Would you be suspicious

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I hadn’t heard from my bf all weekend and then he has messaged today. Said he had been at his mates in his hot tub with everyone last night drinking etc. Aibu to think there must have been girls there and wonder why he didn’t get in touch all weekend

My guess is that you already don't trust him. Get rid and move on.

I’d be a bit annoyed/ worried if he hadn’t been in touch all weekend more so than suspicious.

There may have been women there.

If my dh had a weekend away and women were there, it wouldn't be an issue as I trust him.

You don't trust him. Why are you staying with someone you don't trust?

How long have you been together? Is it normal not to hear from him all weekend?

When you say all weekend, what do you mean? It's Sunday today? Was he in touch Friday and just not yesterday or have you not heard from him since Thursday? I suppose it depends what's normal for you? It doesn't sound like you trust him though and I'm guessing you have reasons for that.

I’d be worried but agree if you don’t trust him then it will never work. Is there a reason you don’t trust him?