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Is this a bit weird? - I think someone is using my address

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RushieRoo · 10/06/2023 14:40

A couple of months ago we received a letter addressed to someone not known us. Didn’t think much of it and assumed it must’ve been for a previous occupant.

Then DH took in a parcel delivery. He thought it was for me but once he had it inside he realised although the parcel had our address on it was for someone else - the same person we previously received mail for.

Later someone knocked on the door and said we had his parcel. As I handed it over I recognised him as someone I have seen a couple of times standing near my house in a dressing gown and slippers.

Then yesterday we saw the same guy stood outside our house. A car pulled up and gave the guy a takeaway. Do you think he ordered takeaway to our address then intercepted it? Why is he using our address?

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SinnerBoy · 12/06/2023 16:36

We had letters coming for a friend of my wife, who sofa surfed, after leaving her boyfriend. On night, debt collectors demanded to be let in (my wife was away on holiday with our daughter at the time). They named the friend and said that she owed over £10,000!

I explained that she'd never lived here, refused them entry and said I'd let a Police officer in. A couple of hours later, a copper turned up and I let him in. There were a few letters going back about a year, he opened them and I said he could look anywhere in the house.

He told the debt collectors that she didn't live here and we weren't liable, as far as he could see. I called the debt collectors the next day and having asked my wife, gave her friend's mobile number - she didn't know her address.

Some of the letters were for other debt collectors, so I called all of them, too. We got taken off all the lists, but letters were coming for months. It was very stressful.

IAm1OfTheManyUsers · 12/06/2023 16:43

@RushieRoo if he's living on top of cafe, makes more sense. I'm assuming he's done this before with parcels and takeaways, easier for him to find and there's a possibility there's been a lot of confusion in the past with his deliveries.

Candymay · 12/06/2023 17:12

Toomuchfun · 12/06/2023 12:15

This is utterly condescending

and yet totally perceptive

Queenbee77 · 12/06/2023 19:47

I wm planning on living in s camper when children are old enough that I can leave😀for anyone living in the Wavertree area of Liverpool. Can I use your address?

Grrrrdarling · 13/06/2023 00:57

@RushieRoo I couldn’t retrieve my own parcel from the post office despite having ID showing who I was & being able to tell them who the parcel was from because I had nothing with the correct address on to show the parcel was mine. The company sent it to a random address that wasn’t mine, thankfully they weren’t in & it got sent back to the post office, but I couldn’t collect my parcel as the address wasn’t mine.
If any more mail to parcel turn up & he comes to collect tell him he needs proof of delivery address to collect the parcel or you will be returning it. Clearly he is using your address for deliveries & mail so nip it in the bud now before something nasty comes knocking or you get yourself mixed up in some sort of scam you have no knowledge of!

WhereTheSuburbsMeetUttoxeter · 13/06/2023 01:24

RushieRoo · 10/06/2023 16:34

@JoanOfAllTrades just a plain black dressing gown and slippers I’m afraid. With white Adidas socks

Maybe he’s was sweeping up because he wants to win Britain in Bloom

I nearly spat my drink out. Oh bollocks, that sounds like my lazy adult son!

Until I read about the sweeping. Nah. Never.

ELLAMAR00 · 13/06/2023 01:28

It happens to us all of the time someone on the next street same door number one digit difference in the postcode. I would ask him it may be that drivers have had difficulty finding his door number but it is very cheeky if it is this.

Blip · 13/06/2023 06:44

There's a scam where someone tries to sell your house. They actually do and I think you may eventually get some money back but not your house!

HarrietJet · 13/06/2023 06:47

Blip · 13/06/2023 06:44

There's a scam where someone tries to sell your house. They actually do and I think you may eventually get some money back but not your house!

Eh? How on earth does this work?

IAm1OfTheManyUsers · 13/06/2023 07:53

The house selling scam was carried out by tenants as far as I'm aware. Not sure how many were successful; this was a few years ago.

sherbertyellowteddy · 13/06/2023 08:53

I'd check the car park and see if there's a van that is there all the time and wonder if he's living in it, so is using your address to get parcels/takeaways.

HeroOfMyTale · 13/06/2023 12:31

@HarrietJet

Blip · Today 06:44

There's a scam where someone tries to sell your house. They actually do and I think you may eventually get some money back but not your house!
Eh? How on earth does this work?

Basically they are all variations of identity fraud - so one way is (get some identity of house owner), change locks ("I'm locked out of my house, keys stolen"), get puppet 'tennant'/'owner in, purport to 'sell' to the 'new owner' puppet, change title deeds to puppet name, then contact estate agents and sell on to an innocent person.

It is very sophisticated and about timing. All it needs is a property empty for a period of time to get in, change locks and effect sale. The pre-work is done in advance.

If you are a second home owner, you should make sure your correspondence address with the Land Registry is where you actually are so you get notice of change of ownership. Apparently the Land Registry never previously sent notice at all -assuming you knew as you were doing it - but now following these frauds they do. However, if your address for notice is the empty property, it won't help as it will be intercepted by the puppet occupiers.

There was a TV drama based on these methods:

https://www.mirror.co.uk/money/inside-chilling-property-scam-sees-26422344

Once they have obtained your identity, they claim the titles to your home and change ownership to their name, enabling them to take out loans secured against the property or even sell it.Once they have obtained your identity, they claim the titles to your home and change ownership to their name, enabling them to take out loans secured against the property or even sell it.

Inside chilling scam which sees criminals steal your house and secretly sell it

Psychological thriller, Our House, sees Tuppence Middleton play mum-of-two Fi Lawson, who discovers her house has mysteriously exchanged hands without her knowledge

https://www.mirror.co.uk/money/inside-chilling-property-scam-sees-26422344

HeroOfMyTale · 13/06/2023 12:34

This can happen just when you are away on holiday if you are not just off for a weekend becuase it's about timing.

Other stories of different methods here
https://www.getagent.co.uk/blog/properties/house-sold-without-owner-knowing

In 2019, the Daily Mail reported that Angela Ellis-Jones had lost her four-bed house in South London to a fraudster. She had returned from a three week holiday away to find her letterbox taped up and a metal post box fixed to her door. Despite registering concern with the police, the officers did nothing - and three weeks later, she received a letter from the Land Registry, stating that her property now belonged to someone else.
Like Mike, Angela was a victim of property title fraud, but both scenarios were enabled through different means. In Mike’s case, a duplicate driving licence and bank account were set up in his name to sell the property. In Angela’s, a solicitor verified a person as her when they applied to transfer the property.

House sold without owner knowing: The truth about property title fraud

What exactly is property title fraud, and what happens to a house sold by fraudsters? Find out in this GetAgent article.

https://www.getagent.co.uk/blog/properties/house-sold-without-owner-knowing

Toomuchfun · 13/06/2023 19:19

Candymay · 12/06/2023 17:12

and yet totally perceptive

Yeah, ok 🙄

Batalax · 13/06/2023 21:24

IDontWantToBeAPie · 12/06/2023 13:36

We've had similar ish with receiving lots of post for someone who doesn't live here. They'd registered a company (Companies House) using our home address!

DP contacted CH to have it removed so I'd double check on there that he isn't doing something dodgy with registering at your address.

We had this too.

CavalierApproach · 22/06/2023 02:08

Did you ever manage to get to the bottom of this, @RushieRoo? (Can’t sleep and just rediscovered the thread on my watched list)

Beautiful3 · 20/01/2024 11:23

Any update op? It's been a while.

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