To have a few days off from dm

[Holdupman]

Who is accusing me of leaving her in hospital not doing stuff etc when im
run ragged running around doing her stuff dealing with people etc
I can’t bring myself to answer all the horrible accusations today but I feel bad as she has been unwell
sadly the way she talks to me just makes me feel so low

If she is safe in hospital and you need a break to recharge your batteries YADNBU.

You need to look after yourself too - it's really tough - and develop a slightly thicker skin - you can't just magic it all better and it's not your fault she's there either.

Good luck op xx

Would she ask more nicely if you did less?

I don’t think so she never has before
tbh I dread it all
it’s constant asking me stuff I have no time

I think you might have a vomiting bug OP and they can wipe you out for a week. 💐