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To not know how to stop being stressed out constantly?

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rosieco · 14/09/2023 13:17

I'm so stressed and I don't know why, I thought it was my old job so I left there 4 months ago and my body is still stressed out and rundown. I keep clenching my teeth together day and night, which makes me wake up with blinding headaches. My eyelids keep twitching. I get stress hives on my chest very frequently. I have developed eczema for the first time in my life, too.

I'm on anxiety medication, my lifestyle is very stripped back and easygoing. I try to make as much accommodations for myself as possible to reduce stress. I've been eating healthy, going for daily walks and getting 8 hours of sleep a night. I journal, and spend time just sitting in silence/with my thoughts. I spend time with pets and family and out in nature. I'm not sure what else there is I can do.

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takealettermsjones · 14/09/2023 13:30

I'm sorry you're feeling like this. My immediate thoughts were gin, sex, and therapy (ideally not all at the same time)! 💐

Devilsmommy · 14/09/2023 13:40

Is it that youre stressing out about trying not to be stressed iyswim. are you putting too much pressure to relax yourself thereby making it stressful?

Glorifried · 14/09/2023 13:43

I lost a tooth from clenching. Tip: when you feel the urge, stick your tongue out. Stops you clenching and saves your teeth.

parietal · 14/09/2023 13:49

Therapy. You need to talk over the past and find the cause

thecatinthetwat · 14/09/2023 13:49

What are your thoughts? Is it stress about the day ahead, things that need to be done etc. or is it future stuff, like how will I afford a bigger house or raise teenaged or something? Or all of the above?

just trying to get a sense of what sort of stressful things are circling for you.

PinkRoses1245 · 14/09/2023 13:52

Counselling, acupuncture, cold water swimming! And for me, trying to relax doesn’t work. I have to physically tire myself out, hence the swimming and also big walks

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