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to think it matters whether Phillip Schofield met the runner when he was 12 or 15.

258 replies

couldanyoneexplain · 02/06/2023 14:14

I've seen and heard both.
Obviously getting someone a job at 18 or 19 with exploitative intentions is sleazy in the extreme. 15 is underage and deeply concerning, but 12 is deep into paedo territory.

OP posts:
Noshowlomo · 02/06/2023 15:05

It’s disgusting but nothing has come of Leo Dicaprio who met his last girlfriend in the same circs- she’s Al Pacinos step daughter and he met her when she was about 10!! And then they went out when she was 20-25! Not great for either men, but Leo is just made out to be a bit of an old lech for it

LifeIsPainHighness · 02/06/2023 15:06

MrsPelligrinoPetrichor · 02/06/2023 15:02

TBH there’s no evidence whatsoever that PS met this man when he was 10, 13, 15, whatever

There's photographic evidence. It's worth looking at the other thread that's running at the moment PS/ homophobia ,the photos of how young the boy was is really shocking.

when I said meet him I meant in a meaningful way, as in strike up a friendship (apologies I should’ve been clearer!).

LifeIsPainHighness · 02/06/2023 15:07

Noshowlomo · 02/06/2023 15:05

It’s disgusting but nothing has come of Leo Dicaprio who met his last girlfriend in the same circs- she’s Al Pacinos step daughter and he met her when she was about 10!! And then they went out when she was 20-25! Not great for either men, but Leo is just made out to be a bit of an old lech for it

Yes the ‘haha Leo strikes again with his 25 and under girls’.

I won’t have that this isn’t steeped in homophobia. It just is! And also a bored public looking for someone new to flog.

caringcarer · 02/06/2023 15:09

The question I think is did he meet the boy at 12/15 and then keep In touch with him, and then help him apply for a job at 18? OR did he meet the boy when 12/15 and then have no contact with him whatsoever before the boy applied for the job independently and without help from Schofield?

If the latter then still bad because he was married and having sex with a boy younger than his own DD's. If the former then the police should be investigating because in that scenario it would appear to be grooming. If Schofield helped him get the job by setting up an interview etc. then that looks like grooming with intent to progressing to sexual relationship.

Schofield repulses me. Not quite as bad as Saville but on the way there. I think the police need to investigate if there were other victims or this was a one off.

MysteryBelle · 02/06/2023 15:10

halfsiesonapotnoodle · 02/06/2023 14:23

Yes, I'm sick of hearing about it. Have people really got nothing better to do?

It’s difficult to think of anything better to do with one’s time than protecting children from predators, and raising awareness as op is doing falls into that category.

caringcarer · 02/06/2023 15:11

Noshowlomo · 02/06/2023 15:05

It’s disgusting but nothing has come of Leo Dicaprio who met his last girlfriend in the same circs- she’s Al Pacinos step daughter and he met her when she was about 10!! And then they went out when she was 20-25! Not great for either men, but Leo is just made out to be a bit of an old lech for it

But did Leo keep in touch with her for all those years or was it a chance meet up years later?

SoupDragon · 02/06/2023 15:11

Arewehumanorarewecupboards · 02/06/2023 15:00

They are both children and he is a peodophile either way.

Do you have children? How old are they?

You clearly have no idea know what "peodophile" means.

Babsexxx · 02/06/2023 15:11

Exactly! But no one’s saying about that and all congratulated them gave me the absolute ick tbh.

BungleandGeorge · 02/06/2023 15:12

I don’t Think it’s homophobia, the public are just much more accepting of old men being attracted to young women. And if you look at history and still in some cultures it was really common for women to be much younger (possibly partly due to child bearing potential). It’s pretty disgusting with either sex tbh, these are children under 18 or very young adults with people old enough to be their grandparent and with a total mismatch of power.

Noshowlomo · 02/06/2023 15:13

@caringcarer lots of dinners at Al Pacinos house over the years apparently so their paths would have crossed. Keeping in touch though, I can’t say. It’s v odd though.

LittleSnowyOwl · 02/06/2023 15:19

Idk why Schofield thought what he did was okay just because he waited until the CHILD turned 18. He was attracted to a little boy, people don't magically change phsyically when they turn 18. Schofield will have been having thoughts about this kid, he just thought he found a loophole by waiting for his 18th birthday.

LifeIsPainHighness · 02/06/2023 15:24

LittleSnowyOwl · 02/06/2023 15:19

Idk why Schofield thought what he did was okay just because he waited until the CHILD turned 18. He was attracted to a little boy, people don't magically change phsyically when they turn 18. Schofield will have been having thoughts about this kid, he just thought he found a loophole by waiting for his 18th birthday.

Age of consent is 16. There has to be a line somewhere and it’s below 18. No evidence to say he was attracted to ‘a little boy’ FFS.

This is MN though. People are happy to call an 18yo a little boy unless they’re talking in an entirely different context when 18yo’s can be ‘grown men’.

LifeIsPainHighness · 02/06/2023 15:24

Also age of consent is 16, not 18. No loophole involved.

MrsPelligrinoPetrichor · 02/06/2023 15:28

LifeIsPainHighness · 02/06/2023 15:06

when I said meet him I meant in a meaningful way, as in strike up a friendship (apologies I should’ve been clearer!).

Well there is, he was involved the the theatre group the runner belonged it.

LifeIsPainHighness · 02/06/2023 15:29

MrsPelligrinoPetrichor · 02/06/2023 15:28

Well there is, he was involved the the theatre group the runner belonged it.

So? Where is the evidence he coerced and groomed a little boy like people are claiming

JuneOsborne · 02/06/2023 15:29

It's creepy as fuck. I think there's more to come. And I think it's interesting that this has been made into such a big deal. I suspect people know enough to bring him down properly (not just these hints and rumours based on some old photos. I mean proper evidence of wrong doing). It wouldn't have been such a big deal of the lad had started on this morning as an 18yo, Phil met him for the first time and at that point the affair started. Grim, perhaps, but no suggestion of any wrongdoing. But that's not what happened is it?

He can't be the only one. There must be more evidence. This story will run and run till the truth is out, I'm sure.

Outofthepark · 02/06/2023 15:29

Tbh whatever he's done, which is bad (we all know that), I'm worried that the pile on scenario that is happening right now might create a Caroline Flack scenario and I don't want to be part of that.

Changedmymindtoday · 02/06/2023 15:30

I feel sorry for Philip. His biggest issue is that he lied. Cheating on his wife is between him and his wife.

I don’t think for the situation with the young but legal guy is enough to lose his career, and be placed on suicide watch. 2 consenting adults. That’s the bottom line.

uhtredbebbanburg · 02/06/2023 15:31

Both are pretty gross IMO. I have a 12 year old and a 15 year old and I wouldn't want a 40+ year old interested in either of them.

CreepingJenny · 02/06/2023 15:34

LifeIsPainHighness · 02/06/2023 15:24

Age of consent is 16. There has to be a line somewhere and it’s below 18. No evidence to say he was attracted to ‘a little boy’ FFS.

This is MN though. People are happy to call an 18yo a little boy unless they’re talking in an entirely different context when 18yo’s can be ‘grown men’.

Agree with you.

Annasgirl · 02/06/2023 15:35

Do people get paid to come on here and defend him? It’s the only reason I can believe that someone would do this.

MrsPelligrinoPetrichor · 02/06/2023 15:37

Changedmymindtoday · 02/06/2023 15:30

I feel sorry for Philip. His biggest issue is that he lied. Cheating on his wife is between him and his wife.

I don’t think for the situation with the young but legal guy is enough to lose his career, and be placed on suicide watch. 2 consenting adults. That’s the bottom line.

Good grief,there really is no hope with some people . You really think that's the bottom line?

MrsPelligrinoPetrichor · 02/06/2023 15:38

Annasgirl · 02/06/2023 15:35

Do people get paid to come on here and defend him? It’s the only reason I can believe that someone would do this.

I think they must 🙄

ohdelay · 02/06/2023 15:45

Arewehumanorarewecupboards · 02/06/2023 15:00

They are both children and he is a peodophile either way.

Do you have children? How old are they?

I have a thirteen year old boy which is why I can tell the difference between a paedo and a nonce. It's not a hard skill. Both are bad, but one is worse.

User18538754 · 02/06/2023 15:47

A lot of people on here are hoping there is more to come