, if you are lucky. Can you really not see why somebody would choose not to go through that?

Because it had long been an open secret, eventually journalists found women who would speak, anonymously, and verified their stories. That may be all that ever happens.

bellac11 · 18/09/2023 18:55

RockyBroadway · 18/09/2023 18:49

His dad has been out defending him today.

I would say thats incredible but I suppose it isnt

Lifeomars · 18/09/2023 18:56

I used to find him quick witted and entertaining, read his first book in two days. Then he brought out his second book and I bought it on Kindle and felt quite uneasy and troubled after the first two chapters and never finished it, there was something about it that felt "off". I was also repulsed by the Andrew Sachs stuff and found it repellant. Then he fell off my radar until he cropped up on my YouTube feed. I watched a couple of minutes and thought "what is this madness?" and consigned him to my mental dustbin of yet another bonkers "celeb". So I can't claim that I had him down as a predator but I totally believe the woman and I think the floodgates have been opened and I hope that justice will prevail. I always loathed Saville, I remember years and years ago my dad who worked in PR, got me and my sister tickets for Top of the Pops and my mum being "over my dead body, those horrible old men on there aren't going anywhere near my daughters". A friend of mine worked for the BBC at the time when warnings were given out about never being alone with Rolf Harris which is shocking, the pervert should have been reported and dismissed. As women we have all encountered sleazy, abusive, manipulative and entitled men, it has gone on since the beginning of time and has caused so much trauma, pain and suffering.

GP78 · 18/09/2023 18:57

regularmumnotacoolmum · 18/09/2023 18:18

@GP78 but in this context, she isn't a child. The age of consent is 16. To sensationalise it by saying the rape is child abuse detracts from the actual allegation (which is horrible enough without the need to sensationalise it). I'm not trying to be difficult or minimise the allegations but it simply isn't child abuse unless the relationship began before she was 16.

You need to do some reading, in this context it absolutely would be viewed as child abuse under the law. No sensationalism, fact, don't take my word for it, look it up.

FOJN · 18/09/2023 18:57

CherryMaDeara · 18/09/2023 18:51

The messages have been published in full by The Times, including time stamps.

You’re clutching at straws

No that's a graphic designed by the Times. In the original print article it said so in very tiny print. It does not mean that anything contained within the graphic is made up just that they haven't included everything which could easily have been done to protect Nadia's anonymity.

Please don't try and start a fight because my emotions haven't got me reaching for my pitchfork. I'm as disgusted as anyone else.

MNetcurtains · 18/09/2023 18:57

henlee · 18/09/2023 18:42

The police are already investigating though? @MNetcurtains

I really doubt somone who feeds off feeling like he's adored is enjoying this kind of attention.

His tour has been cancelled, additional victims are speaking out. Even if the police investigation doesn't come to fruition there is some kind of justice in them being able to share their stories and having this "open secret" out in the open. Particularly for girls and women who will now be aware of how dangerous he is.

Hadn't heard his tour had been cancelled. All I heard was that he arrived at the venue last nigh to enthusiastic applause. Anyway, good!

Gwenhwyfar · 18/09/2023 18:58

Validus · 18/09/2023 17:24

It’s funny how ‘everyone’ says they knew when allegations are aired. Yet they were silent before…

Probably because you can be sued (or cancelled) for making allegations you can't prove.

PomPomSugar · 18/09/2023 18:58

ehupo7 · 18/09/2023 18:16

I don’t think that’s correct. 16 is the age of consent, and there’s nothing illegal about a 31 yo sleeping with a 16 yo, unless they are a teacher or care worker or in some other direct position of responsibility or authority.

That’s not to say it’s not sleazy and gross as fuck or that it shouldn’t be questioned. But it’s not ‘child abuse’ by any legal definition.

Is this a joke? So it’s only rape if it was a ‘teacher or care worker it in some other direct position of responsibility or authority’. Bullshit. He was in a position of authority, the authority being he was an adult 30 year old man. Jesus wept.

WinterDeWinter · 18/09/2023 18:58

In a country where rape is effectively decriminalised, ‘trial by media’ is women’s only chance of justice.

If the accusations don’t stand up, let him sue. That’s how the law works, and it’s becoming clear that he has used the threat of financial ruin to suppress all allegations for many, many years.

While we’re here, let’s have a little think about all the women whose assailants were not famous, and about whose rapes and assaults not even the papers care.

GP78 · 18/09/2023 18:59

regularmumnotacoolmum · 18/09/2023 18:18

@GP78 but in this context, she isn't a child. The age of consent is 16. To sensationalise it by saying the rape is child abuse detracts from the actual allegation (which is horrible enough without the need to sensationalise it). I'm not trying to be difficult or minimise the allegations but it simply isn't child abuse unless the relationship began before she was 16.

https://www.met.police.uk/advice/advice-and-information/caa/child-abuse/what-is-child-abuse/#:~:text=Child%20abuse%20is%20when%20anyone,abuse%2C%20sexual%20abuse%20and%20neglect.

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