I need advice on how to help a friend. Last year I had twin babies and my friend was meant to meet up with me but kept letting me down and giving some excuse or other then after a while she stopped replying to my messages so I thought she didn't want to speak to me so just gave up messaging her. Then my partner bumped into hers a few weeks ago and he said she does still want to speak to me then we saw him in the street last week and i asked if we should go see her and he said not now. Anyway I had a feeling he was the problem, I know she has SS involved because he smashed her door before. So we went round and I was shocked when I saw her, she has lost so much weight and looks skeletal and she said he was messaging her telling her to send him money. Then he turned up later whilst we was there and he was demanding she send him money again and after we left she rang me saying be was accusing her if sleeping with my partner (I know they arent) I believe he's just mad we went round and doesn't want her seeing her friends so is trying to think it's not worth the bother seeing us again cos he will kick off. I tried texting and ringing her today and no reply or answer so don't know if she's okay or he'd not letting her answer or what? I don't want to go round if it makes things worse for her but how can I help her?