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To expect to be able to take my annual leave after mat leave?

104 replies

Birminghambabe · 12/06/2023 12:19

AIBU or is my employer?

I’ve been working with current employer for around 4 years. I’m on maternity leave and due to return early December. As far as I’m aware because my friends have told me and what I’ve read online is that I accrue my holiday days whilst on mat leave and can take them before or after mat leave.

I was sick around 32 weeks with HG so went on sick leave then early mat and my boss said I couldn’t use my annual leave then, so when I asked if I could just use it after and return in Jan they said no as I can’t carry over as per my contract. Surely as I’m on mat leave that overalls? The contract just says I’m allowed 22 days plus bank holidays per year Jan - dec.

I like my employer but at the same time I think they’re incorrect and it’s a lot of holiday (extra time off with baby) and money.

AIBU? Or are they

OP posts:
fitzwilliamdarcy · 14/06/2023 18:01

It can seem ridiculous @AbraKedavra but @MrsLilaAmes is right. We have to allow the ones who really go overboard to ensure that the ones with the least aren’t treated like they are in the US.

Don’t get me wrong, I had colleague who had 3 kids back to back, took 1 year plus all her annual leave each time, and returned for 3 months between each one. It meant that out of a 4 year 3 month period she was only there for 9 months but got the benefit of a salary plus pay rises etc for nearly 4.5 years. She then never returned after baby 3. That situation drove me mad. But there are many more who only get a small amount of time off so need the annual leave too.

AbraKedavra · 14/06/2023 19:20

MrsLilaAmes · 14/06/2023 16:45

@AbraKedavra

What makes am employer any more have than the employee? Most employers are small business owners who struggle with extra expenses. I'm all for mothers spending ad much time as possible with their newborns, but how is it fair and moral to force the employer to pay for it?

I’m not sure I understand your first question but two points:

  1. The employer isn’t paying for SMP at all. So they are only ‘out of pocket’ for up to 5.6 weeks ‘extra’ holiday pay if they are a small firm, hand over fist, and only offering statutory minimums. I think that’s a fair exchange for potentially years of loyalty.

  2. The alternative is for pregnancy to be the preserve of the independently wealthy - practically and ethically unworkable - or for women to be completely dependent on men. Have a read of A Tree Grows in Brooklyn or any misery memoir to see what that looks like. It’s fair because it’s a societal choice to treat employees as more than just workhorses (which we would be horrified to do to horses!) and to enable women to have financial independence while protecting them and their children at their most vulnerable.

Yeah my question wasn't very clearly phrased. Basically you seem to class the employers as a 'have' and the employee as a 'have not'. Hence your argument that we should protect the have nots.

What I'm saying is a small business owner is no more a have than an employee on a decent wage.

As to your points,

  1. Mat leave isn't entirely government funded ad there are several costs involved in getting in temps. From agency fees, to training, to lower output to higher wages due to them being a temp. So even the 'free' mat leave part is actually subsidised by the employee.

As to annual leave, that can easily be as much as 10%-15% of the yearly profit. Not insignificant in any way.

  1. For starters you're factually wrong, as in the USA where they haven't got these OTT mat leave laws, people still have kids. Even poor people.

More to the point, you could hardly call it treating someone like a workhorse if you don't give them paid holiday for not working.

It's one thing to obligate employers to pay mat leave, but to then add paid holiday to the leave is lunacy. Something that could only happen in the UK where being successful is a mortal sin. And even being on the possible road to success, namely owning a business and employing people, must be nipped in the bud and punished.

AbraKedavra · 14/06/2023 19:23

Littlegoth · 14/06/2023 16:45

@AbraKedavra well that’s put us straight!

I take it you’ve never benefitted from maternity leave or sick pay, or tax free childcare, child benefit etc.

You are entitled to your opinion, I’m just really glad that the law disagrees with you.

I’ll be heading off on mat leave next week for 14 months, I’m tagging my 2023 annual leave and owed bank holidays onto the end of it. I suppose this makes me a sponger in your eyes 😊

You can't compare getting a government benefit, with the tax burden shared by all of society, with leeching off a specific business.

bussteward · 14/06/2023 19:25

AbraKedavra · 14/06/2023 19:20

Yeah my question wasn't very clearly phrased. Basically you seem to class the employers as a 'have' and the employee as a 'have not'. Hence your argument that we should protect the have nots.

What I'm saying is a small business owner is no more a have than an employee on a decent wage.

As to your points,

  1. Mat leave isn't entirely government funded ad there are several costs involved in getting in temps. From agency fees, to training, to lower output to higher wages due to them being a temp. So even the 'free' mat leave part is actually subsidised by the employee.

As to annual leave, that can easily be as much as 10%-15% of the yearly profit. Not insignificant in any way.

  1. For starters you're factually wrong, as in the USA where they haven't got these OTT mat leave laws, people still have kids. Even poor people.

More to the point, you could hardly call it treating someone like a workhorse if you don't give them paid holiday for not working.

It's one thing to obligate employers to pay mat leave, but to then add paid holiday to the leave is lunacy. Something that could only happen in the UK where being successful is a mortal sin. And even being on the possible road to success, namely owning a business and employing people, must be nipped in the bud and punished.

The thing is, you can’t run a business without employees – you need people’s labour. If you can’t afford their labour, including facilitating their right to maternity leave and annual leave, you don’t have a viable business. You have a hobby.

AbraKedavra · 14/06/2023 19:27

@fitzwilliamdarcy

Your argument is that most people don't abuse it. But I claim that any holiday pay for not being at work is abuse. Paid annual leave should be there only to ensure employees aren't worked 365 days a year. But where they haven't been at work anyway, why should they be entitled to a paid holiday?

AbraKedavra · 14/06/2023 19:29

bussteward · 14/06/2023 19:25

The thing is, you can’t run a business without employees – you need people’s labour. If you can’t afford their labour, including facilitating their right to maternity leave and annual leave, you don’t have a viable business. You have a hobby.

That's circular. It's only that way because of the ridiculous law that obligates you to pay for holidays on top of mat leave. Take away that law and the 'hobby' suddenly turns into a viable business.

AscensionToCheese · 14/06/2023 19:33

fitzwilliamdarcy · 14/06/2023 18:01

It can seem ridiculous @AbraKedavra but @MrsLilaAmes is right. We have to allow the ones who really go overboard to ensure that the ones with the least aren’t treated like they are in the US.

Don’t get me wrong, I had colleague who had 3 kids back to back, took 1 year plus all her annual leave each time, and returned for 3 months between each one. It meant that out of a 4 year 3 month period she was only there for 9 months but got the benefit of a salary plus pay rises etc for nearly 4.5 years. She then never returned after baby 3. That situation drove me mad. But there are many more who only get a small amount of time off so need the annual leave too.

She must've been loaded though, unless you company has full pay for a year?
My employer is generous (albeit private sector) and it's something like 6 months full pay, 3 months half, 3 months none.

Legally you're only owed 90% of your salary for the first 6 weeks, and then SMP for the remaining 33 weeks which is about half a year.

It's wasted money paying this employee, but it's the company that has decided that benefit not the law.

Goldencup · 14/06/2023 19:42

fitzwilliamdarcy · 14/06/2023 18:01

It can seem ridiculous @AbraKedavra but @MrsLilaAmes is right. We have to allow the ones who really go overboard to ensure that the ones with the least aren’t treated like they are in the US.

Don’t get me wrong, I had colleague who had 3 kids back to back, took 1 year plus all her annual leave each time, and returned for 3 months between each one. It meant that out of a 4 year 3 month period she was only there for 9 months but got the benefit of a salary plus pay rises etc for nearly 4.5 years. She then never returned after baby 3. That situation drove me mad. But there are many more who only get a small amount of time off so need the annual leave too.

I have a colleagues who had 6 children in 10 years. So out of 10 years I think she worked 2.

pollykitty · 14/06/2023 19:46

This is absolutely wrong. If you are in maternity leave you cannot take annual leave so therefore it must be taken when you are back. It is against the law to take it away from you because you are on mat leave, even if there are rules about carrying over. You cannot carry over because you are on mat leave. Please fight this, my work tried to do the same shit and I wrote them a very pointed letter. They backed off.

Teder · 14/06/2023 20:19

Goldencup · 14/06/2023 19:42

I have a colleagues who had 6 children in 10 years. So out of 10 years I think she worked 2.

People like this are a minority though. I’m glad we don’t penalise every woman for the few like this one. I definitely would want 6 children just for the Mat leave!!!

Teder · 14/06/2023 20:20

Teder · 14/06/2023 20:19

People like this are a minority though. I’m glad we don’t penalise every woman for the few like this one. I definitely would want 6 children just for the Mat leave!!!

Ooops
i meant “wouldn’t want”!!

Kerri44 · 14/06/2023 20:40

I carried mine over this year from last year

Monikkas · 14/06/2023 20:48

We couldn’t accrue holidays one year into the next but we did get paid for them in dec payroll.

Mumof2girls2121 · 14/06/2023 20:59

I used my accrued leave to work a 4 day week until my baby was 18/19 months old, rather than taking an extended end of maternity leave. Not relevant to the carrying over, just suggesting as I enjoyed mid week day off over a longer period of time!

MrsLilaAmes · 14/06/2023 21:10

AbraKedavra · 14/06/2023 19:20

Yeah my question wasn't very clearly phrased. Basically you seem to class the employers as a 'have' and the employee as a 'have not'. Hence your argument that we should protect the have nots.

What I'm saying is a small business owner is no more a have than an employee on a decent wage.

As to your points,

  1. Mat leave isn't entirely government funded ad there are several costs involved in getting in temps. From agency fees, to training, to lower output to higher wages due to them being a temp. So even the 'free' mat leave part is actually subsidised by the employee.

As to annual leave, that can easily be as much as 10%-15% of the yearly profit. Not insignificant in any way.

  1. For starters you're factually wrong, as in the USA where they haven't got these OTT mat leave laws, people still have kids. Even poor people.

More to the point, you could hardly call it treating someone like a workhorse if you don't give them paid holiday for not working.

It's one thing to obligate employers to pay mat leave, but to then add paid holiday to the leave is lunacy. Something that could only happen in the UK where being successful is a mortal sin. And even being on the possible road to success, namely owning a business and employing people, must be nipped in the bud and punished.

I’m replying largely because I don’t want the OP to feel any guilt about fighting for her annual leave entitlement, which is her legal right.

I understand your question now @AbraKedavra. I was comparing pregnant women who are ‘haves’ with pregnant women who are ‘have nots’ and saying we must protect the latter- regardless of the status of the business.

I would not wish to be successful if I could only do it by exploiting other people.

Jem123456789 · 14/06/2023 21:23

As others have said you do accrue holidays whilst on maternity and you can carry it over, regardless of what your employer says. They can dictate when you take it however.

KCandtheSunlightBand · 14/06/2023 21:35

Can I also point out, that you accrue your leave at whatever rate you worked at, if you negotiate going back to a part time role you still have the full time accrual amount of leave. When I worked for a large higher education provider where A/L was particularly generous, we often didn’t see first time Mums return for about 18 months, or they used their leave to work one day a week for months.

crunchermuncher · 14/06/2023 21:39

AbraKedavra · 14/06/2023 12:23

Those rights aren't there by itself, they've been created by humans. Entitled humans.

The point isn't whether mat leave is a holiday or not. From an employer's point of view the worker wants a paid holiday after not having put in the work.

I've yet to hear a moral argument why that's right.

It doest matter whether you agree (for moral reasons or otherwise) the law is the law.

What do you mean other employees paying for you to have a holiday? How are they paying for it? They wouldn't get paid more if OP didn't take her annual leave.

I really hate this kind of 'advice' - women should roll over and give up their rights for the good of the economy. Fuck that.

crunchermuncher · 14/06/2023 21:43

That was a bit strong, sorry.

I get that you disagree with current mat leave arrangements, (and I think the burden of enacting then should be borne centrally and not by individual businesses)

But that's not helping the OP. I don't think she should be berated for wanting her employer to operate within the law.

fitzwilliamdarcy · 14/06/2023 21:44

AbraKedavra · 14/06/2023 19:27

@fitzwilliamdarcy

Your argument is that most people don't abuse it. But I claim that any holiday pay for not being at work is abuse. Paid annual leave should be there only to ensure employees aren't worked 365 days a year. But where they haven't been at work anyway, why should they be entitled to a paid holiday?

Abuse of who though?

Employers are free not to start businesses and employ people, if they want to avoid the abuse associated with employment rights.

I agree with you that it can go too far like the women who’ve had years and years off but I think that’s the price we pay to ensure that people have decent employment rights here.

fitzwilliamdarcy · 14/06/2023 21:48

Goldencup · 14/06/2023 19:42

I have a colleagues who had 6 children in 10 years. So out of 10 years I think she worked 2.

Bloody hell! It’s really common where I work to have 3-4. I know one person with 5 but nobody with 6.

fitzwilliamdarcy · 14/06/2023 21:50

AscensionToCheese · 14/06/2023 19:33

She must've been loaded though, unless you company has full pay for a year?
My employer is generous (albeit private sector) and it's something like 6 months full pay, 3 months half, 3 months none.

Legally you're only owed 90% of your salary for the first 6 weeks, and then SMP for the remaining 33 weeks which is about half a year.

It's wasted money paying this employee, but it's the company that has decided that benefit not the law.

Her husband was, and yeah there’s very generous provision where I work. I agree it’s the employer to “blame” for it (albeit it’s the taxpayer paying for it).

AscensionToCheese · 14/06/2023 22:33

fitzwilliamdarcy · 14/06/2023 21:50

Her husband was, and yeah there’s very generous provision where I work. I agree it’s the employer to “blame” for it (albeit it’s the taxpayer paying for it).

How is the taxpayer paying?
Only for 39 weeks, after that you're on your own.
Maybe there's benefits to bridge the gap but that is independent of employment status.

The people who actually need the money wouldn't be able to do as colleague had done. And she was probably never planning to return anyway, as husband loaded so no regard for professional reputation or otherwise

AscensionToCheese · 14/06/2023 22:33

@fitzwilliamdarcy AH sorry! You must mean wporking for a public sector body.
I get it now been a long day.
Yes, it's ridiculous!

AscensionToCheese · 14/06/2023 22:34

fitzwilliamdarcy · 14/06/2023 21:48

Bloody hell! It’s really common where I work to have 3-4. I know one person with 5 but nobody with 6.

Also 3-4... I can see why with those benefits 😛