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Cat sitter bringing her grandchild

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Mseddy · 06/09/2023 22:57

We've paid someone to cat sit for us for the week. Not used her before, was recommended by another cat sitter/dog walker who my friend uses as she was full. Not cheap, but that's irrelevant really.

Came and met us and the cats before we went, chatted to her for a while, she mentioned she looked after her grandchild who lived local, nothing more mentioned about GC in regards to visiting. One of the cats is on medication which he takes happily off a spoon, she was fine with this.

Qué first day we are away and she says cant get cat to take medication because he won't come near. Long story short this goes on for 3 days and my neighbour has had to step in to do it. My neighbour knows the cats well and usually does feeds/meds for us if we are away, but she's had major surgery recently hence outsourcing so to speak! I spoke with my neighbour and she said she wasn't surprised cat wouldn't come as woman had a child with her playing in the garden.

We've looked on CCTV in our garden tonight and her 4 year old grandchild is chasing after the cat and even screamed at him when he meowed at her. My 2yo DD has a lovely little wendy house that is mine and her pride and joy, we love it and it's special. She's just turned 2 the day before we flew on holiday so it's got a fair few new not yet played with toys in there. The cat sitter and her grandchild have been playing in the Wendy house completely without our permission and I honestly feel a little bit violated! I paid this women to come to our house, feed the cats and spend half an hour sat with them twice a day. Not to use my house as a play cafe for her grandchild.

So aibu for wanting to message her and telling her to leave the key and the money that would cover the remaining days and piss off out of my house? My neighbour is having to come daily to give the cat his meds anyway so she could throw some food in their bowl and I'd rather spend the remaining money on her!

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sodthesodoff · 12/09/2023 15:43

If I were anywhere near you I'd offer to cat sit for free in return for plenty of floofs and snuggles. Guarantee I wouldn't bring anyone with me as I don't want to share those fluff bombs with anyone.

Glad you got your money back. And good luck finding a lovely new car sitter!

ifIwerenotanandroid · 12/09/2023 16:57

Mseddy, well done on getting the refund. Both cats are gorgeous.😻

DontDareToGetOld · 12/09/2023 18:02

ifIwerenotanandroid · 12/09/2023 16:57

Mseddy, well done on getting the refund. Both cats are gorgeous.😻

Especially Gus. i love his little I-have-attitude face 😍

Catsmere · 12/09/2023 22:23

About time she returned it, but very glad she did! Now hopefully you'll have nothing to do with her again apart from well-placed reviews warning cat owners to avoid her.

Catsmere · 12/09/2023 22:24

DontDareToGetOld · 12/09/2023 18:02

Especially Gus. i love his little I-have-attitude face 😍

Catitude!

TakeMe2Insanity · 12/09/2023 22:52

This is 100% like our elderly cat on medication. Just because he accepts/tolerates our dc that does not mean he wants to chased/played with a stranger child. Your poor cat must be so stressed, I really hope your neighbour can step in.

NotYeti · 12/09/2023 23:14

Whoa Gary is one handsome chap! 😍

Catsmere · 12/09/2023 23:19

He sure is!

TenderChicken · 13/09/2023 18:22

Relieved you got your money back!

I was going to suggest naming on shaming on your local town Facebook group, though less pressing now. Half the posts are residents looking for reccomendations for cat and dog sitters, tradesmen, etc so would have genuinely been a helpful thing to do.

Also she was totally taking you for a ride with those fees.

Lemmony · 13/09/2023 19:50

Completely agree!

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