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Lost my cool

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ellie09 · 27/07/2023 23:30

Just wondering did I over react to this situation or was I right to bring this up?

My boyfriend is moderate active on social media and I had noticed a while back, a girl had been liking his pictures/posts and he had been liking them back. She also seems to have a boyfriend.

He has a lot of friends that are girls from his high school days so initially I shrugged it off.

However, she had been posting cleavage revealing photos recently and he has been liking them and she's been one of few liking all of his.

So I asked him outright. I asked him who she was.

His response was that it was a girl he matched with on Tinder "ages ago". They met up once for a coffee but it didn't work out and they stayed "friends".

He has told me there is nothing going on, that he is sorry, and if it is any comfort that she has a boyfriend anyway.

Are women just on a different planet?

I have never added someone I met just once from Tinder on social media, and I certainly wouldn't be liking all of their personal selfies uploaded either, even if I happened to have them on.

AIBU for bringing this up and causing an argument? It has really annoyed me.

As a note, I am absolutely fine with people of the opposite sex who are long term friends, or you know through work or hobbies etc, but I struggle to understand this scenario and its left a bitter taste on my mouth.

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