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Feel terrible after ONS

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advicesearcher · 28/07/2023 20:00

Had a ONS at the start of the week, I find it really difficult to find someone I actually like. When I do they are normally awful choices.

I really liked the guy, really fancied him, sex was best I have ever had, he seemed lovely and had so much going for him and ticked many of my boxes of what I would look for.

I had approached him whilst out and about so I was hoping he would ask for my number. He hung around ages in the morning and I was expecting him to ask for my number but he didn't.

I have never laughed with someone so much in my whole life.

I'm really really gutted. I only know his first name, no other info to be able to track him down again. We were both visiting a town for work.

Feel stupid not just giving him my number... my self esteem feels in tatters as I really feel I put myself out there and best self forward and logical part of my brain says he just wasn't that into me not to ask for mine.

I am very easy to find online due to an unusual name which I told him, he hasn't contacted me on social media. I feel really upset.

He wasn't married before anyone says that, he was with a big group and we were all talking about family, pets and kids and he was the only one who was single and no kids as backed up by all his group, very naturally said ect...

AIBU?

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