Hi all, but of back story will try to keep this short. Separated from soon to be ex husband in December 2019, he didn't pay a penny of CMS until July 2020 and offered £80 per month. Went to CMS in March 2022 as I was really struggling with costs for everything for 2 x DS, one is now 12 and other is almost 7. Their dad now pays £190 per month however at yearly CMS review this was upped to £230 per month given his salary increase of £5k. He claimed this was due to high amounts of overtime which he is no longer getting according to him, and he has said he is living on credit cards as he has no extra cash (basic salary is £27.5k). He has now dropped one night per month, so sees boys 144 nights per year which would drop him another CMS overnight bracket. I have had to block his number and block him from social media as he is narcissistic, controlling and attempting to poison kids minds (don't speak about mums boyfriend in front of me, don't let him tell you what to do) for context I don't live with my new partner, have been together 2 years and my boys have only recently met him.
AIBU to contact CMS to advise of the change in overnight stays given his claims he is barely surviving on his salary due to debt? I think I am mostly scared of his reaction, relationship ended due to DV incident which ubfortunately I didn't report to police 😕 if you've made it this far thank you lol x