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Llx1989 · 11/08/2023 17:49

AIBU - I've started dating a guy who is very nearly at the end of divorce after two years seperated. They have a child together. He told me he's quite off grid w.r.t social media. Anyway, he dropped his ex wife's name in during conversation and I looked her up (I know..). Her relationship status still says " Married to 'joe bloggs'" .. I don't know what to think anymore and at the same time, I don't want to come across psychotic but it's really playing on my mind...

Note: also divorced with one child, thanks

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gamerchick · 11/08/2023 17:51

I've been married well over a decade and my SM is still set to single.

It doesn't matter. It's SM. Who looks at that stuff anyway?

Zanatdy · 11/08/2023 17:54

Guy I was seeing earlier this year still has him as married as FB as he doesn’t go on it, I know he definitely isn’t as I knew him before I dated him and been to his house many times. He’s just never bothered changing it. If you don’t know him much though I can see why you’d be a bit suspicious

Redglitter · 11/08/2023 17:54

Well technically she's right. They're still married. But I'd say you're over thinking it. They've probably just not got round to, or thought about updating it. I know of someone who's been living with her partner for 11 years, but she's showing as single on fb.

Step away from her profile

Theunamedcat · 11/08/2023 17:57

Be wary he could be lying to you

Does he have a profile? Are there pictures showing them "together"

When I was going through a divorce I hid my status changed my photos and stopped his from showing on my profile they are still there they just won't show up

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