I met my husband when we were both working in hospitality and would work late nights. The last year or so I have moved into health care so I work shifts and he is still in hospitality but finished considerably earlier (9pm instead of 4am.) HOWEVER! My husband enjoys a little xbox sesh on an evening and unwinding after work, but he still stays up untill atleast 2am most nights. I go to bed alone most of the time, and this means I normally wake up first to start my day. I feel like im being a moody cow expecting him to come to bed with me but also feel like it wouldnt hurt to atleast TRY and readjust his body clock so we could get a little more time together say in the morning. I usually go to bed at around midnight on a day im not working in the early hours but he still stays up. We are way less intimate because of this. I also get grossed out with him coming into bed and sleeping in the socks he has been working in all day and he doesnt seem to see this as a problem at all! AIBU or if not how do I approach this with out being naggy!