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To wish people wouldn't use the word "nana"

675 replies

IDoughnutKnow · 26/07/2023 19:25

Unless you are a toddler and are talking about bananas.

People never used it back in the good old days of MN.

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WaltzingWaters · 26/07/2023 20:04

Neither of mine were called nana but I much prefer it to granny (also not what I called either of mine).
Don’t think I know anybody who uses granny, it’s mostly nan, nana or grandma.

DeliciouslyDecadent · 26/07/2023 20:04

IDoughnutKnow · 26/07/2023 19:25

Unless you are a toddler and are talking about bananas.

People never used it back in the good old days of MN.

This is rather ironic as the term 'Nana' for grandma was used long before the internet existed! And yes, even before MN existed.

My Nana was born in 1896. By the 1960s, I was calling her Nana.

YesIReallyDoLikeRootBeer · 26/07/2023 20:04

What a strange post. Why would anyone care what other people call their Grandmother?
My "Grandmother Name" is no Granny OR Nanna. I'm Grammy, but then again I am (shock and horror) American lol. In America there are tons of different "Grandmother Names" OP would really be shocked at all the choices.

GenieGenealogy · 26/07/2023 20:05

My children have a Nanny, and a Granny. When I was little, I had a granny and a nan.

If you're going to unreasonably judge what people call their female grandparents, I am going to unreasonably judge people who stick random letter Rs where they do not belong and wang on about barrrrnarrrrrnarrrrs instead of bananas. 🙄

Wanderingowl · 26/07/2023 20:05

IDoughnutKnow · 26/07/2023 19:41

"Why" is a very good question, to which I suspect the answer is snobbery (sorry), as I can't think of a rational one. I'm not suggesting that people don't love their grannies/nanas, though, whatever they call them.

It's not just snobbery, it's racism against the Irish as it's very commonly used in Ireland. Classics, especially against northerners in England.

Jeannie88 · 26/07/2023 20:05

From what I've experienced many people prefer to be called Nanna as grandma sounds older. I do know some nannas in their 30s so they aybe dont want to fit into the grandma stereotype.

Flora56 · 26/07/2023 20:05

I think anyone hating a word that means Grandma is just a bit weird. I’m not particularly offended, but it does demonstrate that we live in a country with a ridiculous class system, based on very silly ideas.

Didimum · 26/07/2023 20:05

My DH’s family is posh AF and their grandmother has always been Nana.

MistyMorningMelons · 26/07/2023 20:06

IDoughnutKnow · 26/07/2023 19:53

@AnotherThingToThinkAbout That's actually an interesting link, and it surprises me (though maybe it shouldn't). I thought everyone in real life used "Granny" and it was only on MN that people use Nan or Nana-pronounced-Nanna.

I've never uttered "granny" in my life! My nan was always nan. Nan and grandad. I only had one set of grandparents that I met.

I'd use grandmother if I was labelling a family tree or describing the relationship. But nan was nan.

I've also never called my dad papaaaa.

GuinnessBird · 26/07/2023 20:07

Our son calls DH's mum 'Nana' as that is what she wanted and it doesn't bother me.

Bonjovispjs · 26/07/2023 20:07

I'm 56 and both grandmothers were called Nanna growing up, nothing wrong with it.

MistyMorningMelons · 26/07/2023 20:07

Some people also use different labels for each set of grandparents, so children can say nan/nana/nanny/gran and everyone knows which grandparent they're referring to.

takealettermsjones · 26/07/2023 20:07

The vast amount of regional language variation we have makes our country interesting, in my opinion.

How else would Very British Problems make a living if not by inviting people on twitter to argue over the correct name for a bread roll/alleyway/lift on the back of a bike?

WhiteFire · 26/07/2023 20:08

My poor northern children with their Mom and Grandma, everyone else has a Mam and Nanna. Grin

IDoughnutKnow · 26/07/2023 20:09

All that aside, it is interesting. I like things like Grump and Ganks which katiewil mentioned - the names that children come up with for grandparents and that then stick.

Mum/mom/mam has always seemed to me to be just regional variation (I shared a house with someone from NE England when I was younger).

I call my parents Mummy and Daddy and my children still call me Mummy despite being over 18. I know that's not popular on here, though.

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takealettermsjones · 26/07/2023 20:09

(In my extended family there are Grandmas, Grannies, a Gran, Nanas, and a Nanny. Shoot me 🤷🏻‍♀️)

OhcantthInkofaname · 26/07/2023 20:09

In the American South they use the name "Memaw". Nana is so much better.

1983Louise · 26/07/2023 20:10

Mine was Nana, I'm Mammar, my granddaughter couldn't say Grandma and it's just stuck 😊

aSofaNearYou · 26/07/2023 20:10

My mum is nana, as was her grandmother, so it's not a new thing. Granny is actually the only one I've never had in my family. We called one of mine something unique, then there's grandma, nanny and nana. Never had granny, that sounds incredibly old to me.

MistyMorningMelons · 26/07/2023 20:11

IDoughnutKnow · 26/07/2023 20:09

All that aside, it is interesting. I like things like Grump and Ganks which katiewil mentioned - the names that children come up with for grandparents and that then stick.

Mum/mom/mam has always seemed to me to be just regional variation (I shared a house with someone from NE England when I was younger).

I call my parents Mummy and Daddy and my children still call me Mummy despite being over 18. I know that's not popular on here, though.

Mummy is frightfully posh. Are you frightfully posh?

Mine is mum, or if I'm annoyed MOTHER. When spoken about in her absence, she may be referred to as the mothership.

Ihaveoflate · 26/07/2023 20:11

I don't understand. Most people round our way have a Nana, as does my daughter. I didn't think it had any class distinction, not that it should matter in the least.

TroysMammy · 26/07/2023 20:11

I had a Nana. My mother is now a Nana. I'll never be a Nana but my sister could be in the future.

EarringsandLipstick · 26/07/2023 20:12

Why does it matter?

Such a strange thing to have an opinion on.

In Ireland, 'Nanny' is very popular. As is 'Nan'.

We come from an Irish-speaking family so use Mamó.

Mayhem3 · 26/07/2023 20:12

IDoughnutKnow · 26/07/2023 19:41

"Why" is a very good question, to which I suspect the answer is snobbery (sorry), as I can't think of a rational one. I'm not suggesting that people don't love their grannies/nanas, though, whatever they call them.

Nana is way more posh than grandma/granny hence why so many MNers use it.

It’s an odd thing to get triggered about and there must be some larger back story.