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To think UK should have moved on from carpeting by this stage

503 replies

Finlesswonder · 17/06/2023 00:10

It's gross, it's ugly, it's high maintenance, and in a world of global warming, it increasingly feels like a dust and burning sun heat trap.
Why are people in this country still obsessed with carpeting?

OP posts:
theblackradiator · 17/06/2023 11:36

Robyn847 · 17/06/2023 11:26

Ahh. Now I know it's something we don't see very often, but the heat in the conservatory is due to something called 'the sun'. If you go outside and look up its that round shiny yellow thing that hurts you eyes to look at. The hot feeling is coming from that thing, not the big dusty cushions or curtains. The cushions might feel warm, but that's only due to the sun, they don't actually generate heat themselves. Nor does the carpet. This might be a bit confusing, because if you open the windows the conservatory gets a little cooler. But that's not the cushion heat escaping I promise, its this thing called 'a breeze' coming in. And we'll cover that in next week's lesson.

🤣 this post made me laugh. can't wait for next week's lesson 🤣

Sunshineishere1988 · 17/06/2023 11:36

Peppadog · 17/06/2023 10:29

Actually reading this with interest as we have just bought our first house (1930s) and can't decide whether to carpet or not.
Leaning towards carpets and living room and hard floor everywhere else, but really torn about the living room. I have feeling the house will be cold in winter so I'd quite like a cosy room and think carpets help with that.
We had a cream carpet throughout our entire last flat (was there when we bought it) and it was good quality and hardly stained even with 3 kids, as we could just get the stains out with carpet cleaner. It was so cosy and warm in there.

We’re in the same type of home and did wood floor everywhere downstairs except the living room and carpet upstairs. Tiles in the bathrooms. I would need a big rug in the living room if it had wood floor as just wouldn’t feel cosy and warm. Kitchen/dining room easy to keep clean and mop down. Never had a problem with stains with kids-they know to eat and drink downstairs.

SlightlygrumpyBettyswaitress · 17/06/2023 11:47

Noise.
Our homes typically have been hard floors downstairs.
But upstairs and on the stairs, always and forever carpet cos I cannot bear the noise

Beezknees · 17/06/2023 11:49

I like carpet in my bedroom. I don't have any in the living room.

zingally · 17/06/2023 11:51

I like carpets!

In a climate like England, which, for the bulk of the year is either wet, grey or cold, a carpet creates a nice homely, warm atmosphere.

A very close friend of mine recently took up all her downstairs carpets and replaced with fake wood. It's not my taste AT ALL. now the whole downstairs echoes whenever their dog barks.
Another friend put white tile in their whole downstairs. It looks much nicer than Friend A's house, but it's like sitting in a dentists surgery.

OohThatCat · 17/06/2023 11:53

@RampantIvy with the amount of cat hair ingrained in the carpet, yes it did. Hoovering the stairs was a nightmare too. But thanks for insinuating I live in a filthy home.

DollyTrolly · 17/06/2023 11:53

Finlesswonder · 17/06/2023 10:28

OK guys the poll has spoken and I relent, I give up, I am clearly trying to convert the unconvertable and will concede that....IABU!!!

It's not about conversion though, it's about keeping my house warm!

ActDottie · 17/06/2023 11:57

Wood flooring downstairs
carpet upstairs
i wouldn’t say I’m obsessed with carpets though?

Tiredalwaystired · 17/06/2023 11:59

All types of flooring are unhygienic. The sooner we all learn to hover the better in my opinion.

KnittedCardi · 17/06/2023 12:04

All these clean freaks. Honestly, I can't remember the last time I licked my carpet, so frankly I won't worry about it being a bit dusty.

NatashaDancing · 17/06/2023 12:13

KnittedCardi · 17/06/2023 12:04

All these clean freaks. Honestly, I can't remember the last time I licked my carpet, so frankly I won't worry about it being a bit dusty.

It's another world. Amazing (and not in a good way)

NatashaDancing · 17/06/2023 12:18

Robyn847 · 17/06/2023 11:26

Ahh. Now I know it's something we don't see very often, but the heat in the conservatory is due to something called 'the sun'. If you go outside and look up its that round shiny yellow thing that hurts you eyes to look at. The hot feeling is coming from that thing, not the big dusty cushions or curtains. The cushions might feel warm, but that's only due to the sun, they don't actually generate heat themselves. Nor does the carpet. This might be a bit confusing, because if you open the windows the conservatory gets a little cooler. But that's not the cushion heat escaping I promise, its this thing called 'a breeze' coming in. And we'll cover that in next week's lesson.

That's a wonderful response.

Ylvamoon · 17/06/2023 12:21

@KnittedCardi - we as a family lick our carpets regularly. All the microscopic gritters that live in there are a good source of protein. Would be a shame to waste, especially now that meat is soo expensive!

OwlRightThen · 17/06/2023 12:30

Caspianberg · 17/06/2023 05:31

Agree.
Most uk is really badly built insulation wise, hence why every saying it’s cold in winter.

If you go to Sweden, Austria, the alps in January with piles of snow, it’s freezing outside, yet nobody has carpet. Nobody has has carpet ever really. And houses are nice and warm

Don't they mostly have underfloor heating though?

RampantIvy · 17/06/2023 12:42

TheKeatingFive · 17/06/2023 11:20

The competitive hygiene-ing on Mumsnet is one of its oddest features. Living in sterile bubbles isn't much fun and probably does more harm than good.

I agree.
The loo seat hoverers, the zoflora worshippers, the competitive cleaning posters.

It is such an unhealthy attitude and way of life.

My house is clean. DH has just finished vacuuming, I have cleaned the bathrooms and I will wash the kitchen floor later. We live cleanly - shower regularly, don't wear outdoor shoes in the house, don't have pets or small children, don't sweat on carpets and furniture and don't spill food and drink on carpets.

The housework gets done once a week on average because we just don't create that much dirt and mess.

Caspianberg · 17/06/2023 12:44

@OwlRightThen - no. Only modern places, same as uk.
Our house was built 1950. Wooden floors or tile everywhere. Was oil or wood heated until last year. It’s -20 here often all winter, house is never cold. It’s currently +32 outside and cool inside also. No aircon ( also only in modern fancy places). The walls are very thick and insulated.
Neighbour houses are flats, also built same era, no carpets. Walls and floors solid as you can’t hear a thing between floors.

TakeMe2Insanity · 17/06/2023 12:44

Carrusa · 17/06/2023 00:28

We're in a heatwave but for much of the last year millions have been rationing their heating and even living in fuel poverty. Carpet feels warmer and holds the heat in better. If you want to minimise energy use it's a great choice. Our house felt much warmer, and we could see the bills drop, when we carpeted over our beautiful but draughty parquet.

Also subfloors in old houses are not always that flat, and hard flooring is really unforgiving of that.

This response covers it beautifully.

KnittedCardi · 17/06/2023 12:55

Ylvamoon · 17/06/2023 12:21

@KnittedCardi - we as a family lick our carpets regularly. All the microscopic gritters that live in there are a good source of protein. Would be a shame to waste, especially now that meat is soo expensive!

Licking your arms is also a good source of protein. Lots of micro-organisms.

DarrellRiversCriminalBehaviourOrder · 17/06/2023 14:06

TheKeatingFive · 17/06/2023 11:20

The competitive hygiene-ing on Mumsnet is one of its oddest features. Living in sterile bubbles isn't much fun and probably does more harm than good.

It's even weirder given that MN is obsessed with class and class signifiers and traditionally, excessive hygiene/overwashing is seen as a working class trait (if you're the kind of person who gives a shit about that sort of thing).

I can't relate to a woman who waves her bum over toilet seats in terror, can't enter a carpeted house without internally obsessing over how disgusting it is or wear a new dress straight off the rack because she's so paralysed by the idea that someone else touched it. How can anyone let their life be ruled by such ridiculous fears? How does someone this irrationally uptight ever achieve orgasm?

Catmuffin · 17/06/2023 14:08

Finlesswonder · 17/06/2023 10:28

OK guys the poll has spoken and I relent, I give up, I am clearly trying to convert the unconvertable and will concede that....IABU!!!

Yes, you definitely won't convert us to being the type of person who stays at someone's home and then bitches about it. We're not as rude as you.

taybert · 17/06/2023 14:22

@Caspianberg but isn’t that precisely because of the snow they have all winter? Much easier to clean the puddles from snowy boots and clothes from hard flooring. We don’t have that mostly so we can choose the comfort and insulation of carpet if we want.

Some of it is just what is traditionally popular in a country, there’s not always a hugely convincing reason for it. I don’t think there’s much evidence that Brits are all dying of carpet related diseases though so OP maybe have a carpet if you want and don’t if you don’t and everyone else can make their own choice 🤷‍♀️

Quisquam · 17/06/2023 14:34

My personal opinion is that with climate change the priority long term is going to be keeping houses cool, not keeping them warm. Particularly in the mid 30 degree summers that are going to become the norm over the next few years.

What if the Gulf Stream collapses? Wouldn’t we have a climate more like Canada, possibly with snow lying for months in the winter?

Caspianberg · 17/06/2023 14:38

@taybert - I doubt it. I don’t know anyone who wears their shoes beyond hallway. Guest slippers are a thing. And nobody in their right might would wear snowy boots upstairs in a bedroom surely?

I mean I’m sure carpet exists here, but I don’t know any house’s personally with it in ( that’s I have seen), and houses all vary from 200-brand new. Never seen a carpet shop.

NatashaDancing · 17/06/2023 15:05

Caspianberg · 17/06/2023 14:38

@taybert - I doubt it. I don’t know anyone who wears their shoes beyond hallway. Guest slippers are a thing. And nobody in their right might would wear snowy boots upstairs in a bedroom surely?

I mean I’m sure carpet exists here, but I don’t know any house’s personally with it in ( that’s I have seen), and houses all vary from 200-brand new. Never seen a carpet shop.

I don't know anyone who uses or offers "guest slippers"

DarrellRiversCriminalBehaviourOrder · 17/06/2023 15:26

NatashaDancing · 17/06/2023 15:05

I don't know anyone who uses or offers "guest slippers"

I do. Guests can choose whether or not to use them.

It's OK, I've already been told I'm filthy dirty and lying about washing them between guests, since apparently I couldn't possibly keep up with the arduous task of chucking them in the linen basket after people have gone home. I wash the sheets and cutlery between uses rather than buying all new every time, too. I like to live dangerously.

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