I’ve met up with DD’s boyfriend’s mum a couple of times. DD says his mum thinks I’m really nice person but a bit old. I am 52 and she is 44.
It really stung for some reason. Although I am ‘old’ (I’m definitely not young), it was still a shock to hear it spoken plainly.
I don’t think I’m very old fashioned and I’ve always looked young for my age (until now).
AIBU to feel bothered by this?
AIBU?
To not want to be thought of as old?
PrinceHaz · 26/07/2023 09:32
Am I being unreasonable?
300 votes. Final results.
POLLFrenchandSaunders · 26/07/2023 09:34
How old is your DD! And why would she tell you that .... or most importantly, why would his mum even say that to them! She sounds weird, I'd distance myself, no need to get involved if only a BF
bibbityboppityboo · 26/07/2023 09:36
Is she a young 44? I've met people in their 40s and I'm just 30 - I still feel "older" than them when we compare lifestyles 😂 nothing to do with physical age in my experience.
NessieMcNessface · 26/07/2023 09:43
It’s hard it know what she means by ‘old’. I think I’d take it as a compliment! She sounds rather immature tbh. I wouldn’t overthink it, just laugh it off and don’t doubt yourself. She may perceive herself as still a ‘young thing’ who has a bit of an issue with the idea of getting older, whereas you may be a bit more mature (appropriately so) in your manner; hence the comment.
PrinceHaz · 26/07/2023 09:43
She didn’t say this directly to DD by the way, she’d never do that. She said it in conversation with her son.
PrinceHaz · 26/07/2023 09:43
She didn’t say this directly to DD by the way, she’d never do that. She said it in conversation with her son.
PrinceHaz · 26/07/2023 09:43
She didn’t say this directly to DD by the way, she’d never do that. She said it in conversation with her son.
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Campingsuperstar · 26/07/2023 09:50
Come on bro you can’t vibe together, you chillax in legit different wayz. Can’t be no fam with your differing chibes.
and maybe that’s a good thing.
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