DD starting reception this week.... wwyd.

[Sharletonz]

More of a wwyd than aibu.
Dd starts reception this week. Only sees her father supervised.
I have zero relationship or contact with father.
Should I consider DDs feelings and give her a photo of her in school uniform to give to him as she does enjoy her supervised contact and may be excited to tell him about her first week at school.

He is an abusive arsehole and has missed nearly 4 years of her life now..

Wwyd?

It will be. I'm just waiting for the court order.. they did say they can't prevent him from coming to the school but they wouldn't just release DD to him knowing the circumstances.. they'd call me first

Apologies I thought as he can only see her in a contact centre it would be in place that he doesn't have the ability to see her anywhere other than that contact centre thus not allowing him to collect her. Sorry that's my limited knowledge and going off a case of my friends

Great that you have it all in process though