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I think I am being cyber stalked

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strawberryshortcakex · 17/07/2023 06:57

For the past 5-6 months I have received none stop messages from very fake accounts. These profiles will either have no profile pictures or photos of old men. I have had 3 profiles contact me with old men as the profile pictures. Each one of these accounts states to "own their own construction company" & they all message me asking me the same thing. If I have any experience in being a sugar daddy & how they want to look after me and support me but I have to be loyal & trustworthy. Now these accounts have little to no friends the max being 17, the friends list looks like just random people from a different country. These accounts claim to be from Texas however use " no offence and "xxx" at the end of sentences which I'm sure is just a British thing. I received a message from an account yesterday " love you baby you don't have to worry about money anymore baby, theirs always time for good times and bad times and with me you'll be good".

I've also had messages from accounts over the past 5 months with no profile picture asking "do I miss them" , asking for my bank details for my pu$$y & asking for me to get taxis to meet them for a drink. Each time I block these accounts a new one will message or add me a few days or hours later. I have blocked each account the most recent being today , I have completely locked down my social media's and I'm considering making a new profile for a while. I really don't know what to do as I don't feel like anyone would even believe me. I'm 99.9% this must be the same person doing this but I feel crazy thinking this way. I really don't know what to do at this point anymore.

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Clementineorsatsuma · 17/07/2023 07:08

I think it's much more likely that you have appeared on an internet scanners listing and these are just phishing messages coming out automatically. These scammers are very automated until they get a 'bite' and then a real (but fake) person takes over. Think of a large contact centre with hundreds of people following up responses from people who have been targeted by software.
Just delete without opening and the cookies will tell the software not to bother any more. And the messages will lessen.
It's not a personal thing. And it's not a person. Just a computer. Try not to worry.

strawberryshortcakex · 17/07/2023 07:15

I really hope so, it’s been just 3 profiles reach out and ask about being a sugar daddy the rest of the time its fake accounts claiming to live where I do & asking me to go round for drinks ect so that’s what is kind of making me think twice

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PurplePens · 17/07/2023 07:21

It sounds a bit like those emails that sometimes appear in my inbox from
' local women looking for hot sex with you ' ( they'd have a herculean task on their hands )
Keep your media locked down and delete the messages without opening them. It sounds like spamming more than stalking.

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