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Russell Brand - everyone knew

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Mooshamoo · 18/09/2023 17:06

I was watching the comedian Katherine Ryan say to Louis theroux that a British comedian is a sexual perpetrator. It is now believed that she was talking about Russell brand. She said on the video "when it eventually comes out about these type of people, Harvey Weinstein, Bill Cosby, this unmentionable British personality, it turns out that everyone knew. Everyone knew. ".

I was wondering did anyone on here on mumsnet know anything about Russell brand? A lot of us lived in London when her was living there. And many women on here would have been a similar age to Russell brand . I lived in London for a year and I saw Russell brand out on a night out once. That was the extent of it. I was wondering did anyone on here have any experience with him, or know about a friend/acquaintance that had any experiences with him.

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RockyBroadway · 18/09/2023 18:39

bellac11 · 18/09/2023 18:38

If someone is convicted of raping a 16 or 17 year old, their offence is usually rape, not child sex offences/child rape.

Ive not known it to be categorised otherwise but it may be and I just havent seen it but quite frankly its not really the focus of the discussion is it?

Well it is, because the language we use is important.

Carpediemmakeitcount · 18/09/2023 18:39

Sureaseggs44 · 18/09/2023 17:30

Every one knew what? He was promiscuous, a sleaze ball , misogynistic, ? Out of control ? Well he never hid that did he ? He was inviting members of the audience back to his dressing room all the time , his assistant said women were throwing themselves at him .

But does that make him a rapist ?

Hopefully this will go throw the courts and this evidence will have a chance to be scrutinised.

I think what she means is everyone knew and allowed him to continue. They gave him the space the limelight. He like PS abused their position that's what is grotesque about this.

blankittyblank · 18/09/2023 18:40

MNetcurtains · 18/09/2023 18:38

I doubt there'll be a police investigation, but this has propelled him into the spotlight and, as one journalist stated today, this is feeding his ego and making him more 'relevant' than he would have been otherwise.

Police are investigating;

"Metropolitan Police investigates allegation of sexual assaultThe Metropolitan Police is investigating an allegation of sexual assault relating to Russell Brand.
Scotland Yard confirmed it had received a report of an attack alleged to have taken place against a woman in Soho in 2003."

From the Telegraph earlier today

NeedTheSeaside · 18/09/2023 18:42

PurpleChrayne · 18/09/2023 17:55

He sleazed onto a friend of mine and tried to get her to go on a date with him. She found him repulsive and refused. He was very persistent.

@PurpleChrayne

yeah, but so what? It's not illegal & he's never denied being a shagger.

henlee · 18/09/2023 18:42

MNetcurtains · 18/09/2023 18:38

I doubt there'll be a police investigation, but this has propelled him into the spotlight and, as one journalist stated today, this is feeding his ego and making him more 'relevant' than he would have been otherwise.

The police are already investigating though? @MNetcurtains

I really doubt somone who feeds off feeling like he's adored is enjoying this kind of attention.

His tour has been cancelled, additional victims are speaking out. Even if the police investigation doesn't come to fruition there is some kind of justice in them being able to share their stories and having this "open secret" out in the open. Particularly for girls and women who will now be aware of how dangerous he is.

suitcasecoveredincathair · 18/09/2023 18:43

Takoneko · 18/09/2023 17:51

He should have the same protection from unsubstantiated rumour as anyone else,
no more and no less. If this is unsubstantiated then he has the right to sue for libel. It would be a worrying restriction on press freedom if we prohibited this sort of investigative journalism. The journalists will have had to produce a lot of evidence to satisfy their lawyers that it was safe to go ahead and publish. If he thinks they’ve published without good enough evidence then Brand is as free as any other person to pursue a libel claim.

That’s exactly it, this is investigative journalism. The press looks into all sorts of things and it’s often how illegal actions come to light. We can’t ban that, imagine what the country would be like.

If you’ve watched the episode of Dispatches and read the reportage then you see that it’s not simply “he said/she said”, these are serious journalists who have checked these stories and verified the details that back them up.

Catastrophejane · 18/09/2023 18:43

squareyedannie · 18/09/2023 17:48

I read something today about his abuse of animals as a child, apparently, it's in his book.
In a country that prides itself on how we treat our pets, it's strange that it's only now being looked at.

This is interesting. I didn’t know he was cruel to animals.

That’s a well known indicator of an abusive person.

MNetcurtains · 18/09/2023 18:44

blankittyblank · 18/09/2023 18:40

Police are investigating;

"Metropolitan Police investigates allegation of sexual assaultThe Metropolitan Police is investigating an allegation of sexual assault relating to Russell Brand.
Scotland Yard confirmed it had received a report of an attack alleged to have taken place against a woman in Soho in 2003."

From the Telegraph earlier today

Good. I hope they can make it stick.

daisychain01 · 18/09/2023 18:44

He has always been a boastful, vile, self-professed letch, who hates women

He seemed to have some sort of Svengali effect on women who fell into the normal women's thought process of " he's a bad'un but I'm the one to change him".

Why else would women having anything to do with him. I can't see what the attraction was, he always looked a grubby self-opinionated non-entity, who was arrogant enough to think he was above any basic standards of decency.

randommum82 · 18/09/2023 18:44

Sister's friend was SAd by him years ago. Everyone knew about this unfunny, walking thesaurus in a uaed kebab shop wrapper

bellac11 · 18/09/2023 18:45

RockyBroadway · 18/09/2023 18:39

Well it is, because the language we use is important.

But its not categorised that in terms of what people get convicted of.

Takoneko · 18/09/2023 18:46

bellac11 · 18/09/2023 18:38

If someone is convicted of raping a 16 or 17 year old, their offence is usually rape, not child sex offences/child rape.

Ive not known it to be categorised otherwise but it may be and I just havent seen it but quite frankly its not really the focus of the discussion is it?

That’s also true of cases involving any child over the age of 13 though. The relevant cut off for categorisation of rape is not 16 but 13.

Raping a child is still child abuse, even if it’s just prosecuted as rape. Just like assault on a child is child abuse even if it is prosecuted as assault. It’s not the name of the offensive that makes it child abuse. It’s an abusive act perpetrated against a child.

helpyhelperton · 18/09/2023 18:46

A child is deemed anybody under the age of 18.

This is a fact, legally and morally.

You are very vulnerable at 16 and I believe for several years afterwards. A 30yr old man should NOT be having any kind of sexual relationship with someone so young. It's disgraceful, predatory and abusive.

Merrymouse · 18/09/2023 18:46

MNetcurtains · 18/09/2023 18:27

I think we can all agree that Brand is an utter sleazeball with an ego the size of a small planet. He is undoubtably loving all the publicity which is raising his otherwise insignificant profile. He only exists in an obscure internet podcast world and now he has been promoted into the MSM which he apparently eschews. Don't give it oxygen!

I think the issue is bigger than Brand. The behaviour was not only tolerated but allowed to become part of his routine (see conversation with Saville). When abuse of women is a joke, how does that affect our culture?

lifeturnsonadime · 18/09/2023 18:47

bellac11 · 18/09/2023 18:45

But its not categorised that in terms of what people get convicted of.

It is though, as the CPS link now posted several times upthread demonstrates.

You may not have heard of it but it is a criminal offence.

CherryMaDeara · 18/09/2023 18:47

TizerorFizz · 18/09/2023 17:13

London is a vast place! Maybe ask Sadie Frost and Kate Moss?

I could never understand why anyone would like him when he pushed his attitude right at women. He did a “Lock up your daughters” tour! What did anyone think he was about?

Are you victim blaming?

caban · 18/09/2023 18:47

Utterly bizarre that we're having an argument about whether abusing a 16 year old child is better than abusing a 15 year old child.

Chickenkeev · 18/09/2023 18:48

But it was still rape. It's gross(er) that she was 16. But it was still rape.

bellac11 · 18/09/2023 18:48

Catastrophejane · 18/09/2023 18:43

This is interesting. I didn’t know he was cruel to animals.

That’s a well known indicator of an abusive person.

It ties into what another poster said, that he was a victim of sexual abuse as well, children who harm animals are using being abused, Ive not known of a child who does that who isnt being abused.

Are his parents still alive?

RockyBroadway · 18/09/2023 18:48

bellac11 · 18/09/2023 18:45

But its not categorised that in terms of what people get convicted of.

That’s irrelevant, it’s still child abuse. Legally, morally and biologically. Even if the conviction is rape, it’s still child abuse. So the argument is about the language being used and that you can’t say it’s child abuse, but you can. Because it is.

RockyBroadway · 18/09/2023 18:49

bellac11 · 18/09/2023 18:48

It ties into what another poster said, that he was a victim of sexual abuse as well, children who harm animals are using being abused, Ive not known of a child who does that who isnt being abused.

Are his parents still alive?

His dad has been out defending him today.

lifeturnsonadime · 18/09/2023 18:49

caban · 18/09/2023 18:47

Utterly bizarre that we're having an argument about whether abusing a 16 year old child is better than abusing a 15 year old child.

Especially in the context of her account of his behaviour of picking her up from school and calling her 'the child' , etc.

FOJN · 18/09/2023 18:49

HamBone · 18/09/2023 18:24

Can anyone weigh in with some legal knowledge?

I would assume that the American lady with whom he exchanged texts apologizing for his behavior, will end up having a strong legal case.

What about the others? I’m guessing that it’ll be impossible to prove either way?

IANAL but I have been watching some legal analysis on lawtube.

One of the problems with the texts which the Times did not make clear is that the images they used are a graphic they mocked up.

They have also taken responsibility for verifying the texts, if they are mistaken about any of it then Brand would have a strong case for defamation.

Analysis of the graphic shows that some things have been redacted, not necessarily for nefarious reasons, so there may be some context missing. It's possible to read the texts as an apology for not using a condom rather than rape.

I'm not suggesting "Nadia" is lying just that these are the type of discussions happening with the lawtube community. I don't know if there is a statue of limitations for bringing rape charges in the US which is where the alleged crime, associated with the texts, occurred.

I think whether Brand attempts to sue will be quite revealing given that one of the defences for defamation is that the statements are true. If he doesn't I would interpret that as a tacit admission of guilt.

But as I said IANAL.

CherryMaDeara · 18/09/2023 18:49

Mooshamoo · 18/09/2023 17:30

To clarify on this point. I'll write in full what she actually said.

She says in the video to Louis theroux, that's she knows that there is a dangerous predator in the comedy industry in the UK.

Louis theroux says:"when you say predator what do you mean"

Katherine Ryan says: "I mean someone that is a perpetrator of sexual assault".

She goes on to say to Louis theroux:

"It's very dangerous for us to be having this conversation . I'm happy to have it. But it is a litigious minefield. Many people have tried to nail this person for their actions. But this person has very good lawyers".

She then says

"The thing is with these types of people, Harvey Weinstein, bill Cosby, this unmentionable British personality, when it eventually comes out, it turns out that everyone knew. Everyone knew"

Danii Minogue called RB a sexual predator who takes it too far back in 2006.

No one gave a shit, not MTV, not Channel 4, not Endemol, no one.

Catastrophejane · 18/09/2023 18:49

HamBone · 18/09/2023 18:24

Can anyone weigh in with some legal knowledge?

I would assume that the American lady with whom he exchanged texts apologizing for his behavior, will end up having a strong legal case.

What about the others? I’m guessing that it’ll be impossible to prove either way?

Corroboration is one way of proving likelihood of guilt.

If one person makes a complaint, but the defendant has an unblemished character, then it’s more difficult to prove ( it’s one person’s word against an other)

but if you have several complainants with similar stories, then it can demonstrate a pattern of behaviour. That kind of case has a far better chance of being successful.

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