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To not pay to choose seats but expect to sit together?

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Peachpicklepie · 24/06/2023 17:41

I'll be flying with easyjet on a short flight (just over an hour) soon. It will be me, my toddler (2 years 4 months) and my baby (four months). Baby will be on my lap. According to the website they will sit children near an accompanying adult - surely in the case of a two year old this means next to?! I really don't want to spend another £20 on choosing seats if it's unnecessary.

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SunnyEgg · 24/06/2023 18:00

I’d just pay, avoid the extra stress

BingleBongleBoo · 24/06/2023 18:01

If you can afford to fly you can afford to sit with your toddler. Just pay and pick your seats.

Please don't be THAT parent.

PlasticineKing · 24/06/2023 18:01

YABVVVU. You have to factor this in now with almost every airline. If you can’t afford it then you need to find the money elsewhere or not go.

FlounderingFruitcake · 24/06/2023 18:01

I’ve risked this with 5/6YO a few times and we’ve occasionally got over the aisle or row in front, not easyjet but United, American and Ryanair. We’re happy with that though, she’s flown a lot and if she has her snack, ipad and drink she’s silent for hours. With a 2YO though no way would I risk it. x1000 with a baby because getting up to help them will be so much more difficult.

DemonicCaveMaggot · 24/06/2023 18:02

Budget airlines want you to pay for the extras so if anything they would be more likely to seat you separately to force you to pay the twenty pounds.

I would pay to ensure I was seated next to my child, much as I would have liked to pay to not be seated next to my children when they were 2.

FettleOfKish · 24/06/2023 18:04

DemonicCaveMaggot · 24/06/2023 18:02

Budget airlines want you to pay for the extras so if anything they would be more likely to seat you separately to force you to pay the twenty pounds.

I would pay to ensure I was seated next to my child, much as I would have liked to pay to not be seated next to my children when they were 2.

Not true of easyJet. They allocate seating together by booking, unless you're the very last to check in and there's only single seats left.

NuffSaidSam · 24/06/2023 18:05

I can't believe the people saying they wouldn't move! I'd rather sit on a wing than next to a stranger's 2 year old for a flight.

JamSandle · 24/06/2023 18:05

I never pay but usually end up sat with who I'm travelling with. But it's not guaranteed.

BasiliskStare · 24/06/2023 18:05

Honestly if you can afford to fly somewhere I would pay the £20. The £20 may be unnecessary - until it isn't. But your risk - if it works great but it is something of a risk I think.

catsnhats11 · 24/06/2023 18:05

Peachpicklepie · 24/06/2023 17:56

I wouldn't want someone who had paid to have to move - I agree that would be a dick move and inconvenience everyone while some poor sod was found who would move. I guess I was wondering if the easyJet booking algorithms would pre-allocated us seats together in advance as he's so young (for instance, hypothetically four years and up could sit across an aisle but three and under are next to the adult) even if they don't tell me that!

The algorithm doesn't look at age. If there are seats available together you'll get them together when you book in, if there are only single seats left, you'll be separated. Most uk airlines, easyJet, tui, jet2 operate like this. Ryanair do not.

I actually think it shows you the seats when you check in and you have the option at that point to accept them or choose to pay to swap. Main thing is, check in early.

dizzydizzydizzy · 24/06/2023 18:05

I would not pay. But checking in early is a good idea.

sevenbyseven · 24/06/2023 18:06

I've never paid and it's always been fine. Just check in nice and early.

Mammamia2023 · 24/06/2023 18:06

Gooseysgirl · 24/06/2023 17:50

This happened to a woman and her young daughter (around age 6-8) on a Ryanair flight that I was on recently and it delayed our departure because it took ages to get people to agree to swap 😤 Yes it's a pain, but just pay the money, it's not fair on the other passengers.

and I bet those who finally agreed to swap did it because they wanted to just get going not because they actually wanted to!

Op pay the money. My dh and I have always booked seats even before children because we didn’t even get seated together on our honeymoon and that was a lesson learned!
Nothing worse than sitting on a flight that we have paid extra money to sit together whilst some entitled parents demands they are seated with their child.

MargotBamborough · 24/06/2023 18:07

I wouldn't pay in principle. I hate all these airlines charging for things which should be included in the ticket price. As soon as everyone had accepted that it is normal to pay extra to choose your seat, they'll start charging people to use the toilet.

ilovethecold · 24/06/2023 18:07

My friend went on holiday with her 3 year old last month and forgot to book the seats and her daughter was 2 rows in front of her with no one moving. Her little girl kept everyone amused on the flight sharing her sweets round.

jamimmi · 24/06/2023 18:07

You can risk.it, but be prepared to be like the woman and 3/4 yr old next to us on an easyjet fight. Not booked seats sat across the asile from each other. They assumed sombody would move but DH is sight impaired so needs me next to him on the flight as part of there safety rules and the other couple had.an obviously very nervous flyer who needed their companion. She wasn't impressed but I bet she booked next time

GulesMeansRed · 24/06/2023 18:08

NuffSaidSam · 24/06/2023 18:05

I can't believe the people saying they wouldn't move! I'd rather sit on a wing than next to a stranger's 2 year old for a flight.

I have noise cancelling headphones and a very good resting bitch face expression.

TheHateIsNotGood · 24/06/2023 18:08

During a busy time of year, like 'high summer', I'd pay - flights are fuller so less options for cabin crew to ask people to swap to accommodate you, particularly those that have the foresight to pay in advance.

Also, you could even delay the flight if it misses its 'slot' due to trying to find people willing to swap - many other families also travel this time of year too.

arethereanyleftatall · 24/06/2023 18:08

You, probably, will be seated next to each other.

But, hypothetically, everyone on the flight could be a single parent with a toddler and done the same. So half of you will have the toddler behind.

For £20 I'd pay it, because it would be worth it to not worry about it from now until you're seated.

Mammamia2023 · 24/06/2023 18:09

GulesMeansRed · 24/06/2023 18:08

I have noise cancelling headphones and a very good resting bitch face expression.

🤣🤣

I also wouldn’t move because I will have paid the price to get the seat I want!

catsnhats11 · 24/06/2023 18:09

DemonicCaveMaggot · 24/06/2023 18:02

Budget airlines want you to pay for the extras so if anything they would be more likely to seat you separately to force you to pay the twenty pounds.

I would pay to ensure I was seated next to my child, much as I would have liked to pay to not be seated next to my children when they were 2.

Incorrect, I regular travel on easyjet and jet2, they will seat you together if the seats are available at check in at no extra cost.

I believe ryanair is the only airline that deliberately separates (going by what I've read).

neilyoungismyhero · 24/06/2023 18:09

I was on a Ryanair flight where a 3/4 year old was seated down the front of the plane and dad at the back. The seats behind him/me about 8 rows, were all empty but they wouldn't allow them to sit together despite him asking. The child, bless her, didn't make a fuss but after take off they both just sat in the empty rows and nothing was said. They stayed there for landing too.

WonderfulUsername · 24/06/2023 18:09

SchoolShenanigans · 24/06/2023 17:43

It would be a safeguarding risk to NOT put you together, surely.

I would call them and ask if their policy allows them to place a 2 year old away from their guardian. I suspect not. Let us know what they say!

I suspect they'll say that primarily the safeguarding of the child is the responsibility of the parent.

If the OP isn't fussed enough to sort it out in advance, why should the airline be fussed?

catsnhats11 · 24/06/2023 18:10

Together can be right next to each other, or next to each other but across an aisle btw.

yogasaurus · 24/06/2023 18:10

MargotBamborough · 24/06/2023 18:07

I wouldn't pay in principle. I hate all these airlines charging for things which should be included in the ticket price. As soon as everyone had accepted that it is normal to pay extra to choose your seat, they'll start charging people to use the toilet.

They really won’t.