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For banning my child from watching American tv

132 replies

Luna87 · 12/08/2023 12:03

I've noticed so many young children talking in strong American accents lately, I'm not going to lie - it really annoys me.

AIBU for banning my 2.5 year old from watching anything American? I prefer her to watch CBeebies so she doesn't pick up the accent. DH thinks I'm being too harsh

OP posts:
CrappyBarbara · 12/08/2023 18:16

BoohooWoohoo · 12/08/2023 13:01

I saw a video of a mum in the US making a pass the parcel because her child had picked it up from Bluey. Apparently it's not a game at American parties.

I’m a 52 year old American and I can confirm that “Pass the Present” has been played at birthday parties in America for at least 50 years. The only difference is the name.

PalomaPalomaPaloma · 12/08/2023 18:19

JenniferBarkley · 12/08/2023 16:11

But not surprising, anti American sentiment is rife on here.

I don't think it's got anything to do with people not liking America. It's just odd to not speak BE if you have always lived in Britain and your family is British.

Testina · 12/08/2023 18:19

One of mine loved doing various US accents. Now a teen, her French & German teachers say she has the best accent for each in the class. How about you untwist your snobby pants and enjoy it?

phoenixrosehere · 12/08/2023 18:21

CrappyBarbara · 12/08/2023 18:16

I’m a 52 year old American and I can confirm that “Pass the Present” has been played at birthday parties in America for at least 50 years. The only difference is the name.

What part are you from if you don’t mind me asking?

I grew up in the Midwest and had never heard or played it. Pass the Parcel was what I was introduced here after I moved. It looked like hot potato to me.

PankWuffin · 12/08/2023 18:22

I grew up in Northern Ireland and we did English accents when we played as it was all there was on TV other than the news! I bet my parents hated it 😂

CrappyBarbara · 12/08/2023 18:25

phoenixrosehere · 12/08/2023 18:21

What part are you from if you don’t mind me asking?

I grew up in the Midwest and had never heard or played it. Pass the Parcel was what I was introduced here after I moved. It looked like hot potato to me.

The Northeast. We played Hot Potato
too, and wonder ball which is similar but has its own song, but those were more like something we would do at preschool or playgroup while Pass the Present was for parties. I will never forget the heart sinking disappointment of opening the next layer of gift wrap only to find one more layer underneath.

Vintagecreamandcottagepie · 12/08/2023 18:25

One of ours has started saying no in an Australian accent a la bluey

Reugny · 12/08/2023 18:27

Do you want your child to end up with an Australian, Kiwi or Canadian accent instead?

Some of the kids programmes my DD watches on iPlayer are from those countries.

Mind you she has a MLE accent.

It's funny going around the local supermarkets as parents have all sorts of accents but their kids speak MLE.

SpuytenDuyvil · 12/08/2023 18:29

We're American. When DS was little Teletubbies was on TV and we got him a picture book to go with the show. When we got to Po, he would always say she had a "scoot-ah." We thought it was adorable.

Carouselfish · 12/08/2023 18:30

Constantly trying to get mine to stop the hard g in walking or cooking. And stop saying N velope instead on ON velope, eethher instead of eyether etc.
I'm southern, dp Midlands.

phoenixrosehere · 12/08/2023 18:30

CrappyBarbara · 12/08/2023 18:25

The Northeast. We played Hot Potato
too, and wonder ball which is similar but has its own song, but those were more like something we would do at preschool or playgroup while Pass the Present was for parties. I will never forget the heart sinking disappointment of opening the next layer of gift wrap only to find one more layer underneath.

Thank you :-). I’m now off to look up what wonder ball is. Never heard of that one either.

PlainJanePerfect · 12/08/2023 18:31

I'm American living in the UK and my nearly 3 year old doesn't have an American accent. Just going to nursery stops that. Your kid would have to watch an absolute ton of tv to pick up an accent different to their peers.

phoenixrosehere · 12/08/2023 18:32

Carouselfish · 12/08/2023 18:30

Constantly trying to get mine to stop the hard g in walking or cooking. And stop saying N velope instead on ON velope, eethher instead of eyether etc.
I'm southern, dp Midlands.

And stop saying N velope instead on ON velope, eethher instead of eyether etc.

All of those are used in the States. It’s based on region which way it is said, no different to regional differences here in the UK.

User13986509 · 12/08/2023 18:32

I thought the thread would be about a primary school aged child not a two year old, whatever are they watching.

ChestnutGrove · 12/08/2023 18:34

Dd is 16 and writes mom in a WhatsApp, rather than mum. She sometimes says things in an American accent. Doesn't bother me. I quite like it. It's not her actual accent

PolkadotsAndMoonbeams · 12/08/2023 18:38

KettyMcBetty · 12/08/2023 16:37

Honestly, what a post to create.

My European born British kids speak several languages, and in English they can often sound American. I find it charming. The same with their friends when they all switch to English - and none of them have stepped foot on American soil. It's obviously a transatlantic sound from movie and music influences.

Are they at an international school?

Children at those often have an American-ish accent (I say "ish" because I don't think it's an accent from anywhere particular in the States), it's quite distinctive. In that case I think it's because they often have American resources to use in lessons, then you have such a mix of home languages you get almost an "accent franca".

xyz111 · 12/08/2023 18:38

ChestnutGrove · 12/08/2023 18:34

Dd is 16 and writes mom in a WhatsApp, rather than mum. She sometimes says things in an American accent. Doesn't bother me. I quite like it. It's not her actual accent

I think Mom is also used sometimes in north UK?

xyz111 · 12/08/2023 18:40

Carouselfish · 12/08/2023 18:30

Constantly trying to get mine to stop the hard g in walking or cooking. And stop saying N velope instead on ON velope, eethher instead of eyether etc.
I'm southern, dp Midlands.

I say Nvelope 🤣. I'm SE uk

ChestnutGrove · 12/08/2023 18:40

xyz111 · 12/08/2023 18:38

I think Mom is also used sometimes in north UK?

Yes. That's not where dd got it from though.

Runnerduck34 · 12/08/2023 18:42

Yanbu ( well only slightly!) It really grates when DC say flashlight and not torch!

Gymmum82 · 12/08/2023 18:42

Stick Bluey on. Then she can have an Aussie accent instead.

Mine have American accents when they play. Always have. Pretty much every kid I’ve ever encountered does. They don’t have American accents when they talk normally and they don’t watch much TV. Actually one loves bluey. But still the accent is American

zoomingale · 12/08/2023 18:42

Carouselfish · 12/08/2023 18:30

Constantly trying to get mine to stop the hard g in walking or cooking. And stop saying N velope instead on ON velope, eethher instead of eyether etc.
I'm southern, dp Midlands.

I'm in the UK and say all those things.

Aria20 · 12/08/2023 18:46

@xyz111 ah yes my 5yo loves bluey too and likes to play shops using "dollar bucks" Grin

JaninaDuszejko · 12/08/2023 18:49

My kids only watched cbeebies at that age (and not very much of that), that was to avoid adverts though. We didn't ban Disney but I did go out of my way to expose them to other film traditions as well. Studio Ghibli is the one they still love.

My parents only bought the Radio Times back in the 70s and 80s which meant we didn't watch much ITV back then (the Radio Times only had the BBC listings back then).

DeeCee77 · 12/08/2023 18:53

ConnieTucker · 12/08/2023 12:15

What accent do you want her to have?

I like the transatlantic accent from old movies

Huge prestige around that accent hence why it was so ubiquitous.

The English accent (as this girl Lucy speaks) is so perfect. I have a northern Irish accent and if I could trade it for anyones it would be hers (also love the Kiwi accent..."the all bleeks").

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=pOHTr-MxtGM

1 LANGUAGE, 3 ACCENTS! UK vs. USA vs. AUS English Pronunciation!

WATER = wor-tah or waah-derr? We speak the same English language in 3 very different ways - British vs Australian vs American English pronunciation! FREE aud...

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=pOHTr-MxtGM