Advice

[Coley32]

Bf has a drink stays in bed all day Friday and I. Bed Saturday until 15:30 .
We have a child together and children that aren’t his I never expect hiM to do anything for them but his own child he should.

should I be pissed off ? I don’t get to go out get drunk and stay in bed for a full day and half

You should be very bothered.
He is opting out of family life and parental duties. If he’s drinking so much he can’t get out of bed all weekend then he also has a serious problem. Do you want your children thinking this is normal behaviour?
That isn’t something I’d be prepared to accept. If you are doing all the parenting as if you are a single, parent then you may as well be single.

He has a problem he’s been alone no relationships all his life just drinks until he met me calmed down a lot but weekends I like to have family time go out do stuff and it’s always just me and the children as he can’t get out of bed or can’t be arsed.

yes do everything like a single parent and pretty much just carrying an adult as a 4th child.