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To think no one has a right to make money off their house

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Laughingstock1991 · 16/06/2023 19:17

The general consensus among financial commentators this week has been that the housing market has turned. Interest rates are still going up and are unlikely to come down for a few years. The low interest rate financial experiment that has been in place since 2008 has ended and it’s unwinding is going to be painful. The housing boom was based on cheap credit.

My mortgage is likely to go up about 400 a month. Lots of commentators reckon we are in for a big fall in house prices. Good thread here:
https://twitter.com/EdConwaySky/status/1668987423643119623

What pisses me off is the absolute assumption made by some people (like my friend today) that the government should use public money to bail out mortgage holders. Most people were stress tested on their mortgage- I was- and yes it’s going to be tough but do I think public Money (renters money) should be used to bail out mortgage holders- fuck no! The Lib Dems have raised this also today.

House equity is unearned wealth. There are no guarantees. We have been through a boom and now it’s going bust. Hopefully sanity will return & housing will be seen as a home again- not an investment. Its not a ‘market’.

And I say all of this as a homeowner who is going to have to pay a lot more. I want everyone to be able to afford a decent home- not just those with money.

I don’t think that’s unreasonable!

https://twitter.com/EdConwaySky/status/1668987423643119623

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troubg · 17/06/2023 10:46

I say this not to brag, but to demonstrate if I can do it, anybody can it isnt complicated.

You really don't see how things have changed?

property isn't really cheap anymore & lending rules are much tighter. Benefits are less generous too.

I did what every other ftb did and worked two jobs.

I didn't do this nor did my parents.

3BSHKATS · 17/06/2023 10:49

troubg · 17/06/2023 10:46

I say this not to brag, but to demonstrate if I can do it, anybody can it isnt complicated.

You really don't see how things have changed?

property isn't really cheap anymore & lending rules are much tighter. Benefits are less generous too.

I did what every other ftb did and worked two jobs.

I didn't do this nor did my parents.

Things have not changed exponentially since 2015. I bought the first house in 2019. So took me 4 years. And we had a few bumps in the road along the way I probably could’ve bought in 2017. With a much larger deposit, but something else went wrong that diverted funds to fighting a custody case with my ex.

troubg · 17/06/2023 10:49

With nothing. Having lived abroad and rented for many many years.

But I thought you were a FTB in 2001?

Nowhere did I say, my 4 DC were young at the time

You didn't, I just assumed because you were comparing your situation to others so I just assumed you were young yourself.

troubg · 17/06/2023 10:49

I'm so confused

"back in 2001 when I was a first time buyer, I did what every other ftb did and worked two jobs."

You wrote the above....

3BSHKATS · 17/06/2023 10:49

troubg · 17/06/2023 10:49

With nothing. Having lived abroad and rented for many many years.

But I thought you were a FTB in 2001?

Nowhere did I say, my 4 DC were young at the time

You didn't, I just assumed because you were comparing your situation to others so I just assumed you were young yourself.

Yes i was.

That house was long gone, sold when i moved abroad.

troubg · 17/06/2023 10:52

Nowhere did I say, my 4 DC were young at the time, although I have young DC now.

This doesn't make sense either. Your 4 dc aren't young but you have young dc

Laughingstock1991 · 17/06/2023 10:53

@SaveMeFromMyBoobs But its all the young families that have worked hard and have mortgages that would have to sell and rent

What about all the young families forced to live in an insecure rental market now? Do they not count or is it only ‘special’ homeowners that should be bailed out?

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Laughingstock1991 · 17/06/2023 10:54

And PLEASE can we get over this fucking shitty idea that it’s only homeowners that are ‘hardworking’ too- the narrative is really dreadful

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3BSHKATS · 17/06/2023 10:54

troubg · 17/06/2023 10:52

Nowhere did I say, my 4 DC were young at the time, although I have young DC now.

This doesn't make sense either. Your 4 dc aren't young but you have young dc

I’ve picked up a couple of extra since 2015 I’m not that old 😏

User16387640 · 17/06/2023 11:02

3BSHKATS · 17/06/2023 10:54

I’ve picked up a couple of extra since 2015 I’m not that old 😏

But didn't you come here with 4 DC and 4 suitcases, upthread you had 4 DC but 2 extra = 6. Maybe you are forgetting how many, like you forgot your first house in 2001

Batalax · 17/06/2023 11:08

Laughingstock1991 · 16/06/2023 22:34

A key point:

If a renter can’t pay their rent and they are working, they don’t get bailed out- they get kicked out. Most don’t get any help at all.

If a mortgage holder can’t pay their mortgage and they are working, why should they get bailed out?

If a private renter gets kicked out then the state has to find council housing - there isn’t any!

If a home owner can’t pay the mortgage, they are unlikely to be able pay, often higher, private rent and even if they are able to downsize, then their credit history will be shot if in negative equity and no one will rent to them, so the state has to find them council housing - there isn’t any!

Wouldn't it be better to keep the latter out of the social housing crisis? It’s cheaper to subsidise a little if necessary.

rosetintedmemories2023 · 17/06/2023 11:11

LemonSwan · 17/06/2023 09:55

Lol you have no idea what I do, or do not have now. Not that you said you did. But it’s quite extreme. DP and I joke that we are both the poorest and richest people we know simultaneously depending which way you look at it.

We played the sensible game. We moved out to the lower earnings area so we could buy a small place on minimum wage. We put our seven years EACH of higher education aside and ground it out in everyday service jobs. We haven’t been on a non-family holiday for over a decade. We have moved up the ladder bit by bit sensibly. Renovating shitholes. Selling moving on. In that time we set up a business to use our degrees. I have 4 jobs, my partner 2.

We currently live in a gorgeous house. It’s big, people would say here we probably shouldn’t be entitled to it. But I have lived in a garage for two years whilst it was ripped to shreds and renovated. Poured every penny I have into it. Not had a kitchen for two years. Still don’t! Went to a toilet in the garden for a year.

To say we haven’t earnt this is not true. We have 60% equity. We sacrificed a decade of our younger years. We didn’t do the London fun, nor the travelling, nor the pubs because when we finished our day jobs we were either working on our business work or renovating houses.

So I am not being flippant when I say I think I will go fuck it if we lose this house and our equity. I will be taking that decade of fun back. My son will be fine as he has a healthy inheritance coming his way from grandparents. Sure, non of our faults. Unlucky. But I would be a fool to play the game the ‘correct’ way again.

This is so sad..if you are so enterprising, if there wasn't a housing crisis and you didn't make home ownership/owning nicer homes your focus, you would probably be in London on 100k each today and yes you would own a house because even in London, most households on £200k combined would own a house. And you would have a decent lifestyle too esp with only one child. even on £130k per annum, we have 8 holidays per year and overpay £1250 every month into the mortgage.

I did live with family for 3 years to save a deposit but DH's family live in London so I guess I only really sacrificed for 3 years. Plenty of people I know live with family for a while before renting so I don't feel like I sacrificed more than them

3BSHKATS · 17/06/2023 11:11

User16387640 · 17/06/2023 11:02

But didn't you come here with 4 DC and 4 suitcases, upthread you had 4 DC but 2 extra = 6. Maybe you are forgetting how many, like you forgot your first house in 2001

Oh dear, I’m sorry you can’t keep up I forgot most people’s maths isn’t their strongest point. Probably why some struggle to buy houses.

happinessischocolate · 17/06/2023 11:14

TizerorFizz · 17/06/2023 10:40

People really won’t be able to rent! There’s already huge pressure on private rentals. That’s why rents are spiralling. High demand and poor supply. Sadly lots of poorly informed posts on here. There is a very tight market for rentals. It means we need to keep families in their houses. Many are extending mortgage term. Hugely expensive in the long run but it maintains a roof over your head!

Private landlords expanded because they saw a gap in the market. Thatcher did not allow councils to build. Private sector took over. We don’t like it but it’s history now. They do, however, provide housing. If it was down the government building homes, millions would be homeless!

If private landlords didn't exist there would still be the same amount of houses.

Landlords don't create houses out of thin air.

BTL has contributed to the housing boom. Without landlords, properties would have been cheaper and ftb could have paid less or even not ended up in rented accommodation.

Babyroobs · 17/06/2023 11:23

Rainyrunway · 17/06/2023 07:13

"The only people who will benefit will be those who are mortgage free with no intention or need to refinance or sell. People who may likely be sitting in family sized homes with adult children who have potentially already left home... Which again causes a supply and demand issue for that type of house."

Agree with this. They need to start taxing wealth. I have family members who live in a massive 5 bedroom house, just the 2 of them. Fully paid off. With big teacher and nurse pensions. These are the sort of people who could afford to pay more. Not the people who are working, with kids, squeezed into houses that aren't big enough. Able to pay their way now but knowing that won't be the case when their fixed rate runs out.

I see how a lot of older people live as part of my job . There are literally huge numbers of older people sitting on large amounts of wealth, living in large 4 bedroom homes mortgage free and many owning second properties. I cannot believe that if these people's kids were at risk of losing their home, that they would not help. I know that if we lost our home my dad would take us in ( living alone in a modest 3 bed semi ). Also many older people , as you say have extremely decent private pensions. As part of my job I need to ask people about savings and many roll off figures like 150-180K savings as if it is the norm !
Whilst we could see many number homeless if their homes get repossessed I think for many parents will step in and help. Of course there are people whose parents wouldn't or couldn't help but there are an awful lot who can and will in a crisis.

BMW6 · 17/06/2023 11:24

Of course the Government shouldn't help to pay anyone's mortgage! The mortgage holder must negotiate with the lender to see how the loan can be serviced. If it simply can't then I'm afraid repossession it is.

But I totally disagree that no-one should profit from home ownership. That's hiw the housing ladder works. Without equity most people would be stuck in flats or too small houses unable to move on and newbies would be unable to get onto the ladder.

WideFootWelly · 17/06/2023 11:25

Twiglets1 · 17/06/2023 10:00

I don't think @3BSHKATS should feel obliged to give every personal detail to people on the internet who after all, probably wouldn't want to share their own personal details re how they made their money (if they made any) or exactly which benefits they have received.

If you don't believe them fair enough, but let's not get too personal.

I didn't ask them to share that detail. I don't care for the detail.
I'm just saying, my experience of benefits would not allow for saving at all - let alone enough to buy a house. Maybe other benefits are different, but I've not come across one.

TizerorFizz · 17/06/2023 11:25

It doesn’t work like that. Houses were sold to landlords because others didn’t buy them when they were cheap! Lots of these houses were not great. Landlords did not create the housing issues. They responded to it. If the government had built houses, none of this would have happened! Blame governments. All of them .

JudgeJ · 17/06/2023 11:27

3BSHKATS · 17/06/2023 10:13

This is just such a British attitude that you just do not see anywhere else in the world.

'Anywhere else in the world', really, not anywhere? How naive but if that's your opinion I'm sure you have plenty of corroborated evidence to back it up.

Laughingstock1991 · 17/06/2023 11:29

Of course all the landlords on here are going to argue that they are providing some kind of social good.

They aren’t. BTL has definitely contributed to the housing mess, as has second home ownership. Both need to be even more heavily regulated.

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SaveMeFromMyBoobs · 17/06/2023 11:32

Laughingstock1991 · 17/06/2023 10:53

@SaveMeFromMyBoobs But its all the young families that have worked hard and have mortgages that would have to sell and rent

What about all the young families forced to live in an insecure rental market now? Do they not count or is it only ‘special’ homeowners that should be bailed out?

Which will only get more insecure if the housing market crashes. Land lords buy up the cheap houses again, which will be the ones those young families have had to vacate, and the young families already renting will be competing with the newly homeless families that used to own them houses.

People renting now are renting because they cannot afford to buy. We're in a cost of living crisis. These people are already struggling with high rents and everything is getting more expensive. There isn't social housing for them. They won't suddenly be able to magic up a deposit for a house just because houses got cheaper. The people who will have money are the land lords who rent out their houses mortgage free. That's who all the cheaper houses will go to, with no incentive to sell them on to families and lose that income.

troubg · 17/06/2023 11:32

To say we haven’t earnt this is not true. We have 60% equity. We sacrificed a decade of our younger years. We didn’t do the London fun, nor the travelling, nor the pubs because when we finished our day jobs we were either working on our business work or renovating houses.

I have similar equity but still did the London fun, travelling, worked one job etc. Does that mean you deserve your equity more?

SamanthaCaine · 17/06/2023 11:41

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troubg · 17/06/2023 11:45

You bang on about how you just want to pass your house to your kids. Well that's what I'm doing, just in a different way to you.

What's wrong with just passing on one house?

troubg · 17/06/2023 11:46

I also thought it was more tax efficient to gift the main property to dc.

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