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to think the UK has become awful?

815 replies

ma1formed · 13/09/2023 20:26

I can't pinpoint when, but it feels like everything that was once pretty good is now quite awful

So expensive
No doctors
Uni costs for kids insane
Terrible rent / can't buy a house
Everyone seems quite unpleasant or racist

Is it just me?

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1dayatatime · 15/09/2023 11:42

Kendodd · 15/09/2023 10:18

I think one thing really crippling the UK is high land and house prices. It makes everything so much more expensive and ties up such a lot of the country's money.

What's more housing is money that is tied up in an economically unproductive asset whereas if that money was invested in say a business or say spent in a restaurant then it would create jobs and further wealth.

OhCrumbsWhereNow · 15/09/2023 11:55

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 14/09/2023 13:25

I thought the Italian healthcare system was one of the best in the world?

l think it’s free.

Having lived there for a long time... unless lots has changed...

It's 'sort of' free at the point of use, but paid for by an extra piggy-back tax on your PAYE. It's also very province dependent. Some places are very good, some are terrible.

You also have to pay for a lot of things.

Blood tests used to be around around 15 euros, you had to go to the centre to book one, go for the test, go back to pick up results and then take them to the GP.

Consultant appointments were about 50 euros and again you had to book it yourself so needed to know who was a good consultant etc.

Prescriptions you paid 20% of the cost of the medication. That could get very expensive.

Purplebunnie · 15/09/2023 14:04

Maatandosiris · 14/09/2023 18:04

Well I look at it differently

most people are really nice

the Uk is substantially less racist than many other countries

we have a free at point of use healthcare system - needs a massive shake up though but still better than many other countries

Uni costs are a lot more affordable than many countries and we have some of the best education establishments in the world

Housing costs would be better if we cut down the increase in population, many countries have the same issue.

inflation has hit world wide

on top of that we have fantastic countryside and coasts, incredibly interesting history

Good job opportunities

Relatively good standard of living

A broad range of culture on tap, much of it is free

Our temperate climate means we don’t suffer tropical diseases, but can grow a wide range of food

We have good education opportunities for children

we have freedom we don’t risk being shot for saying we don’t agree with the government

The UK is an amazing place to live. Every day people risk their lives to get here.

It isn’t just you, it’s become fashionable to slag off the UK.

But living here, your one of the luckiest people in the world.

Hear, hear, thank you

Daffodilwoman · 15/09/2023 20:36

I think the north misses out so much. I agree that everyone here drives, you have to do. It is so congested but I cannot get to work via public transport and I live in a town! I would have to walk at least 1.5 miles to catch a bus to work, further to take the train. So I drive, in the congested traffic. Doesn’t matter how bad it gets it’s the only option for me.

TammyJones · 15/09/2023 20:40

@Maatandosiris
Excellent post!

Meowandthen · 15/09/2023 20:43

MegaManic · 13/09/2023 21:34

If you hate it leave - life is too short.
There are plenty who would happily take your place.

What a ridiculous reply. You must read the Mail or Express to come out with a nasty and pointless comment like that.

Some of us have left so we notice the differences when we visit. Things look shabby, prices have increased hugely, the NHS is way worse.

verdantverdure · 15/09/2023 20:47

Today husband's aunt has posted a brain dead "close our borders!" meme she got off a presenter of GB News's page by the look of it and an assortment of racist nonsense.

"These immigrants were recently caught grooming children!" over assorted photos of random brown people and an RNLI logo.

A YouTube video entitled "free homes! Migrants and refugees only"

Loads of anti Sadiq Khan stuff.

She didn't used to be like this.

In 2015 when this began we thought she was developing dementia or had had a series of strokes or something.

But no. She was just in one of the demographics targeted by the Leave campaign.

They needed to ramp up the racism in order to whip people into a stupid enough frenzy that they would vote for Brexit.

Wanderingllama · 15/09/2023 20:52

Meowandthen · 15/09/2023 20:43

What a ridiculous reply. You must read the Mail or Express to come out with a nasty and pointless comment like that.

Some of us have left so we notice the differences when we visit. Things look shabby, prices have increased hugely, the NHS is way worse.

Lots of us 15+ years anf seeing the ddcline are leaving.
Yay? I guess?

Scatterbrainbox · 15/09/2023 21:02

OnlyFoolsnMothers · 13/09/2023 20:52

How the hell would less tax help!!!!!

I think we just need to make sure everyone is paying their taxes .. close all the personal and corporate loopholes.

Alexandra2001 · 16/09/2023 07:31

Louloulouenna · 15/09/2023 08:32

@Alexandra2001 I don’t understand why you or anyone else would assume an insurance based health system involves private health insurance which depends on a profit motive. The German and French system are both insurance based (the French is based on statutory insurance). This is a common model for successful health systems around the world.

..because if it is not Private insurance, its state insurance...

Statutory insurance is just another form of taxation, under a different name.

https://www.nuffieldtrust.org.uk/news-item/why-has-the-nhs-not-been-copied-spoiler-it-has

But the biggest difference between NHS and "successful healthcare systems" is long term funding, per capita, the NHS is way below what other countries put in.

nigel-edwards.png,

Why has the NHS not been copied? (Spoiler: it has)

Nigel Edwards sets the record straight on whether other countries’ health systems are actually so different from the NHS, while emphasising that the reasons for poor outcomes are much more complex than how a system is funded.

https://www.nuffieldtrust.org.uk/news-item/why-has-the-nhs-not-been-copied-spoiler-it-has

surreysarah · 16/09/2023 13:37

Stoic123 · 13/09/2023 22:33

https://www.economicshelp.org/blog/6399/economics/impact-of-immigration-on-uk-economy/

It's time for at least one poster on this thread to address their ignorance and not disgrace themselves quite so much in future.

“Another issue felt keenly in the UK, is the concept that we are already ‘overcrowded’ In this case, a rapid increase in the population due to migration could lead to falling living standards. For example, the UK faces an acute housing shortage, but also an unwillingness to build on increasingly scarce green belt land. In many cities, it is difficult to build more roads because of limited space. The increased population could increase congestion and urban pollution. Therefore, the increase in real GDP has to be measured against these issues which affect the quality of life.”

Interesting passage from the above link. I do think that increasing the population by millions without putting the infrastructure in place to support it has had a detrimental impact on quality of life in this country.

chaosmaker · 16/09/2023 14:54

NutellaEllaElla · 13/09/2023 20:50

Compared to where? I swear people who bitch piss and moan about the UK so much haven't travelled. We're one of the best places to live in the world. Fair enough we can always improve, but we're not bad by any stretch.

Um, compared to the UK. We all know things can be run better. Quite honestly the capitalist rat run this place is being made into is sickening. Much less socialism which bleeds into society and can be seen in so much entitled behaviour and attitudes. Just read some of the threads on here!

algasport · 16/09/2023 19:43

@Maatandosiris
Great post!

WhyShouldThatMeanItIsntReal · 16/09/2023 19:55

I think some areas are appalling, yes.
Some always have been, like the Northern town I grew up in. Some have changed over time and gone downhill.
I now live in an area where we can get dr appointments, where people are genuinely nice on the whole, and we feel safe.
The fact is that we earn a very decent amount of money between us each month. We pay for our dentist. We are starting to seriously look at private school. When I compare my childhood to DC’s childhood, the main reason their’s is better is money. I feel terrible for saying it. But this is an anonymous forum and I can be honest. We have bought a nicer life for ourselves. And childhood me is very glad about that.

verdantverdure · 16/09/2023 20:59

algasport · 16/09/2023 19:43

@Maatandosiris
Great post!

Yeah!

We're not as bad as some other places is a really ringing endorsement.

SwiftieGrainger · 16/09/2023 21:46

Yanbu, I'm in the police and see colleagues coming in who live off food banks. I know other professions are in the same boat. One colleague has saved up for years for a new build house that they pay through the nose for in mortgage payments etc only to be moved next to a criminal who has been housed next door so now they can't even use work as their incentive to keep going and switch off at home. Our entire country has become weak, no morals or family values and a lack of ambition because everything is like chasing the carrot nowadays.

Dymaxion · 16/09/2023 21:49

As a place to live I think its great, there are so many beautiful places to visit and see, so much history, so much art, music and general loveliness. So much diversity in the geography of the landscape and so many fantastic people doing amazing things in all areas.

The general population may have been browbeaten by the current incumbents of Government, but “You have been weighed, you have been measured, and you have been found wanting.” sums up their achievements perfectly Smile

TheThinkingGoblin · 16/09/2023 21:51

verdantverdure · 16/09/2023 20:59

Yeah!

We're not as bad as some other places is a really ringing endorsement.

I hear this rationalisation a lot in England.

People seem incapable of being objective about the reality thwy actually inhabit.

They either use:

  1. False equivalence

"We are not as bad as Libya, Afghanistan" etc

  1. Deflection

"Well, other places are not doing too well either"

This thread is a case in point. About 10-15% of the responses use these rationalisations.

Until people (in general) in England accept that the country has deteriorated, and that a significant amount of extra investment is now required to catch up, the politicians will probably keep making the same nationalistic excuses ("world-leading", "Global Britain", "world-beating" etc. to not do anything about the legion of problems that have been allowed to accumulate and fester for years in England.

Dymaxion · 16/09/2023 22:01

For example, the UK faces an acute housing shortage, but also an unwillingness to build on increasingly scarce green belt land.

All the housebuilding in the local area ( so in a 10 mile radius ) has been built on agricultural land which most lay people would describe as green belt land, so greenfield agricultural land on the edge of towns/villages, which of course it isn't because Green belt is highly protected, whilst agricultural land isn't.

Dymaxion · 16/09/2023 22:30

I do think that increasing the population by millions without putting the infrastructure in place to support it has had a detrimental impact on quality of life in this country.

Something I wonder is how much developers have to pay into the local pot when they build ? You see multiple small developments where they keep the numbers of Executive type homes to 5 or less where they don't have to pay into the local pot, even if they produce several of these type of developments in the same area. You see large scale developments where they have added a lot of housing to a small local town, but no additional school places/ GP places/hospital beds etc are provided. You see large residential/retirement developments where the amount of money added into the local pot would pay for a minimal amount of treatment for a very limited number of people provided by NHS/Social services community services.

Comfortablechair · 16/09/2023 22:37

I actually agree with you but for diff reasons:

  • Cost of childcare
  • police are stretched and weak
  • town centres are terrible

Although I’m not sure france, italy, Spain etc are any better - diff problems TBH

US is messed up and will get worse again if trump gets in. Canada is cold and australia is v far away and gonna be hit by climate change.

TorqueWrench · 17/09/2023 13:02

DownNative · 14/09/2023 13:10

Incorrect and you're cherrypicking.

For quality of life, UK was 13th Globally Overall and Top 10 in Europe in 2023.

Yet you say it's not "good at all"?

That doesn't compute with the rankings itself on Quality of Life measurement since it IS better than most of the world AND most of Europe to boot.

Perceptions are just that - Perceptions. And these can be faulty which is why countries are ranked according to methodology globally.

But sure, you can hold fast to the Anecdotal Fallacy instead.....🤦‍♂️

Indeed. I think a large part of it is that the English seem to have a real culture of moaning/self flagellation.

Also, the white collar sector seems to be the demographic whinging the most. Tradesmen are still doing very well. For example, some companies are now paying their bricklayers £2.5k a week and that's not even in London.

Kangaroobrain · 17/09/2023 14:54

The richest place in Northern Europe is London. Of the ten poorest, nine are also in the UK:
https://inequalitybriefing.org/graphics/briefing_43_UK_regions_poorest_North_Europe.pdf

This really highlights the inequality in this country, which is just getting worse.

https://inequalitybriefing.org/graphics/briefing_43_UK_regions_poorest_North_Europe.pdf

Eleganz · 17/09/2023 16:43

Kangaroobrain · 17/09/2023 14:54

The richest place in Northern Europe is London. Of the ten poorest, nine are also in the UK:
https://inequalitybriefing.org/graphics/briefing_43_UK_regions_poorest_North_Europe.pdf

This really highlights the inequality in this country, which is just getting worse.

And be under no illusions. This widening of inequality is a deliberate political choice.

TheThinkingGoblin · 17/09/2023 17:25

Kangaroobrain · 17/09/2023 14:54

The richest place in Northern Europe is London. Of the ten poorest, nine are also in the UK:
https://inequalitybriefing.org/graphics/briefing_43_UK_regions_poorest_North_Europe.pdf

This really highlights the inequality in this country, which is just getting worse.

Most of those "poorer" areas voted leave.

Great job you guys. Now, they will become even poorer as you lose all of the EU regeneration funding.

You cannot help people who keep voting against their own interests.