Meet the Other Phone. Flexible and made to last.

Meet the Other Phone.
Flexible and made to last.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

Bob Marley massive wife beater

44 replies

OwlinaTree2 · 29/07/2023 00:37

Seriously can you be running a reggae night and not know this?

OP posts:
WhateverMate · 29/07/2023 13:21

I didn't know this OP.

But your posts are lacking in words massively Confused

How do you know the DJ didn't know? Did you walk up to him/her during the song and tell them?

I'm curious as to how the conversation (if you had one!) came about?

saveforthat · 29/07/2023 13:25

ThreeLittleDots · 29/07/2023 13:00

The article linked to above quotes Rita as condoning racist tropes about black men's innate need to be unfaithful, as well as questioning the existance of marital rape. It's hardly 'backtracking' from her - she doesn't say it didn't happen.

However I don't believe you can't enjoy someone's music just because they behaved like a monster at times. I still listen to Bowie.

What's wrong with Bowie?

NeverDropYourMooncup · 29/07/2023 13:27

saveforthat · 29/07/2023 13:25

What's wrong with Bowie?

Children, allegedly.

WeetabixTowels · 29/07/2023 13:28

David Bowie slept with underange girls.

Kindofcrunchy · 29/07/2023 13:41

WeetabixTowels · 29/07/2023 13:17

I didn’t know this.

I think asking yourself if you are the kind of person who can separate the artist from the art is important.

Michael Jackson was a disgusting child abuser who ruined lives - I still dance to his music in a club (though couldn’t bear hearing him after first watching Leaving Neverland). The artist himself - I hope he’s burning in hell

Was this ever actually proven? I've not seen any of the docs.

PTSDBarbiegirl · 29/07/2023 13:45

LakeTiticaca · 29/07/2023 10:48

The poor blokes been dead for over 40 years. Why bring it up now?
He can't defend himself can he

Don't forget about poor Ike Turner, Hitler and Gadaffi too.... Poor lambs can't defend themselves. Michael Jackson anyone? Art is full of abusers and criminals but the music and art belongs the the people.

Dreamersdontdie · 29/07/2023 13:45

I agree that there's some allegations about some very at least questionable behaviour from nearly all male music artists, hardly anyone is deemed as being saintly (Ringo maybe?)

My question is why this is, why are or were they all such pigs. I feel if you analysed the behaviour of say your dad and his mates behaviour in the sixties, there wouldn't be nearly the same amount of horrific behaviour. Fame, money, drugs, availability of sex, power? What was it?

newnamethanks · 29/07/2023 14:14

Savonarola lives. We have to stop this, and separate the art from the person that made it, or there will be nothing left. Are we going to have a bonfire of the vanities every few hundred years?

LlynTegid · 29/07/2023 14:16

I was unaware, not that I would run a reggae night and listen to Bob Marley.

WeetabixTowels · 29/07/2023 14:40

Kindofcrunchy · 29/07/2023 13:41

Was this ever actually proven? I've not seen any of the docs.

It depends how you view ‘proven’. If double-figure accusers with compelling stories about a man who openly slept in a bed with pretty little boys before discarding them for the next pretty little boy, owned indecent images of children and is perhaps the world’s most obvious groomer, is enough proof (it certainly is for me) - then yes.

NeverDropYourMooncup · 29/07/2023 14:53

newnamethanks · 29/07/2023 14:14

Savonarola lives. We have to stop this, and separate the art from the person that made it, or there will be nothing left. Are we going to have a bonfire of the vanities every few hundred years?

The dude worked to bring down the Medicis, but pissed off his fanbase by failing to give the crowd the entertainment he'd promised. That's not quite the same.

LakeTiticaca · 29/07/2023 15:00

drpet49 · 29/07/2023 12:28

By that reasoning nor can Jimmy Saville.

You are quite correct but if the odious ex Sir J Savile had been alive and brought to court he would still be entitled to a fair trial just like any one else charged with an offence

skippy67 · 29/07/2023 15:02

TrishM80 · 29/07/2023 12:42

Oh no, does that mean I can't listen to Bob Marley songs anymore?

Never ever again😔

PabloFlowerface · 29/07/2023 15:07

It always makes me wonder why some 'artists' get cancelled and others don't

Rolf Harris - cancelled
Gary Glitter - cancelled
John Peel - semi cancelled

Yet we (as a nation) revere singers like David Bowie

Google Liam Gallagher and the video / images of him strangling his then girlfriend in a hotel corridor a few years ago. He's far from cancelled

ThreeLittleDots · 29/07/2023 15:09

More likely to get cancelled if they're unattractive / unpopular I think.

ThreeLittleDots · 29/07/2023 15:10

Although Liam Gallagher is a hairy knob so that theory doesn't always work!

DojaPhat · 29/07/2023 15:37

Dreamersdontdie · 29/07/2023 13:45

I agree that there's some allegations about some very at least questionable behaviour from nearly all male music artists, hardly anyone is deemed as being saintly (Ringo maybe?)

My question is why this is, why are or were they all such pigs. I feel if you analysed the behaviour of say your dad and his mates behaviour in the sixties, there wouldn't be nearly the same amount of horrific behaviour. Fame, money, drugs, availability of sex, power? What was it?

I'm not sure but I don't think many women had a particularly great time of it in the 60s.

Cas112 · 29/07/2023 15:53

OwlinaTree2 · 29/07/2023 10:11

I don't think it should be cancelled. I was just surprised that the DJ didn't know.

Hardly anyone knows. Clearly

Get over it

Yabusux · 29/07/2023 16:41

Well, I didn't know Bob Marley had a massive wife....

New posts on this thread. Refresh page
Swipe left for the next trending thread