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Slidingthrulife · 01/06/2023 19:22

Not sure if being Uber sensitive

Husband and I separated after a long marriage and we had a group of friends that were school parents. Primarily friendship with Mums and then husbands came on board

One couple having a significant WA party and have invited a few couples plus my husband. No invite to me - just to him! Had also told the other couples that she had invited only husband. When she found out about separation she had only reached out to him.

Anyway I was out at weekend - school mum came over and chat chat chat but I didn’t really engage in conversation. She didn’t mention party but asked “how I was” but was kind of caught off guard with her being so friendly ….

I Went home and in a fog of gin deleted her off social media as she is a total gossip!

she then text estranged husband and said that she had seen me and I didn’t seem chatty and then I had deleted her off SM

Am I being unreasonable - feel a bit bad and thought maybe I should explain to her but WWYD????

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Pottedpalm · 01/06/2023 19:29

Is it the same woman?

Slidingthrulife · 01/06/2023 19:35

Hi yes same woman all the way through!

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CleanCar · 01/06/2023 19:44

Oh well sounds like youve dodged a bullet. Keep your friends circle small and people you trust. She probably fancies your ex

Slidingthrulife · 01/06/2023 19:52

That’s the thing - we separated very quietly and without a big bang - for many reasons but nothing actually scandalous- more us wanting different things

she would hate that as there has to be a drama

i did think she may fancy him

good luck to them both if that is the case!!!

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