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We need to start talking about population decline

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user4567890754 · 02/06/2023 22:15

The first signs of it are starting to show in the UK, with primary school closures. Secondary school closures will follow.

https://www.thetimes.co.uk/article/11158f12-0133-11ee-a364-04e704863f75?shareToken=5ef47b2b4776be376153089146c8bacf

Italy is a few years ahead of us.

https://www.theguardian.com/world/2023/may/01/plunging-birthrate-threatens-italian-schools

Japan shows where every country is headed - towards a crisis where they are on the brink of being unable to maintain social functions.

https://edition.cnn.com/2023/04/13/asia/japan-population-decline-record-drop-intl-hnk/index.html

And yet there are still people who think that we have a problem with overpopulation. It’s the opposite.

The school with one pupil: how falling birthrates are killing village primaries

Four generations of Ruby Booker’s family have been educated at Skelton Newby Hall, an idyllic village primary school in North Yorkshire.It was the autumn of 194

https://www.thetimes.co.uk/article/11158f12-0133-11ee-a364-04e704863f75?shareToken=5ef47b2b4776be376153089146c8bacf

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GCalltheway · 03/06/2023 14:54

Well thank god for that because we infrastructure can not cope as it is. It took me 5 hours to drive a few miles on the M25 this week not because of an accident but sheer weight of traffic. We need to slow down the birth rate everywhere if we are to have any quality of life whatsoever and AI can assist us greatly.

GCalltheway · 03/06/2023 14:56

MrsSkylerWhite · 03/06/2023 12:05

Stalkedbyzombies · Today 11:26
Finding carers for the elderly is already a crisis situation and getting worse. That is why there is attention drawn to elderly not being discharged from hospitals for months because even though care packages are drawn up, there are not enough staff to implement them”.

Quite. Brexit.

Shall be 60 next spring. I’m doing everything I possibly can to stay healthy. Eating right, exercising, cutting back/out the alcohol, learning new things etc. because I dread to think what a godawful state social care will be in in 10/20 years, if it exists at all.

You should have been living like that anyway!! Goodness me that is surely a benefit of brexit right there, personal responsibility and not constantly relying on the nanny state/others to wipe your arse.

hyggeb · 03/06/2023 15:09

Well thank god for that because we infrastructure can not cope as it is. It took me 5 hours to drive a few miles on the M25 this week not because of an accident but sheer weight of traffic. We need to slow down the birth rate everywhere if we are to have any quality of life whatsoever and AI can assist us greatly.

It's not the babies driving the cars though. You are the traffic 😆

pointythings · 03/06/2023 15:11

You should have been living like that anyway!! Goodness me that is surely a benefit of brexit right there, personal responsibility and not constantly relying on the nanny state/others to wipe your arse.

You do know that it is possible to live the healthiest of lifestyles and still end up disabled and unable to care for oneself, don't you? Hmm

Stalkedbyzombies · 03/06/2023 15:13

We also know that plenty of people do not live like that, despite knowing that they should. I think people deserve credit for doing the obvious. Brexit was meant to give a massive boost to the NHS' ability to serve all. Remember that advert on the side of the bus?

woodhill · 03/06/2023 15:20

luvvverly · 03/06/2023 13:41

We are constantly being told that humans are causing catastrophic climate change and that we have to reduce our carbon footprint. At the same time, we are being told there aren't enough people to support the elderly. And everyone gets old eventually so this becomes a population ponzi when countries need an ever bigger amount of people at the bottom to support the top (who currently own all the wealth and housing).

What will happen is that the people at the bottom will demand better wages and living conditions and the elderly will have to compete for scarce helpers by paying them more and allowing housing to adjust to be affordable. At the moment the older generation don't want to pay more for carers and also don't want cheap housing "my house is my pension" yet complain when there are no carers. If you make living unaffordable then young people will adjust by not bothering with things like having families.

So very true

jane1956 · 03/06/2023 15:46

the amount of small boats coming here we hardly need more immigration, and certainly not in a population decline. Not the elderly costing the young but the £150 a night hotels to keep these folk descending here

inamarina · 03/06/2023 15:53

User135644 · 03/06/2023 08:56

Covid was there to facilitate that but we locked down for 2 years to make sure we didn't. Not saying we shouldn't have took loads of precautions over that virus but that was the irony. Western nations are fucked because of ageing populations and working age populations are fucked, yet all had to lock down for 2 years to protect the elderly because we all must live eternally.

That is a good point. Lots of people going about how there are too many of us, how the world would be better off without us, how we need to reduce the world’s population drastically.
I wonder what those people thought about lockdowns and other safety measures during Covid.
It could have been such a great opportunity to drastically reduce world population, right? (And no, that’s not what I would be advocating for.)

Oliotya · 03/06/2023 15:55

jane1956 · 03/06/2023 15:46

the amount of small boats coming here we hardly need more immigration, and certainly not in a population decline. Not the elderly costing the young but the £150 a night hotels to keep these folk descending here

State pension alone costs over £100bn a year. We spend something like £3 or 4bn on asylum seekers. I'm no mathematician but I think you might be wrong there.

WakeMeUpWhenGoodOmensIsBack · 03/06/2023 15:57

jane1956 · 03/06/2023 15:46

the amount of small boats coming here we hardly need more immigration, and certainly not in a population decline. Not the elderly costing the young but the £150 a night hotels to keep these folk descending here

I'm not sure that getting the small boats demographic to staff care homes would be either feasible or desirable. Even without the fact that the government doesn't let asylum seekers work for at least a year.

inamarina · 03/06/2023 16:05

user4567890754 · 03/06/2023 09:58

In terms of demographic change I think the short-term solution is for us to continue working in some fashion as long as we are physically able.

Increase rights to WFH and part-time to retain more older people for longer.
Investigate ideas like the 4 day week so that people aren’t burned out by 65.
Facilitate and encourage retraining and reskilling in middle age.
Get rid of the expectation of a long healthy retirement, start trying to achieve a work-life balance now.
If people have more leisure time they will have more time to serve their family and the community in other ways, caring for children and the elderly etc.
I think we’re going to need to be more community-minded and less individualistic in general.

I agree with all your points, OP 🙂

GCalltheway · 03/06/2023 16:22

pointythings · 03/06/2023 15:11

You should have been living like that anyway!! Goodness me that is surely a benefit of brexit right there, personal responsibility and not constantly relying on the nanny state/others to wipe your arse.

You do know that it is possible to live the healthiest of lifestyles and still end up disabled and unable to care for oneself, don't you? Hmm

People generally need to step up and help themselves so there are carers available for those that are disabled not through obesity and bad life style choices but through unavoidable situations. Too many people do not take care of themselves, and expect the NHS and the state to pick up the multi billion pound bill.

inamarina · 03/06/2023 16:23

AngryGreasedSantaCatcus · 03/06/2023 11:57

Question for all the posters that think humans are a scrounge on the planet and we aren't dying quick enough... why are you still alive?

It’s such a weird and grim outlook on life, isn’t it?

GCalltheway · 03/06/2023 16:23

hyggeb · 03/06/2023 15:09

Well thank god for that because we infrastructure can not cope as it is. It took me 5 hours to drive a few miles on the M25 this week not because of an accident but sheer weight of traffic. We need to slow down the birth rate everywhere if we are to have any quality of life whatsoever and AI can assist us greatly.

It's not the babies driving the cars though. You are the traffic 😆

Too many people on a tiny island is the issue. I can’t share your laughter - it isn’t funny.

Successstory82 · 03/06/2023 16:43

@GCalltheway out of interest how many children do you have?

hyggeb · 03/06/2023 16:43

Too many people on a tiny island is the issue. I can’t share your laughter - it isn’t funny.

It's a bit funny that you think other people are the reason you are stuck in traffic & that fewer babies will have any impact on said traffic in your lifetime.

hyggeb · 03/06/2023 16:44

Question for all the posters that think humans are a scrounge on the planet and we aren't dying quick enough... why are you still alive?

Bet many have had dc too but it's because others should die not them!

Florenz · 03/06/2023 16:48

We need a 1 child limit. People can purchase the right to have a 2nd child for £250,000. And the right to have a 3rd child for £5 million. Multiple births would not be counted as breaking the limit.

woodhill · 03/06/2023 16:55

jane1956 · 03/06/2023 15:46

the amount of small boats coming here we hardly need more immigration, and certainly not in a population decline. Not the elderly costing the young but the £150 a night hotels to keep these folk descending here

Yes and elderly have mainly paid in over the years'.

hyggeb · 03/06/2023 16:56

The birth rate is about 1.6

hyggeb · 03/06/2023 16:58

Yes and elderly have mainly paid in over the years'.

I never understand the narrative that all pensioners worked & paid taxes when they were young because that's obviously BS.

RosaGallica · 03/06/2023 17:01

We desperately need population decline ecologically, and it’s no bad thing that the increasingly rich top level learn to appreciate working people once again. Perhaps they’ll have to appreciate women as workers and mothers again too, rather than forcing an increasing sex industry as part of a ‘bread and circuses’ offering to the male apes.

woodhill · 03/06/2023 17:02

hyggeb · 03/06/2023 16:58

Yes and elderly have mainly paid in over the years'.

I never understand the narrative that all pensioners worked & paid taxes when they were young because that's obviously BS.

Why is it BS.

A lot of them would have and saved for private pensions as well

BillyNoM8s · 03/06/2023 17:04

I'd have a child if the government guaranteed me affordable housing. As it is, they want me to live at the mercy of landlords so I'll leave worrying about population growth to someone else.

Whatt · 03/06/2023 17:05

Build more council homes.
Allow people to support a family on one wage.
Have more child friendly areas.

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