To wonder what I've done wrong.

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A work colleague has started to blank me completely. We used to chat often and now nothing. Very strange. I did ask if I'd done something to upset or offend but was told not. Would you just leave it at that? I don't have to ask her much really and she isn't on my team but aibu to wonder what I've done?

Just leave it, it might not be anything to do with you.

Dont worry too much.

She's possibly too distracted or stressed right now to make small talk?

Thanks I will. Just hard when she's normal with everyone else but me.

I had this once. We got on, and on paper should have continued to do so, but this person got sulky and snappy with me overnight.

As it turned out she'd been kicked out by her partner and was resentful of me when I got pregnant shortly after (she didn't tell me this - our boss did). She thought I had it so easy, etc.

Have they had any personal circs change?