Tactility!

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Tonight1 · 31/08/2023 20:10

This is a general query so not really aibu, but for you:

AIBU: I'm a tactile person
IANBU: I am not

I am very firmly not very tactile so one aspect of covid was like heaven for me, I had an excuse for distancing and if I saw people I love could just blow kisses at them.

So are you a huggy/tactile person?

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Raspbear · 31/08/2023 21:50

Entirely depends on who the other person is.

AmyandPhilipfan · 31/08/2023 21:59

I am with my husband and daughter and not with anyone else. I don't even hug my mum when I see her and we live hundreds of miles apart so only see each other every few months. But she's similar to me so not bothered. When we see my husband's family he hugs them all goodbye and then I wave as we're going out of the door!

HappiestSleeping · 31/08/2023 22:04

Raspbear · 31/08/2023 21:50

Entirely depends on who the other person is.

This 👆

NeedTheSeaside · 31/08/2023 22:06

I am tactile.

You need a neon vest with 'DO NOT HUG' on it, if you don't want me to hug you.

XenoBitch · 31/08/2023 22:07

I love a hug.... a cwtch with the right person even more.
I can't stand unsolicited touch though, such as a stranger putting their hand on my arm when talking.

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Tonight1 · 31/08/2023 22:18

NeedTheSeaside · 31/08/2023 22:06

I am tactile.

You need a neon vest with 'DO NOT HUG' on it, if you don't want me to hug you.

Yikes! We'd both need neon vests if we met, you'd would say hugger 😁

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NeedTheSeaside · 31/08/2023 22:22

Tonight1 · 31/08/2023 22:18

Yikes! We'd both need neon vests if we met, you'd would say hugger 😁

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@Tonight1

Yeah. Pink neon 'HUG ME'

Hatesf1 · 31/08/2023 22:24

I’m not and I’m well
known for it - find it makes people want to hug me more! Like cats cosying up to people they know can’t stand them.

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