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To think all imminent parents should be given free training on how child and teen brains develop, change and work?

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JFDIYOLO · 17/09/2023 07:39

This is a really interesting article on the massive changes adolescent brains go through between 11 and 18.

It explains why brain changes can make it so hard for teens to get to sleep early - and get up early for school.

And how the bits of the brain develop at different rates - so the bits that govern decision making and future planning and consequences are temporarily less developed than the bits that want excitement NOW.

I often think it's connected to how humans might have only lived into their twenties in prehistoric times so nature is priming us to fight / hunt / breed NOW to keep the species going, which is why risky and rebellious behaviour happens at that stage.

And if parents had insights into why their newly teen child seems to have turned into a stranger, it's because they kind of have - a new person navigating the world with an evolving brain.

(I loved that film Inside Out, set inside a child's brain, and the end where a shiny new console is delivered with a big button marked Puberty 😁).

I think it would help parents hugely to understand why their teen behaves in such incomprehensible and trying ways.

https://www.fife.gov.uk/kb/docs/articles/education2/supporting-children-in-school/educational-psychology-service/teenagers-brains-and-behaviour

Understanding Teenagers’ Brains and Behaviour | Fife Council

https://www.fife.gov.uk/kb/docs/articles/education2/supporting-children-in-school/educational-psychology-service/teenagers-brains-and-behaviour

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Vettrianofan · 17/09/2023 11:09

BertieBotts · 17/09/2023 09:54

There have been various TV programmes about child development, a lot of them are on YouTube.

Child of our time was great though you can't see many reruns due to privacy I think.

I'm interested in the subject and I've found lots of resources over the years (can't remember any specifics) - it is out there. I agree it would be great if there was some kind of easy to access central database, but libraries are pretty good at this, and Google isn't terrible if you search for example "14 year old brain development" or whatever age or "time awareness development in children" you'll generally find different articles, videos etc. Or even "why does my child never listen" or "why do toddlers hate vegetables?"

@BertieBotts yes I remember child of our time. That covered a lot of teenagers development.

weebarra · 17/09/2023 11:43

Between - Sarah Ockwell Smith
Blame my brain
How to talk so teens will listen and listen so teens will talk

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