AIBU for losing my shit completely with him today.
August last year I purchased 4 school polo shirts
3 sweatshirts
Lots of other school uniform
Along with this, several football kits and FIVE pairs of football socks. For football training. And I bought the boots.
Which is fair enough and he's not working. I am.
He's down to one set of uniform. And no football socks at my house.
His house is like a hoarders house. There is shit everywhere. He lives a good 30 min round trip from me.
Today I text him "are DC football socks at yours"
I got the reply back "no idea. I'm not at home, just go buy more"
This was 45 mins before training started.
Everything disappears into nowhere in his house. And because I don't want my DC to miss out. I replace it. Trying to get stuff back is like pulling teeth!
Dc is 12, so he's also had it off me today for also not remembering his shit. I had to drive the 30 min round trip to get the socks as I refused to buy yet more socks. And if I just said "you're not going until you remember your stuff" I also pay by direct debit for him to play for his team so I'd still be losing out on money (and peace and quiet!)