To not understand this

[Starsandmoon99]

I’ve been seeing a guy for around 6 months. We get on well, have fun, I enjoy his company and was happy were things were going. We often go on dates

we had a bit of a conversation last night about things and he said he enjoys my company too but he wants to keep it as it is. he said he would like to take me away somewhere too. but he said he doesn’t want a relationship as it’s not the right time, he just wants to keep things how they are? Still go on dates and do all the relationship things but he said he doesn’t like to put labels on things

You sound naive OP. Have some self respect and backbone and bin him.

That's understandable, all the best and positivity

He is not committed to you and just wants to have all the benefits of a relationship without taking the next steps.

Personally I wouldn't continue it unless he commits as after 6 months he should know if he wants to be with you.

I would play him at his own game. Keep seeing him but start dating other too. You might find a better connection with someone else or you might find all of a sudden he can see a relationship with you.

Or I guess you could have an honest chat and tell him you are looking for more and require some commitment from him. Even if that is just in the form of you are exclusive. Sounds like he is scared of having loads of stress from a relationship again.

He knows. He just doesn't care.