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Who is being unreasonable

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Sunnsunsun · 17/07/2023 16:10

I had my property inspection today and it was ok at first. Then she was saying I upset her by reporting her to the HSE because gas cert was out of date and she wasn’t replying to me when I reported it. She raised her voice at me and said she doesn’t know why I would do that and that it’s put a spanner in the works.

She then started saying she thinks I should get a job. (Currently not working, single parent, looking for work but I don’t see how it’s her business). She spoke to me in a really condescending way and like I was a lesser person.

Id spent the last few days cleaning and tidying up and making it presentable, just for her to comment on a laundry basket that was full that was ready to go in the washing machine and a tiny bit of dust. She was going round saying oh this needs new wall paper (a little bit has come off) in the bedroom and she has told me I need to do it and have new wall paper put on but I have photos to show it was like that when I moved in.

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MargosMangos · 17/07/2023 16:12

She sounds like she was having a bad day- forget about it now

Sunnsunsun · 17/07/2023 16:15

Thanks. I thought that but she’s always like this with me since I moved in, whenever she comes to do an inspection or if I speak to her on the phone

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Babsexxx · 17/07/2023 16:19

I would report her! Gas certificate is a huge deal your laundry is not one bit her business inspections are to make sure carpets are kept well doors and walls no holes in nothing structurally broken or damaged not for dust and washing she was completely out of line.

She dropped the ball big time with that certificate!

Maddy70 · 17/07/2023 16:20

She's annoyed because you wanted something sorted which is a necessary and b a legal requirement. She got caught. So she is nit picking ignore her and if she makes any comment about your job ask her why she thinks her opinion is of any value to you

Dogsitterwoes · 17/07/2023 16:24

She was just nit-picking and having a dig at you because you reported her, but it's her own fault she was reported.she may also be suffering from a case of feeling very important.

Ignore it all and don't worry about it. None of the things she commented on are any of her business.

I hate being inspected, it feels so intrusive anyway, but try not to let her get to you.

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