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Would you go to cinema alone?

123 replies

Diedre44 · 17/06/2023 08:03

Sad as it might sound, I seriously have nobody to go with. Not in the sense no-one wants to see or fancies the films I want to see, the fact I have nobody to ask. I have no friends and DH and DP really do not want to come and see Barbie with me. I really don't think I'd have a problem going alone but they're making fun of me wanting to go alone.
I'm comfortable going for a coffee or lunch out alone and wouldn't "interact" while watching a movie anyway so don't see the problem going alone anyway.
Would you go alone?

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GonnaGetGoingReturns · 17/06/2023 08:16

I don’t generally go alone but when late queen was lying in state and I had to work I went to Curzon Victoria one night after work whilst I had to go away and return to the queue (for lying in state) - it was great. No one batted an eyelid. I’d do it again.

Changes17 · 17/06/2023 08:18

I had a phase of having to take DD to a 2 hour rehearsal that was 40 minutes from home but 10 minutes from a shopping centre with a multiplex cinema. Rather than hang around the shops, I used to just buy a £5 ticket to whatever was on that best fitted my timings - saw a few things I’d never have gone to see, such as most of the Downton Abbey film, an animation, and during a particularly long and well timed rehearsal managed to see the whole of last summer’s mission impossible film. Was great!

ChildrenOfTheQuorn · 17/06/2023 08:18

I've gone alone for a film I've really wanted to see (and no one else did).

AmITooOldToDoThis · 17/06/2023 08:20

I do it all the time. Also the theatre, concerts, holidays, dinners.

TooOldForThisNonsense · 17/06/2023 08:20

I’ve been to the cinema on my own loads of times. Love it.

ShandaLear · 17/06/2023 08:20

One of my friends, in an act of self love, bought herself a season ticket to the local cinema and at least once a week she grabs her keys and takes herself off to go and see whatever is showing. She says it doesn’t much matter what she watches, but she loves the cinema and just zoning out for a few hours a week is a great way to relax. So yes, go and think nothing of it. For lots of people going to see movies is a hobby, not a social event.

continentallentil · 17/06/2023 08:22

Sure, I do. Also happily go to the theatre/exhibitions/gigs alone if no one else wants to go

Why would they make fun off you? That’s weird. No one will notice or care .m

Diedre44 · 17/06/2023 08:23

cantcopenow · 17/06/2023 08:10

(You have a DH AND a DP? Not judging, just wondering how you cope 😂😂)

It does seem like the sort of film that would be more fun with friends. But if the choice is going alone or not going, then of course you should go! Go when it’s busy, that will be more fun I should think.

Your family are being horrible, sorry to say. They don’t have to go with you, but they shouldn’t be trying to put you off doing a perfectly normal activity FFS.

Awww that's a bloody typo. Dunno how to edit should be DS...
First time I don't preview before posting just my luck. 😅
I'm NC with the other so that's annoying.

The making fun is very much tongue in cheek, it's more the fact that it's not something they would do themselves. 😆

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Pearlsaleftwinger · 17/06/2023 08:25

Yes, I love it, even better when I’ve got the place to myself. Feels like a private screening

CamelCaseLetter · 17/06/2023 08:25

Before dc it was one of my great pleasures. I lived in Richmond and would go to Pizza Express and order picky bits like olives, Halloumi fries, kalamari, etc and a bottle of wine to wash it down. Then stagger across the street to the cinema to watch a film with loads of sweets. Oh to be young and carefree again!

cantcopenow · 17/06/2023 08:26

Diedre44 · 17/06/2023 08:23

Awww that's a bloody typo. Dunno how to edit should be DS...
First time I don't preview before posting just my luck. 😅
I'm NC with the other so that's annoying.

The making fun is very much tongue in cheek, it's more the fact that it's not something they would do themselves. 😆

Sorry, I was teasing, I was pretty sure it was meant to be DS 😉

Ah let them tease then, my family tease me about everything. I attempt to rise above 😇

electriclight · 17/06/2023 08:27

I've done this lots of times and really enjoy it. You will see other people there alone too. Who cares once you are sitting down in the dark? You can't talk anyway.

Diedre44 · 17/06/2023 08:27

@ShandaLear
Ooooh I'm going to do this.

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BatshitCrazyWoman · 17/06/2023 08:28

Yes, I do it often. There are always a few people in the cinema on their own. I love it!

EmmaGrundyForPM · 17/06/2023 08:29

I love going to the cinema on my own.

Cuppaand2biscuits · 17/06/2023 08:30

Yes, I have been a few times on my own. You'll have a lovely time.

whataboutme77 · 17/06/2023 08:31

Persse · 17/06/2023 08:08

I’m always baffled by these posts. Why on earth wouldn’t you see a film alone? Why would it be ‘sad’? Do you really think sitting in the dark watching something absorbing on a big screen needs validating by the presence of someone else?

I definitely agree with this, I'm in the "I'd do pretty much anything on my own"
Not because I have nobody to ask (mostly) but just because I'm a bit of a loner and prefer my own company sometimes.
Nobody cares, the only time people have noticed me on my own is when they want to join me because they're alone too.
Go for it and ignore DH.

ISaySteadyOn · 17/06/2023 08:32

The cinema on my own! I forgot that could be an option. Sitting in a relatively comfy chair watching a fun film (tbh, OP, I would totally go see Barbie with you, it looks great) with no chance of anyone interrupting or yelling 'Mummy!', sounds idyllic.

Go!

Randomness12 · 17/06/2023 08:32

100% I do it a couple of times a year! My dh falls asleep in the dark so it's such a waste of money him coming too. I even went alone on my birthday one year to see the Downton Abbey movie, loved it. Splash out and do the recliners, nice snacks etc

Talia99 · 17/06/2023 08:32

Yes? I have a Cineworld pass and I almost never go with anyone. To me cinema going is something I do on my own. I occasionally go with my Mum when I visit my parents but that’s because she’s someone else who doesn’t like going on her own and it lets my Dad (who isn’t keen on cinemas but who ends up going frequently) skip a couple of films!

Fandabedodgy · 17/06/2023 08:33

Of course.

Going to the cinema and theatre by yourself is a pleasure.

I do it regularly

AnImaginaryCat · 17/06/2023 08:33

I do- totally comfortable with it for an afternoon as there's fewer people there. (I feel uncomfortable being alone in a crowd, as it makes me feel lonely.)

Once I went and was the only person on the theatre. Was great sat right in the middle for my private showing.

littleburn · 17/06/2023 08:34

Yes, since getting divorced 5 years ago I do lots of things alone. It's very liberating and, honestly, no one is looking or gives a shit anyway!

DandelionPockets · 17/06/2023 08:35

Nothing better than a weekday early afternoon screening on your own! It's one of the things I do to treat myself.

caringcarer · 17/06/2023 08:36

Changes17 · 17/06/2023 08:12

Love going to the cinema on my own. Don’t have to justify my film or snack choices!

Yes, if I go alone I always have an ice cream, a drink and maltesers. If DH is with me I just have ice cream and a drink, thinking he will think I'm greedy if I get both. I see plenty of other people sitting on there own too when I go.