I can be a bit of a door mat just for context. I have complex PTSD which means I find making and maintaining friendships very hard. I’m at a point in my life where I feel I don’t care anymore about how many people I have in my life and I shouldn’t try so hard with people who treat me like crap.
can I ask you what your standards are like?
examples of things which make me think I have low standards:
I text a certain someone and she takes over a week to always reply. Often it’s time sensitive things like “you fancy going for coffee tomorrow”. We’re in common groups and I can see she responds to other things! I’ve backed off previously and she’s asked me what’s happened and I’ve explained why and she apologised etc. truthfully I’m happy to let the friendship due, the kids see each other in school so I don’t need to make do much effort.