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Sick of some Cornish people bleating on as though they are the worlds only tourist destination

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Endlesssummer2022 · 29/05/2023 19:12

Just read the article below and found a few gems such as these:

’ have you ever wondered where the local people live? Or have you noticed that many of your holiday neighbours are recognisable in the narrow lanes of the pretty fishing villages because they are the same people you live near in London?’

and…

‘Despite what you may have read, we Cornish do welcome visitors and are happy to share our love of our land with you. But it might help if you do a bit of research – Cornwall is fiercely independent and has a proud and unique history and heritage…* *And try not to be rude to local people. If you’ve been asked to not drink from a glass bottle on the beach, there is a reason for that. Don’t forget to tip waiting staff. ‘

What patronising bollocks. So Londoner’s (as those are apparently the only people who visit Cornwall) are so untraveled and boorish we need to be told not to be rude to people, pay tips, not to smash glass bottles in sand, that we’ve bought all of their houses, that it’s ‘their’ land and we’re the ones who are rude?

I’d already decided I wouldn’t go back there after how some of them carried on during Covid but this article has pissed me off. Why would anyone go there when they can go to equally lovely places in the UK/World and not be treated with contempt?

https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2023/may/29/welcome-to-cornwall-please-dont-ruin-it-for-us-local-people

Welcome to Cornwall! Please don’t ruin it for us local people | Natasha Carthew

A little consideration can mean a happy holiday season for everyone, says author Natasha Carthew

https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2023/may/29/welcome-to-cornwall-please-dont-ruin-it-for-us-local-people

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LittleMonks11 · 29/05/2023 20:03

It's a media conflation. Cornish people are gorgeous. Love them. We have been going donkeys and will continue to do so. See you in St Ives late August Daffodil

spir1t · 29/05/2023 20:03

Well, people will always travel and move around and that's life. Nothing anyone can do about it. The whole world descends on London. I hope people will always want to come - even if it means crowds and traffic and inflated house prices. Good. London is better for the tourists and anyone else should wants to stay longer or make a life here. Couldn't imagine taking an attitude of 'this is MY London', just because I live here. Anywhere is free to anyone and nobody owns anywhere except for their own house and garden.

Teddypops · 29/05/2023 20:03

@Paperlate being Cornish has meant that we absolutely know how NOT to behave on holiday,

Cozytoesandtoast00 · 29/05/2023 20:03

kethuphouse · 29/05/2023 20:01

They are unwelcoming to Londoners but the reason we won’t go back is the racism. Are they so cut off from the rest of society that they do not know it’s rude to stare at people ? I’ve never seen anything like it. They don’t even try to hide the fact that they are confused /uncomfortable by black people. So very strange.

Ah ok. I'm black.

Paperlate · 29/05/2023 20:03

Teddypops · 29/05/2023 20:01

I take a 2 week holiday during August to avoid the worst of it.

I do holiday a lot.

And you holiday in other peoples home towns? But that's different is it?

kethuphouse · 29/05/2023 20:03

spir1t · 29/05/2023 20:03

Well, people will always travel and move around and that's life. Nothing anyone can do about it. The whole world descends on London. I hope people will always want to come - even if it means crowds and traffic and inflated house prices. Good. London is better for the tourists and anyone else should wants to stay longer or make a life here. Couldn't imagine taking an attitude of 'this is MY London', just because I live here. Anywhere is free to anyone and nobody owns anywhere except for their own house and garden.

Well said.

Sigmama · 29/05/2023 20:04

Peaches, you could move and let someone who likes people live there

Catspyjamas17 · 29/05/2023 20:04

There was an article about pretty bits of Kent which you can visit on a bicycle on Facebook. Cue lots of comments "Just what we need, more DFLs." (Down From London apparently). Royston Vasey was a documentary!

Paperlate · 29/05/2023 20:04

Cozytoesandtoast00 · 29/05/2023 20:02

I hardly ever contribute to threads but I'm currently on holiday in Cornwall and had a Sainsbury's member of staff and a coffee shop owner be rude to me. I was quite taken aback!

Took your money though I expect.

Sigmama · 29/05/2023 20:05

Peaches, and who on earth can you go to dinner with if people are awful

Aslanplustwo · 29/05/2023 20:06

Living in a country where it is quite common for tourists to behave like absolute arseholes I can understand where they are coming from.

Carpediem15 · 29/05/2023 20:06

Tansytea · 29/05/2023 19:47

It's pathetic isn't it? You'd think that Cornwall is the only destination like this, you don't get people whinging like they are something special in Devon and yet year after year, on it goes. It's not at all that the bad behaviour is acceptable, it's the moaning exceptionalism and the fiercely independent bollocks. Go to Wales instead, it's nicer and you don't have to put up with this load of tosh about being different when in fact it's just like everywhere else in England.

Don't you know that Wales is Cornwall for poor people - or so it was written by a Cornish person on a travel forum. 😎

Teddypops · 29/05/2023 20:06

@Paperlate

I holiday in holiday destinations too. But the difference is I know how to behave.

Cozytoesandtoast00 · 29/05/2023 20:06

Paperlate · 29/05/2023 20:04

Took your money though I expect.

Well we actually left before being served as we didn't feel very welcome.

Tansytea · 29/05/2023 20:07

Carpediem15 · 29/05/2023 20:06

Don't you know that Wales is Cornwall for poor people - or so it was written by a Cornish person on a travel forum. 😎

oh dammit, I'm a poor person and I didn't even realise. That's hilarious.

Catspyjamas17 · 29/05/2023 20:08

Aslanplustwo · 29/05/2023 20:06

Living in a country where it is quite common for tourists to behave like absolute arseholes I can understand where they are coming from.

Yes but two arseholes don't make a good person. No need to pre-judge people before they have done anything. That's prejudice and is in the same vein as racism.

CornishGem1975 · 29/05/2023 20:08

Sigmama · 29/05/2023 19:55

A fair few cornish people own multiple properties that they rent to tourists, its not just 'incomers', If you are lucky enough to live in a beautiful place, visitors are just part of life - get used to it, the cornish do not own cornwall

This. In the past few years I've rented three different properties in Cornwall - around St Ives. All owned by...locals

ProudToBeANorthener · 29/05/2023 20:08

It would be fab. if you’d also stay south of Watford Gap so we don't have to clear up
all your rubbish here either, many thanks 😊

kethuphouse · 29/05/2023 20:09

Cozytoesandtoast00 · 29/05/2023 20:06

Well we actually left before being served as we didn't feel very welcome.

That’s so sad to hear. That has been our experience of Cornwall and our friends too. They’re quite insular people I think, not that that excuses some of the locals behaviour.

ModestMoon · 29/05/2023 20:09

I think they're right. There is no solution to this problem, but obviously it's annoying when your town and local area gets flooded with tourists who disrespect it.

And it's all very well for YOU to say that you're polite and won't shit on the beach. Loads of tourists do treat places that they visit badly, it's a sad fact. A local obviously takes better care of the area, it's their beach and it would be their own neighbours clearing up. Also they're not on holiday mode, it's just another day for them.

disclaimer: I do not live in Cornwall - in fact, I live further away from it than anyone in England - and I do holiday there once every few years.

nosykids · 29/05/2023 20:10

I am not in Cornwall but do live in a town where people tend to congregate from a fairly wide area during nice weather. There was an event in our town yesterday and the police riot van came speeding past me with sirens on as I was waking to pick my dd up from a music lesson - I was a bit worried I was going to struggle to get her back, as she was in the town centre (luckily whatever was happening had settled down by the time I got there). People were absolutely hammered - I don't doubt that some were local and that plenty of people came from outside the area and behaved themselves, but there is a significant minority of dickhead visitors and we find we're unable to enjoy our own town when they descend. I'm sure the situation is similar in Cornwall and I doubt those people on facebook are talking specifically about you, assuming you don't behave like an idiot when you visit.

ThatshallotBaby · 29/05/2023 20:10

I am sympathetic to the Cornish. I live in the other popular destination, and some tourists are extremely irritating.

Lilacscrunchie · 29/05/2023 20:11

I'm Cornish and today I had a tourist park and block my drive. They also left a nappy full of poo on my garden wall. Open and not closed / wrapped up in a parcel.

I have it all recorded on my Ring doorbell. I'm a nice person and I treat everyone with kindness but it sucks when they literally shit on your belongings 😔

Paperlate · 29/05/2023 20:11

ModestMoon · 29/05/2023 20:09

I think they're right. There is no solution to this problem, but obviously it's annoying when your town and local area gets flooded with tourists who disrespect it.

And it's all very well for YOU to say that you're polite and won't shit on the beach. Loads of tourists do treat places that they visit badly, it's a sad fact. A local obviously takes better care of the area, it's their beach and it would be their own neighbours clearing up. Also they're not on holiday mode, it's just another day for them.

disclaimer: I do not live in Cornwall - in fact, I live further away from it than anyone in England - and I do holiday there once every few years.

It's not their beach though. It doesn't belong to the locals.

Lilacscrunchie · 29/05/2023 20:12

The accent and car sticker flag was the clue.

But then, I guess, locals can behave similarly 😢

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