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Should I text him

11 replies

AmyJahabee · 18/06/2023 20:06

I met a guy online 3 weeks ago we got really well had first date after a week of chatting all seem perfect and we both like and felt chemistry, so we been constantly chatting and last Friday I ask him out for second date he couldn’t make it due to his kids activities, but he didn’t say anything about rescheduling another date. We still texting each other but I’m getting bored of it and feel not to continue texting with him. Should I be patient and keep texting and see if he will ask to meet? What the best to do? I really like him and feel we have a lot in common.

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UpUpUpU · 18/06/2023 20:09

I wouldn’t bother wasting your time. He would have rescheduled if he wanted to. Next!

Evaka · 18/06/2023 20:13

Agree with PP, sorry OP. Ball's back in his court and he's not playing :(

blackbeardsballsack · 18/06/2023 20:25

No, I would never text him again in this situation

FurryPelmet · 18/06/2023 20:28

You’ve already made your feelings clear by asking him for a second date. He knows this and has done nothing to reassure you that he’s enthusiastic about seeing you again, It’s now his turn to show he’s keen. Don’t suggest it and don’t keep texting him if he’s let two weeks slide without making another plan with you.

Murdoch1949 · 19/06/2023 05:10

He's not interested. Stop texting him and move on.

Tilllly · 19/06/2023 05:22

Definitely not!
Sounds like he's keeping you in reserve

autieawesome · 19/06/2023 05:56

If you like him I would ask directly if he is up for another date. If he's not then walk away. But at least you know. If he is letting you do all the running that would also put me off

Yahyahs22 · 19/06/2023 06:18

Stop replying/starting conversation and see if he cares enough to try keep it going

AmyJahabee · 19/06/2023 08:28

Thanks everyone from majority suggestions, I have deleted his number so to avoid me texting to start conversation. I’ll leave it and like all says if he’s keen and interested he will get in touch.

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AmyJahabee · 19/06/2023 08:30

I’m glad I asked for second date otherwise I wouldn’t know and would’ve keep chatting as he seem interested in communicating but maybe not meeting up again

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Thepeopleversuswork · 19/06/2023 08:44

Leave it. If he was keen he'd have let you know.

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