People who moan about not being invited

[ShellssAndSand]

When they don’t come anyway.

Small aibu but I’m really annoyed right now.

The act of inviting and people being given the chance to say yes or no counts for a lot more than not being given the choice. Although with such limited information I have no idea who is being unreasonable.

Someone moaned they weren’t invited to something (many others weren’t so it’s not a one person left out type situation)

One event they messaged after they were suppose to arrive that they weren’t coming.

Second event they read the group message and didn’t respond. Kicked off that we haven’t invited them.

Now third event they said yes to, I asked about confirming numbers now it’s closer to the date. She’s read it and not responded. I called her and she said in a bored voice “oh that lunch, I’ll let you know”.