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To wish people wouldn't use the word "nana"

675 replies

IDoughnutKnow · 26/07/2023 19:25

Unless you are a toddler and are talking about bananas.

People never used it back in the good old days of MN.

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oakleaffy · 26/07/2023 22:29

IDoughnutKnow · 26/07/2023 22:22

WasJuliaRight, I'm with you on 'ta' as well. I can't abide it.

Who calls their grandparent ''Ta''??

This is a very silly thread.

CarolinaInTheMorning · 26/07/2023 22:31

I like it when the person's name is incorporated into their grandparent name. I know a man named Andy whose grandkids call him "Grandy." And I remember reading that Jackie Kennedy's grandchildren called her "Grand Jackie."

FabFitFifties · 26/07/2023 22:31

I'm in the NE - nana is the norm.

Anaemiafog · 26/07/2023 22:31

Don't be a dick.

sadaboutmycat · 26/07/2023 22:32

IDoughnutKnow · 26/07/2023 19:36

Oh - sorry. I confused matters by mentioning bananas. I meant "Nanna" as in "Granny". I was only thinking about bananas because I've read several threads recently and my mind has thought "banana" when someone has said "Nana". But, yes, I mean "Nana" as in "Nanna". Someone upthread said they preferred Nana to Nanny, but I think Nanny should be outlawed too (unless it's of the Rees Mogg type, in which case it's a perfectly good name).

Why would you think you can decide what other people call themselves?!

How very peculiar?

FabFitFifties · 26/07/2023 22:35

To be more precise I grew up with Nana Smith, Nana Brown etc. The current little ones in our family, say Nana Jane etc, if talking about them and nana if talking to them.

Abouttimemum · 26/07/2023 22:35

Sorry but it’s Nanna up here! You’d be hard pushed to find any other variations.

Personally not keen on Granny or Nanny.
There’s some Grandma’s amongst some of my friends who aren’t local to the area.

Edders71 · 26/07/2023 22:37

My mum chose to be called Nana as she didn’t want to be called Grandma/Granny or Nanny and end up as Nan.

it’s a lovely name.

AliTheMinx · 26/07/2023 22:44

My mum insisted on being Granny to my DC. I also called both of my grandmothers "Granny". I like it, and I think I would like to be called Granny too if and when the time comes. I think it's quite affectionate. I know the Queen was called Granny too, and I loved the Queen!

DH called his grandmothers "Nanny", and his mum is Nanny to my DC. I'm not too keen on it, but that's just personal preference. There's absolutely nothing wrong with it.

MaidOfSteel · 26/07/2023 22:45

Nanna is the usual name for grandmothers where I'm from!
Or do you mean instead of banana?

Oblomov23 · 26/07/2023 22:46

@IDoughnutKnow

Actually @continentallentil pushed me into it. I only said you are clearly a fucking knob, because @continentallentil seemed to find it odd that I would say I was offended, rather than calling you a fucking tit, which I would've preferred to do, and should've done.

Now, your saying that @continentallentil : "I think Continental sounds a bit nicer than you do at this point, Oblomov."

How do you work that one out? I've said nothing that many other posters on the thread haven't said?

stopbeingacunt · 26/07/2023 22:47

IDoughnutKnow · 26/07/2023 22:21

Someone mentioned them before I did. Grin

Hahaha - berating the plebs for saying Nanna person ut doesn't understand the con ept of name, dropping!

GCSister · 26/07/2023 22:48

IDoughnutKnow · 26/07/2023 22:22

WasJuliaRight, I'm with you on 'ta' as well. I can't abide it.

So you just don't like regional dialect then?

Mindovermatter247 · 26/07/2023 22:48

My dc called my Nan, na-na…. I don’t see what the the problem is… everyone has their own family quirks. It was mostly because dd couldn’t say nan properly when she was like 2 and it stuck… even when we talk about her now (she died 5 years ago) we use it

AppleTurnover1000Degrees · 26/07/2023 22:49

MadisonAvenue · 26/07/2023 22:16

Nanna isn’t impressed with the OP

😂

I'm a Nanny to my DGC.

We don't have nanny childcare in our family though.

We're not the right class.

ElephantLove · 26/07/2023 22:49

@IDoughnutKnow I had two Nanas and my mum is Nana. Didn’t know it was working class 😄

But adult kids who call their kids “mummy” sound like absolute twats so I’ll stick to being common 😄

Iwishmymumwouldbemymum · 26/07/2023 22:49

Yeah my DC have two grannies and I'm their mum. When people refer to me as their mam my head spins around like that scene in The Exorcist. Ta is unforgivable.

CoteDOpale · 26/07/2023 22:52

I prefer Grandma purely because that’s what I grew up with, but live and let live. Different strokes, etc.

Nanny is the one I don’t really ‘get’. I always think of a nanny as in the profession - someone you can employ to look after your kids, not their biological grandmother!

Bloodyleaverspartybollocks · 26/07/2023 22:53

Only ever heard nana around here.
Variations are Nan or Nanny
Never Gran. Granny Grandma

Soulstirring · 26/07/2023 22:53

This is genuinely amusing as for some undefined reason I irrationally dislike grandma and grannie

each to their own

Knittingisacraptherapy · 26/07/2023 22:53

I'm most definitely a nana and my husband is a bampi (which is grandpa in Welsh). 🙂

Fannyannie · 26/07/2023 22:54

I loved my beautiful Nana 💗still miss her💗

pillsthrillsandbellyache · 26/07/2023 22:57

Adult children who call their parents mummy and daddy give me the heebie jeebies. I prefer grandma to granny and don't mind nanna. I am common as fook though.

Canaryinawharf · 26/07/2023 22:58

Riv · 26/07/2023 20:39

In the”good old days” Nana was definitely used as a name for the mother of a parent. My mother and her mother used it for their relations (so going back to at least 1900 when my nana was born)
For our family (and the wider neighbourhood where I was brought up in North East England) Nana usually refers to the mother’s mother and Grandma to the fathers mother. There are rules about forenames and surnames added after title if someone wants ignore the convention and have all the grandchildren use the same title!

I am glad someone else mentioned adding surnames, as in "Nana Smith" and "Nana Jones". This is how we distinguished between my grandmothers. One was v glamorous, drove a sports car and wore Chanel and the other one knitted, fed me constantly on ice cream, frosties with cream and pocket money, and had a fag hanging out of her mouth and a granny -perm - the latter as a child I believed to be a proper granny in my mind! The former slighly scary and not quite right on the granny front. Both perfectly happy being called Nana.

We've actually exported Nana to my mother-in-law - she was very averse to being called grandmother in her mother tongue but loves being " French Nana" to my kids, distinguishing herself from "Nana Jones" who is their great granny. My own Mum has plumped for "granny" probably to avoid confusion (as there would then by 2 "Nana Jones").

Mindovermatter247 · 26/07/2023 22:59

It’s funny because DP is from midlands, his mum was quite uptight so they had to do stuff the ‘proper way’ his mums mum was grandma and his dads stepmom was nan
I’m from london.I called both grandparents Nan and grandad but used thier surname when discussing them with the family…
we are middle class. My mum, Nan etc did the same with thier grandparents.