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Should I be upset about this?

6 replies

CheekyMonkey1989 · 16/09/2023 00:06

My MIL commented on my daughter’s first day back to school photo I texted her by saying “she didn’t like it”. AIBU to be hurt by this comment? I think she looks beautiful on it and I’ve had a few others say it’s a lovely photo.

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OnAFrolicOfMyOwn · 16/09/2023 00:08

It was an unnecessary comment - if she didn't like it, she could have refrained from saying anything.

Is there a backstory here - does your MIL often put you down?

LegArmpits · 16/09/2023 00:11

Well - ARE you upset by it? 🤷

Stars1979 · 16/09/2023 00:11

Don't share anymore photos with her. Its a photo of her granddaughter whats not to like. Did you not respond to her, I would HAVE to reply. Does her son know? Urgh.

Mothership4two · 16/09/2023 00:17

Maybe a little upset at a tactless and unnecessary comment. Did she explain? May be she just didn't think it was a good photo and it was aimed at the photographer. Does she have form for this kind of thing? I would have to ask why she said it (in person).

EvilElsa · 16/09/2023 00:18

Why didn't she like it?
I wouldn't be upset at all, I'd think it a slightly odd thing to reply with and not send her any in the future. If DH wants to he can and she can tell him she doesn't like them.

BigSadie · 16/09/2023 08:40

MIL's exist to get on your nerves surely you've realised this by now...Ask her what's wrong with the photo for starters and if she has a history of putting you down stand up to her.

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