i think am over weight as am a size 14

[bitch1000]

i get really down about my weight, i eat lots of food in a day, am a size 14, a think that is big nto me

depends how tall you are

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and how old you are

YABU you are gorgous the way you are, whatever your weight or size.

why are you called bitch1000?

i am called fishie for mysterious watery reasons.

Squimlet, sorry have you met Bitch 1000?

Is she?

well i was a size 14 not long ago - at 5 foot 10 and i felt a bit chubbly - i am now a size 10 and feel a bit like a clothes horse - my boobs have gone to the dogs! I dont think we can win to be honest - i am now considering going back to a 14....

am 19 n ave got a 17 month old baby girl, ave got no confidence for myself, a want to lose weight i hate the way i am i dont like my apperance

What height are you?
You may be overweight, you may be perfect but what really matters isnt your weight, it's how you feel.

hi runningonplenty thats the think ave not got any boobs wots so ever!

First things first, self image, change your mn name, maybe that could be the beginning to a new you.

am 5ft8, yeah thats true ahate my apperance. am a being silly victoriansqualor

I'm 5'8'' and at a size 14 certainly wasnt particularly overweight so it's not lieke you're huge.
It's more a confidence issue IMO than a weight issue.

fairyfly how do u do that

Hi b-1000 - boobs are a sore point after children generally but they are even worse after weight loss! For me anyway!

I put on loads of weight after my little one and didnt lose it until she was 2! ITs hard finding time for yourself - but if its something you feel you need to do - then you could try exercize videos? Nell Mcandrews one is excellent.

what size were you pre child/ren? 14 isn't huge but if you used to be an 8/10, then you will be feeling much bigger than you are used to....

thank-you for the advice, you have help a need to build my cofidence up victoriansqualor

I agree with fairyfly, you need a new name. I am sure you are not a bitch.

Aside from that, I have seen loads of friends start diets/exersize regimes when their babies were about 18mths. I think that it is the moment when we take our heads out of the nappy bin, look around and notice that there is more to life than just being a mum.

I am a size 14 - 16 and only 5' 3. I would like to lose some more weight. (I was a size a year after DS's birth)

Do you do any sport?

am not a bitch its the only name a cud think of really

a used to be a size ten before a had my daughter, i feel that a have put on alot of weight since ive had her too, find it hard to do stuff threw the day as my daughter never has a nap, then by nite time am tired myself am a lone parent

Do you have anyone who could take her for an hour to let you have some time alone?

It does get easier, I promise you. Once the DCs were a bit older and going to nursery I had much more time. I joined a gym and lost some weight and started feeling better about myself.

I am a size 14 and only 5'2" i weigh 10stone 11 and am classed as over weight. I would like to be a size 12 and lose a stone but dh can't get enough of me when i am bigger and i love my huge tits.
They always go first if i diet

can you join a gym with a creche? ure you'd feel better with some time to exercise and just time to yourself. both mine really seemed to like the gym creche when they were little...

You are not big IMO, not at 5foot8 and size 14. If you want a more in depth info report, go to Boots they have a BMI machine, you can have your hight, weight, BMI and body fat % for 70p.

I can however sympathize with you, i was a size 8 pre-kids, now im a size 16ish, (5foot8 and 13 stone), i feel like a fat whale and i have hardly any clothes that fit me It does get me down but im now doing weight watchers and so far lost 3lb (in a week), slow but its a good start. Have you thought of doing something like that?

Yes but the question is, is Bitch1000 a thousand times a Bitch and do you really have an enormous anus?