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For banning my child from watching American tv

132 replies

Luna87 · 12/08/2023 12:03

I've noticed so many young children talking in strong American accents lately, I'm not going to lie - it really annoys me.

AIBU for banning my 2.5 year old from watching anything American? I prefer her to watch CBeebies so she doesn't pick up the accent. DH thinks I'm being too harsh

OP posts:
Funhouse8 · 12/08/2023 14:39

I have, and I've banned YouTube. My kids are older, but my son is ASD so tends to repeat things how he hears them. The American twangs was driving me mental so it's been banned.

I also work in a school and its sad to see how many kids have an accent and use American words too

Proudgypsy · 12/08/2023 14:43

Not at all unreasonable. I hate that Americanisms are working their way into British language.

Also with noting that many British children think that the number for the emergency services is 911 due to TV.

Proudgypsy · 12/08/2023 14:45

Dotcheck · 12/08/2023 13:51

How disappointing that @mnhq is allowing this thread. What a nice, welcoming place for everyone.

What are you talking about?

phoenixrosehere · 12/08/2023 14:53

Needmorelego · 12/08/2023 14:36

Some cbeebies and cbbc programmes are co-produced by Canadian TV companies. Would you accept a Canadian accent or is it just American ones 🤔
I used to love The Odd Squad (Canadian made educational programme about maths on cbbc It’s award winning and got a bit of a cult following apparently …)

Some cbeebies and cbbc programmes are co-produced by Canadian TV companies. Would you accept a Canadian accent or is it just American ones

Good question. Americans and Canadians accents can sound very similar to each other that even they can’t tell who is from which one but know they’re North American. It’s usually the assumption that “all” Americans are loud and brash that seemingly makes the difference from Canadians.

CarolinaInTheMorning · 12/08/2023 14:54

Proudgypsy · 12/08/2023 14:45

What are you talking about?

Anti-American? Linguistic xenophobia?

Also pay-cheque and parking lot is creeping in.

"Pay-cheque" is not American English.

zoomingale · 12/08/2023 15:04

Mumsnet really is something else.

ImthatBoleyngirl · 12/08/2023 15:11

I've always preferred American TV to British and at 43 years old I've successfully managed to retain my English accent. I bloody love most of the US accents though. Is there a particular one you don't like, as they aren't all the same.

escapingthecity · 12/08/2023 15:13

We discovered you could watch Paw Patrol with British voices. Still shit but not nearly as annoying

ChildrenOfTheQuorn · 12/08/2023 15:38

I keep being asked if my DD is watching Cocomelon yet. No effing way for the same reason. Even American nursery rhymes are banned because the wheels on the bus should be going round all day long not all through the town.

x2boys · 12/08/2023 15:42

Tiswa · 12/08/2023 12:21

Mine both gre up watching Disney movies and Disney junior and neither have spoken in an US accent (unless DS is doing impressions)

Yep.my son was the same ,he preferred Disney + and cartoonite,etc
Although he did think we paid in Dollers,when he was about two.

Dotcheck · 12/08/2023 15:54

Thank you @Needmorelego and @CarolinaInTheMorning

There’s no way this thread would still be around if the OP was worried about her child picking up a Scottish accent or a West African accent. It’s disappointing that this sort of prejudice is encouraged on mumsnet. Disappointing @mnhq

AnAmericanInParish · 12/08/2023 16:04

Imitation is the finest form of flattery. What’s wrong with an American accent? As others have said, would you be so outraged if your child picked up an Irish accent or a Swedish accent, for example? I find it pretty offensive, as an American.

xyz111 · 12/08/2023 16:07

My son loves Bluey. But now money is "dollar bucks" 🤣🤦🏻‍♀️. And not all british tv is better. You don't want your child to end up a whiny brat like Bing!!

mathanxiety · 12/08/2023 16:09

YABU to be so anti American.

YABU to have your child watching what I assume is Nickelodeon or Disney - there's nothing but dreck there.

Children pick up annoying tics everywhere, and out of the blue. You need to chill or the rest of your child's childhood years will be he'll for you. Then when they start picking up teen speak you'll look back fondly on this American accent phase and wonder why you got your knickers in such a twist.

mathanxiety · 12/08/2023 16:11

BlueKaftan · 12/08/2023 12:30

The xenophobia is particularly strong this morning. Shame on you l

Oh yes indeed!

JenniferBarkley · 12/08/2023 16:11

Dotcheck · 12/08/2023 15:54

Thank you @Needmorelego and @CarolinaInTheMorning

There’s no way this thread would still be around if the OP was worried about her child picking up a Scottish accent or a West African accent. It’s disappointing that this sort of prejudice is encouraged on mumsnet. Disappointing @mnhq

But not surprising, anti American sentiment is rife on here.

User601 · 12/08/2023 16:12

My teenager doesn't even watch that much TV but uses American grammar. In 20 years' time British English will have died out.

mathanxiety · 12/08/2023 16:14

And apparently the irony of British people complaining about American English seeping into British usage is completely lost on a great many posters here.

Do any of you know why English is so widely spoken world wide? From Scotland to Ireland to Wales, North America, the Caribbean, Hong Kong, India, Pakistan, Australia, New Zealand, various parts of Africa...

Nandocushion · 12/08/2023 16:16

Dotcheck · 12/08/2023 12:25

This is a really shitty thread. How is it ok to start a thread disparaging accents?

OP, perhaps don’t let your child watch so much tv?

This FFS. If you'd started the same thread but about a Brummie or Scouse or Welsh accent, it would be rightly deleted.

smilesup · 12/08/2023 16:16

If you child is picking up an accent from TV they are watching far too much! A 2 year old could easily watch none. Or maybe a little bit every few days. Maybe talk to them more.

AnAmericanInParish · 12/08/2023 16:19

phoenixrosehere · 12/08/2023 14:53

Some cbeebies and cbbc programmes are co-produced by Canadian TV companies. Would you accept a Canadian accent or is it just American ones

Good question. Americans and Canadians accents can sound very similar to each other that even they can’t tell who is from which one but know they’re North American. It’s usually the assumption that “all” Americans are loud and brash that seemingly makes the difference from Canadians.

We can tell the difference. There are even very distinctly different accents within the United States.

phoenixrosehere · 12/08/2023 16:27

AnAmericanInParish · 12/08/2023 16:19

We can tell the difference. There are even very distinctly different accents within the United States.

I know that. I’m American, myself.

KettyMcBetty · 12/08/2023 16:37

Honestly, what a post to create.

My European born British kids speak several languages, and in English they can often sound American. I find it charming. The same with their friends when they all switch to English - and none of them have stepped foot on American soil. It's obviously a transatlantic sound from movie and music influences.

Scaraben · 12/08/2023 16:46

Maybe just don't let your kid watch so much TV they pick up accents....

Is it only American TV that annoys you or do you scramble to turn off cbeebies whenever Bluey or Puffin Rock comes on?

We're scottish and Irish with American family. My kid sounds like her scottish nursery pals as that's mainly who she interacts with, not the telly.

Saying that, I did ban Peppa pig. 90% was because it's absolute shit, but honestly 10% is because I can't bear the accents of the pig family.