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Meeting · 25/05/2023 12:55

The Theatre Royal Stratford East is putting on a show and have blocked out 2 dates as "Blackout" nights where they encourage (but I don't think plan to enforce) that only black people may attend these performances.

I saw them discussing it on Piers Morgan and neither of the guests advocating for it were able to convince me that this type of segregation was at all beneficial.

Does anybody think this is a good idea? Personally I think segregation based on skin colour has no place in society, no matter who benefits from it. But I'm interested to hear from others who might away it differently?

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pussycatinfluffyslippers · 25/05/2023 15:49

I've been thinking about this...
My friend and her children have black heritage through her Jamaican dad.
The kids (2 young adults and a teen) have blonde hair and a "scandi" appearance.
Would they be allowed in because of their black grandparent?

NewAnon · 25/05/2023 15:49

hiahiawatha · 25/05/2023 15:30

Create equity isn't the same as treating everyone equally.

Ooofff this is so so wrong and depressing to read. Actually makes me want to cry with how twisted this is.

I'm curious about your perspective.

To me it seems instinctive that giving each individual or group of people the same resources or opportunities is not as useful as allocating the resources and opportunities as-needed to reach an equal outcome. So focus on the outcome, rather than the action.

At the moment black people have the same opportunity to visit the theatre as white people - anyone can buy a ticket.

But the theatre industry is historically white dominated, which is an issue that Society of London Theatre observed back in 2020.

So, making it more compelling for black people (who choose to) to visit the theatre, is an equitable thing to do.

Source: https://solt.co.uk/about-london-theatre/press-office/statement-from-society-of-london-theatre-and-uk-theatre-on-improving-diversity-in-the-industry/

JustBeKindItsEasy · 25/05/2023 15:49

BadNomad · 25/05/2023 15:42

Is it discrimination when a child with a barrier to learning gets extra help and attention to achieve their potential when the other children don't get that? Should the child just be allowed to fail because at least everyone will be being treated the same?

That's what positive discrimination is. It is giving assistance to groups of people so they, as a group, will have equal opportunities. It is not all about natural ability and qualification. If only one in six people in engineering is female, then that will put off other females from pursuing that as a career because it is seen as a "male" career, and as a minority they will face bias and one-sided attitudes from within that environment, and likely be discriminated against at the application/interview level.

But if you force these environments to be more equal, then application/interviews will eventually become fairer, and those sexist/racist/sectarian attitudes won't thrive from within. Same for the police. Same for teaching. These are profession which are all dominated by certain groups which has nothing to do with them being the best people for the job.

I’m an architect in my 50s
There are / were very few of us. Female btw.
It never put me off studying the subject, how many men were in it is irrelevant to me.
No one sided views, attitudes, discrimination.
Contractors always raised an eyebrow with a “ wow we have a lady architect” but if anything found it refreshing.

One of my sons is studying a subject that has about 5% males, apparently. Did he think of this before he decided it was a subject / job he would live …no.

Discrimination is discrimination…

Nevermind31 · 25/05/2023 15:50

I’m not black, so not up to me to be offended here.
are black people offended? I think that’s what counts - is this othering a part of society based on skin colour? Does this imply that black people need special incentives to enjoy the arts? If it is welcome… fine.

Clarabe1 · 25/05/2023 15:52

I find it ironic that black people rightfully and bravely fought against imposed racial segregation and now some seem to want segregation back. Surely the natural progression will then be white only spaces. Bewildering. I imagine Martin Luther King would be spinning in his grave if he could see it.

wioop · 25/05/2023 15:53

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CandyLips · 25/05/2023 15:54

FreedomDrops · 25/05/2023 15:31

A more diverse audience overall, not on any particular night. Anyone who goes to the theatre knows that the audience is overwhelmingly and disproportionately white.

Why is this the case?

wioop · 25/05/2023 15:54

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BadNomad · 25/05/2023 15:55

JustBeKindItsEasy · 25/05/2023 15:49

I’m an architect in my 50s
There are / were very few of us. Female btw.
It never put me off studying the subject, how many men were in it is irrelevant to me.
No one sided views, attitudes, discrimination.
Contractors always raised an eyebrow with a “ wow we have a lady architect” but if anything found it refreshing.

One of my sons is studying a subject that has about 5% males, apparently. Did he think of this before he decided it was a subject / job he would live …no.

Discrimination is discrimination…

That's you, though. Do you not understand not everyone is like you? Do you not understand that not every woman wants to study hard then spend the rest of their lives having to deal with men's surprise and comments on their sex? Your son is studying a subject that has about 5% males. You don't see anything wrong about there being jobs out there that are so imbalanced? Maybe there would be more men choosing that as a career if more were encouraged to train for it.

Rosscameasdoody · 25/05/2023 15:55

I saw this earlier in the week and had an interesting conversation with a couple of my friends of colour. They were against it, saying they thought it was divisive and that the language used to make the suggestion was offensive - creating a safe space for a black audience to examine race issues ‘away from the white gaze’. They also pointed out - and I agree somewhat - that although it was a request for white people not to attend, and not a ban, in the same situation a ‘request’ for black people not to attend an event specifically arranged for white people would cause outrage. To be honest I don’t think there was any way to handle this without causing offence.

wioop · 25/05/2023 15:55

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Kanaloa · 25/05/2023 15:56

Clarabe1 · 25/05/2023 15:52

I find it ironic that black people rightfully and bravely fought against imposed racial segregation and now some seem to want segregation back. Surely the natural progression will then be white only spaces. Bewildering. I imagine Martin Luther King would be spinning in his grave if he could see it.

Exactly. And right next to him Emmeline Pankhurst will be sitting bolt upright in her grave at the idea that all her work fighting for female equality was pointless since women still have their own spaces and groups segregated from men.

Choosing to participate in an event separately from the powerful majority group in the country you live in is not the same thing as being excluded from the majority group in every aspect of life.

CandyLips · 25/05/2023 15:56

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I was wondering if it was more to do with topics/themes etc?

Meeting · 25/05/2023 15:56

Clarabe1 · 25/05/2023 15:52

I find it ironic that black people rightfully and bravely fought against imposed racial segregation and now some seem to want segregation back. Surely the natural progression will then be white only spaces. Bewildering. I imagine Martin Luther King would be spinning in his grave if he could see it.

Couldn't agree more!

My race still hasn't got equality, I can't imagine us fighting to be more segregated

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limitedperiodonly · 25/05/2023 15:57

The Theatre Royal Stratford East is an excellent theatre with ground-breaking and thought-provoking plays. Local resident, Sir Ian McKellen, usually does the Christmas panto. I've been going since 1985. You should try it. You might learn something.

If you are not black they will let you in. The performances aren't exclusively for black people.

BadNomad · 25/05/2023 16:00

Meeting · 25/05/2023 15:56

Couldn't agree more!

My race still hasn't got equality, I can't imagine us fighting to be more segregated

Yeah, well the theatre isn't about bringing black and white people together in unity. It's about going to see this particular show, which the majority of POC won't do because they won't feel comfortable. So how is that fair, equal and inclusive?

SimonsCow · 25/05/2023 16:06

They have said that the performance is aimed at black people. White people may attend if they wish but they are not the target audience. It’s like saying the show will be in Spanish but feel free to come along even if you don’t speak Spanish- you won’t understand a word of it though.

Get off your high horse.

MasterBeth · 25/05/2023 16:06

Meeting · 25/05/2023 15:14

I've tried, nobody has given any explanation as to why separating black and white people is not segregation.

All people seem to be able to focus on is the fact that white people are "technically" allowed to attend. That's clearly not the objective or the Blackout event wouldn't exist at all.

Segregation was the forced enactment of US racism under the law. Black Americans were forced permanently into inferior schools, hospitals, housing etc. They were not allowed to share the same bus seats or theatre seats at all. They were denied a full vote until 1965.

This is a voluntary gathering of black people to watch a play that reflects their experience of racism. In every other performance, mixed audiences can watch and learn together. In one performance, white audiences are asked to voluntarily abstain from the show so that black audiences can watch it in a different context.

These things are not the same.

CandyLips · 25/05/2023 16:07

MasterBeth · 25/05/2023 16:06

Segregation was the forced enactment of US racism under the law. Black Americans were forced permanently into inferior schools, hospitals, housing etc. They were not allowed to share the same bus seats or theatre seats at all. They were denied a full vote until 1965.

This is a voluntary gathering of black people to watch a play that reflects their experience of racism. In every other performance, mixed audiences can watch and learn together. In one performance, white audiences are asked to voluntarily abstain from the show so that black audiences can watch it in a different context.

These things are not the same.

Is there a lot of audience participation or interaction then?

Meeting · 25/05/2023 16:08

It's about going to see this particular show, which the majority of POC won't do because they won't feel comfortable

Why not?

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crosstalk · 25/05/2023 16:12

I think it's an interesting experiment that they might live stream if they can or do so for other performances. I hope they do well with their two nights and that antagonistic white people don't make a thing of insisting on going. I agree it's like allowing people to breathe and enjoy just as a PP said a woman only audience of Vagina Monologues.

JustBeKindItsEasy · 25/05/2023 16:13

BadNomad · 25/05/2023 15:55

That's you, though. Do you not understand not everyone is like you? Do you not understand that not every woman wants to study hard then spend the rest of their lives having to deal with men's surprise and comments on their sex? Your son is studying a subject that has about 5% males. You don't see anything wrong about there being jobs out there that are so imbalanced? Maybe there would be more men choosing that as a career if more were encouraged to train for it.

Re the difference in sexes for choice of career
I don’t think anyone can force a particular sex to like.a Particular subject or career.
If more men happen to enjoy art than women. It is what it is. No one is not allowed to strive for their desire.
In terms of my sons particular choice I suppose I’m not surprised. It’s animal / science based, not a high earner, most of the employers are charities. He followed his heart and not his wallet, I guess.

Im glad no one tried to force him in another direction, just to make up the numbers ( had he chosen a career that is more male based )

TrashyPanda · 25/05/2023 16:13

Anyone who goes to the theatre knows that the audience is overwhelmingly and disproportionately white

that does not mean there are not many diverse groups within that audience.

TonTonMacoute · 25/05/2023 16:13

Rosscameasdoody · 25/05/2023 15:55

I saw this earlier in the week and had an interesting conversation with a couple of my friends of colour. They were against it, saying they thought it was divisive and that the language used to make the suggestion was offensive - creating a safe space for a black audience to examine race issues ‘away from the white gaze’. They also pointed out - and I agree somewhat - that although it was a request for white people not to attend, and not a ban, in the same situation a ‘request’ for black people not to attend an event specifically arranged for white people would cause outrage. To be honest I don’t think there was any way to handle this without causing offence.

Agree with this.

Im not offended but I think it's a very depressing move.

It is accentuating difference and division and doesn't seem very positive in developing better community relations.

MasterBeth · 25/05/2023 16:15

CandyLips · 25/05/2023 16:07

Is there a lot of audience participation or interaction then?

I don't know. I don't think that matters.

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