Annoyed with my OH

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Curvymumzy · 14/08/2023 23:13

Would you be annoyed if you have had a super stressed day at worked ( I own my own business) I’ve ended up in tears needing some emotional support and instead of my partner giving me a hug and asking if I’m okay, he goes up to bed and acts as if I’m not there. This has obviously made me feel worse and made me feel quite worthless! I feel like he doesn’t care

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Circumferences · 14/08/2023 23:15

Of course YANBU.
What a pathetic excuse of a partner.

Runnerinthenight · 14/08/2023 23:17

Did he realise how you were feeling? Is he likely to snuggle up in solidarity when you go to bed?

Is having your own business for you if a stressful day has you in tears?

Jurassicparkinajug · 15/08/2023 07:27

I think a lot of men don’t know how to handle emotion. My husband would rather ignore me and pretend I’m not upset because he doesn’t know how to handle it or what to say/ or do. He’s a very caring man but was brought up in a house where no one showed emotion. I’ve chatted to him about it and explained what I need when I’m upset- i.e. someone to listen and understand and he’s got better over the years.

Hibiscrubbed · 15/08/2023 08:37

Is he usually so shit? And is he shit in other ways?

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