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Cansomeonepleasehelpme · 28/07/2023 21:49

Ok am I losing the plot or what?

Just scrolling at leisure and I have noticed some real odd things happening on my phone.

Aibu to think I'm going mad or is DH up to something?

  1. It's my birthday and I have been receiving emails from Amazon which appear to be for my OH- as they contain the details of my present, like the order summary- he's completely seemingly unaware and I've not mentioned it to him. I assumed he'd put my email in perhaps by mistake.

  2. Names in my phone book on my WhatsApp for some contacts have changed. EG) my mum's name has gone from what I call her (mum) to what my OH calls her (Janet).

  3. I have a terrible habit of not closing tabs on my phone. Just went to shut them down and there was one called "free live sex chat/ strip chat" I was deleting the tabs- it caught my eye so I managed to quickly undo the delete and my eyes nearly popped out.

Any ideas please you clever lot?

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Cansomeonepleasehelpme · 28/07/2023 21:50

Let me just be clear- this is all on my phone ( he pays for my phone not sure if that's relevent) and as far as I'm aware he does not use my phone....

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Wondeyr · 28/07/2023 21:54

Are the Amazon links actually viruses and they've opened the porn sites?

And your WhatsApp contact names can change if the person updates their details.

I had my mum as 'mum' but then she amended her WhatsApp info and then she appeared as 'Emma'.

Cansomeonepleasehelpme · 28/07/2023 22:00

Re the WhatsApp it is a name that my OH calls my mum and no one else does (I put Janet and don't want to be outing!)

Re the sex site. I clicked it and a woman came on live! I looked in my history and said something about syncing with a laptop so maybe he's watching stuff on there????

The Amazon are emails regarding the order as it's expensive and you need a password for delivery (something I'd never heard of)

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Dotcheck · 28/07/2023 22:02

YABU for clicking on a dodgy link. Take note if it, then Google- don’t click on it!

Cansomeonepleasehelpme · 28/07/2023 22:05

But it was an open window/ tab on my phone

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INeedAnotherName · 28/07/2023 22:06

It sounds like your phones have sync'd up. My DH made an accout/paid for DDs phone when she was 14. Somehow they syncd up and she had his contact list on her phone and he had her friends. Check your settings, especially google etc.

No idea about the sex thing.

clairea123 · 28/07/2023 22:08

Could it be your Google/ browser is signed in across all devices?

Usernamev9 · 28/07/2023 22:19

My other halfs parents have a shared contract or something, or one of them pays for both, with the same provider. Don't remember who it is, but they had a similar WhatsApp issue where their names were coming up as just the mums, so dad would be messaging in the group chat but it looked like mum and then mum was also messaging, it was very confusing.

Anywho, my point is, it might be a weris thing with your phone and/or contract if your contacts are changing to what your OH might have them saved as on his phone.

The sex chat tab could just have been an accident. I'm awful for clicking on stuff without realising because I haven't locked my screen and then carried it around the house or whatever. Like an accidental butt dial basically.

Long story short though, just speak to your OH. It doesn't have to be an accusation, just say, all this weird stuff been happening on my phone, like x, y and z. And see what they say.

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