I had a colleague who I’ve seen a couple of times outside of work get annoyed with me because I had dinner with another colleague and didn’t invite her. She was messaging using Teams to essentially have a go at me, it was bizarre.
I confided in another colleague I was a bit upset and she told me she’d done this before to someone else we both still work with and apparently this person got fed up with it and stopped seeing her outside of work.
I just don’t get the intensity and entitlement and to keep repeating that is utterly bizarre to me.