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AIBU?

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Sunshine13452 · 10/06/2023 21:28

AIBU-
So my family live 1 hour away, I am currently on my last month of maternity leave (0 pay)
my family often have ‘digs’ that they don’t see my child often enough, and that I should make the effort to visit more!!!
I take my child to my grandmas house on a Monday and on the odd occasion my mum will turn up.
my mum has never been to our house (even though she drives) my dad has visited once. I have recently mentioned to my dad that my child does not recognise him and that he should make more of an effort, this is because he will have his other grandchild over night every weekend take them on day trips ect, however not my child.
AIBU

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Thesunwillcomeoutverysoon · 10/06/2023 21:30

Ime enjoy never having to juggle your life and fit twatish relatives into your life...
And that your dc won't have to see people who don't really care about them.

Nevermind31 · 10/06/2023 21:37

Tell your family that visiting goes both ways… especially if one lot doesn’t have to drag a small child around

Sonnywith · 10/06/2023 22:01

YANBU at all.

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