I'm being very vague here deliberately:
I know a person that is very disrespectful towards me, they have stolen very personal items from me and done other things like entering my property.
I have been upset at their behaviour and they think I am being unreasonable, denied that they have acted in this way even when caught. This person knows that my things don't belong to them (I have asked are these things mine or yours and they have answered correctly). * *
Thing is, this person is autistic, but if these things were done to her, she would also be very upset and act accordingly.
In fact, I, myself have a neurological disability and this person is taking advantage over the fact that I am likely to forget things like lock my property and mislay things.
So: this person would be very upset and annoyed if these things were done to her but when she deliberately steals and enters my property illegally it's ok because she's autistic according to the people who are their family.
Does this person understand that it hurts me (I've told them so) because it would definitely hurt them and they would tell people so.
The person definitely understands right from wrong.
Thankyou.