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Reporting anti social behaviour

6 replies

Myneighboursarewankers · 01/09/2023 21:19

Hi all I have NC for this and I’m going to keep it vague just incase it’s identifying. Not an AIBU but posting for traffic

has anyone had any experience of reporting neighbours for anti social behaviour?

these neighbours are known to police and have had a recent raid on their property. Residents are one male (dad) and twin boys aged approximately 16-18.

their behaviour affects us (terrace house) and I believe other neighbours have reported also. Their behaviour has become directed at me as of recent and they have made several racist remarks aswell as threats to kill me. I haven’t ever retaliated but I am now feeling fearful especially as I am also pregnant. We have had one incident of them damaging our property when I asked them not to throw stones at our window

I have reported to the police and our housing association (they are HA also but shared ownership). Has anyone been in this situation? What can I expect to happen if anything?

feeling rather stressed and worried. They are proper assholes and threaten anyone who reports so feeling scared as they are violent

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purpleme12 · 01/09/2023 21:23

I have had not much success with my awful neighbours so won't go into that.
But my advice? Cameras. Cameras. Cameras.
With sound. 24/7.
Can't stress this enough.

Myneighboursarewankers · 01/09/2023 21:42

i thought this but I’m not sure of the legal boundaries around recording - is it ok provided it’s not facing them/their house?

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purpleme12 · 01/09/2023 21:47

I did audio because of the incidents where they've sworn and screamed at us.
I reported it to police but not enough evidence.
I did ask a policy person who dealt with my case if this was ok to have audio and he said yes. You could check too.
But yes mine is just recording my garden.

Myneighboursarewankers · 01/09/2023 21:49

Thank you I will try this!

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BMW6 · 01/09/2023 21:55

Cameras. HA. MP. Police. Report every racist remark and threats of violence.

Do you have another adult in your home 24/7?
If not is there a strong capable relative who could stay with you for a couple of months?

Don't respond but don't back down. I wish you all the best Flowers. Some people are just a waste
Of space.

Myneighboursarewankers · 03/09/2023 17:15

I have my husband but he’s out at work in the day (home about 7pm). Going to get a ring doorbell for now and hope for the best. Thank you all for the advice it’s so stressful!

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